[MickeyCheeky]

I'm not good at anything. That's not an exaggeration, it's true. I'm doomed to be a failure. I'm actually a failure already. What's the point of studying if I know I'm going to fail anyway? I don't even like what I'm doing. That's not what I want to do in my life. But I have no other choice. I'm stuck with it. That's why I know I'm doomed. I'm just a burden on other people's shoulders. I'm so sorry to have disappointed so many people. I'm sorry for existing. I didn't deserve your trust, or my parents' trust, or anyone's trust. I'm just a disappointment and a failure. I haven't accomplished anything worth remembering in my life. I know I never will. I'm just a pathetic person. I'm so sorry, everyone.

[cryingontheinside]

You are not pathetic ! You are amazing . I'm sorry you are feeling so down . we all love you here . you can pm me any time . hugs .

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((( hugs )))))))))
You’re none of those bad things. You’re loved here, please don’t give up my friend

[Thirty shades]

You are always there for people here. Thank you for being here.
You are not a failure
Our health teaches us to attack ourselves
We are all good people suffering...

Much love to all

[MickeyCheeky]

Thank you so much guys for your support. You're all wonderful. Sending many hugs to everyone

[OliverB]

You are not worthless

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

I'm not good at anything. That's not an exaggeration, it's true. I'm doomed to be a failure. I'm actually a failure already. What's the point of studying if I know I'm going to fail anyway? I don't even like what I'm doing. That's not what I want to do in my life. But I have no other choice. I'm stuck with it. That's why I know I'm doomed. I'm just a burden on other people's shoulders. I'm so sorry to have disappointed so many people. I'm sorry for existing. I didn't deserve your trust, or my parents' trust, or anyone's trust. I'm just a disappointment and a failure. I haven't accomplished anything worth remembering in my life. I know I never will. I'm just a pathetic person. I'm so sorry, everyone.

I am in awe of how bilingual you are. I can only speak English. I have never seen you speak badly about anyone--I need to follow your example. I rant and complain. Thanks for being an example to me. I wish I were more like you!

Are you sure you are going to fail? Have you failed any college classes so far? Try not to worry if you are not getting top marks. Mostly, it got easier for me the longer I stayed in college. Hopefully, it will work out that way for you too. Hugs.

[MtnTime2896]

Mickey, you are the most caring, compassionate and sweet user on this forum. You are always there to support me, no matter what. You're here for me more than all but one person I know in real life. The least I can do is be here for you through this and tell you over and over (until you believe it) that you're not pathetic. You help people, my friend. You help a lot of people. That's your gift. That's what you're good at. If it's something you like, could you pursue that?

All my hugs and love to you. You'll get through this. I'll be here for you all the while.

[Sunflower123]

I agree with the above post. You are the sweetest person on this forum. I see your posts and it warms my heart and makes me smile. Please don’t give up on yourself. You are not a failure or a burden. Please be gentle and kind to yourself. You deserve that. You have done something worth remembering in your life - you make a difference and touch lives every time you post my friend. What you do matters. Sending big hugs and supportive vibes.

I’m sorry you’re feeling so badly. If it helps any... I think everybody has these kinds of thoughts and feelings some days. I know I do. I know that school can really burn you out. I was very tired and burned out from school. Hang in there though because you eventually get through it and you’ll be amazed at the value of your education later on. You’re learning and gaining new skills you don’t even realize at the time. You’ve consistently been a bright shining light here on PC and I think that says a lot about the kind of person you truly are.

[CepheidVariable]

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

I'm not good at anything. That's not an exaggeration, it's true. I'm doomed to be a failure. I'm actually a failure already. What's the point of studying if I know I'm going to fail anyway? I don't even like what I'm doing. That's not what I want to do in my life. But I have no other choice. I'm stuck with it. That's why I know I'm doomed. I'm just a burden on other people's shoulders. I'm so sorry to have disappointed so many people. I'm sorry for existing. I didn't deserve your trust, or my parents' trust, or anyone's trust. I'm just a disappointment and a failure. I haven't accomplished anything worth remembering in my life. I know I never will. I'm just a pathetic person. I'm so sorry, everyone.

I'm sorry it's so awful, MickeyCheeky.

You're steadfastly supportive of so many people here and always jumping in to help newcomers. Your posts are really great!


You don't have to be sorry for everything. Even if it were true, failing isn't a betrayal of trust. Knowingly choosing to hurt someone is a betrayal of trust. I know myself how terrible repeated failures are. It's hurts you; But it is not you.

I read an article about what people look for in potential friends (not just acquaintances). The number one thing? Not accomplishment, or intelligence, or skills. What topped the list was kindness.

You are remembered, and well.

And you don't fail at everything, you just can't see it right now. Maybe get some people who know you IRL to give you a list of good things about you. It's hugely awkward I know, but the answers are often quite moving.

Sorry, I should hold back on advice unless asked ... but we are here for you. You are a good and admirable person.

