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Old Jul 11, 2019, 07:22 AM
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Dear Little Turtle, your body houses a great library of impressions and experiences. Be comfortable, but, when it is easy for you, please do not be silent.
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 08:35 AM
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I agree with Rohag. Much love and respect to all on the As Is Bus
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 08:40 AM
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dear rohag....what can i say...
i am really worried about other persons suffering from depression...
i ponder all the time about whether eating well