[Mopey]

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

I'm not good at anything. That's not an exaggeration, it's true. I'm doomed to be a failure. I'm actually a failure already. What's the point of studying if I know I'm going to fail anyway? I don't even like what I'm doing. That's not what I want to do in my life. But I have no other choice. I'm stuck with it. That's why I know I'm doomed. I'm just a burden on other people's shoulders. I'm so sorry to have disappointed so many people. I'm sorry for existing. I didn't deserve your trust, or my parents' trust, or anyone's trust. I'm just a disappointment and a failure. I haven't accomplished anything worth remembering in my life. I know I never will. I'm just a pathetic person. I'm so sorry, everyone.

What??? Where in the world did this come from, Sweetheart? Since you’re always the first to support someone else who is hurting, sometimes it’s hard to realize you must somehow be hurting, yourself, or you wouldn’t have joined this forum. I’ve wondered about that.

Has something happened? Recently? In any case, many many hugs. I very seriously doubt that you’ve ever failed anybody, although I suppose we all do in one way or another, at some time. After all, we are but human.

Please, do keep posting about what is bothering you. ❤️

[mote.of.soul]

Yes, I've been a member here for a year now and right from day one I've noticed you never have a bad word to say about anyone [?!] - I think it's a sign of a very special soul, tbh. I also think the support and love you show people Mickey, is an accomplishment - a proper accomplishment - and I hope these negative self feelings you're having will pass soon. Good on you for posting this as well because self honesty encourages people to be real with themselves too - it's important. Sending you vital energies...(((MickeyCheeky)))

[MickeyCheeky]

Thank you guys SO MUCH for all the support you're giving me I'm grateful for being here with you all. I almost feel like I don't deserve you. I guess I just don't know what to do with my life... my future is uncertain, and frankly at time I almost feel like I don't care. That's why I'm aksing what's the point, I guess. Not to mentions I'm stressed because of university... I'll try to find some distractions. But it won't be easy. I feel like I'm just avoiding my problems and not facing reality. Either way, thank you all so much. You're all wonderful people and you don't deserve to suffer, not even a little. Sending many hugs to everyone

[Mopey]

Are you just getting ready to graduate, Mickey? Facing finals?

[Mopey]

Just wondering. There's nothing like school pressure, or life pressure, for that matter, to set a person off. A big life change, that sort of thing.

[MickeyCheeky]

No, I'm not at that point yet, Mopey... just normal exams for now. But I'm still very worried, and I wonder if it will be worth it in the end Thank you so much for listening. You're all wonderful people. Sending many hugs to everyone

[luvyrself]

What subject is your major now? Do you like it/. You are one of the most caring and supportive people on the forum. I hope you can align your career choice w helping people because you seem so empathetic.

[Mopey]

Yes, Sweetheart, are you possibly questioning the choice of major you have made? Let us know if you want to discuss it further.

[MickeyCheeky]

Thank you so much, guys Yes, I'm definitely questioning it. I don't know what I want to do with my life. I guess that's what makes me sad above everything else. The future just seems hopeless. Thank you so much for listening to me rambling. You're all awesome. Sending many hugs to everyone

[mountainstream]

I’m sending hugs and support.

[downandlonely]

Mickey, I don't know what you're studying, but you are not pathetic.

You are a good and kind person who is very supportive of everyone else on here.

Also, your English is excellent. I teach English as a Second Language so I should know. Have you thought about going into translation?

[MickeyCheeky]

Thank you so much, downandlonely I'm actually studying languages right now. And, like I've said, I'm not sure this is what I want to do with my life I'm not even sure I'm that good at it. Thank you so much for listening. Sending many hugs to everyone

[Marylin]

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

I'm not good at anything. That's not an exaggeration, it's true. I'm doomed to be a failure. I'm actually a failure already. What's the point of studying if I know I'm going to fail anyway? I don't even like what I'm doing. That's not what I want to do in my life. But I have no other choice. I'm stuck with it. That's why I know I'm doomed. I'm just a burden on other people's shoulders. I'm so sorry to have disappointed so many people. I'm sorry for existing. I didn't deserve your trust, or my parents' trust, or anyone's trust. I'm just a disappointment and a failure. I haven't accomplished anything worth remembering in my life. I know I never will. I'm just a pathetic person. I'm so sorry, everyone.

Big hugs to you Mickeycheeky!You are none of those things you are not a failure.If you are unhappy doing the course of study that you are on,is it possible to switch to a different course?Maybe have a word with your tutors you may find that all is not lost.You must have faith in yourself.Here you are so supportive to us and kind and reassuring,I value you and every word you say,when I am down you are one of the first people to comfort me.I don't see you disappoint anyone.I like you and care about you a lot.If you are unhappy though that makes me sad.I hope you can find a solution to your problems with your studies.Don't feel bad about yourself because of this,seek a solution.Hugs and lots of love to you.

[Fuzzybear]

I completely agree with this..

“Failing isn’t a betrayal of trust.
Knowingly and choosing to hurt someone is a betrayal of trust”

Many hugs to you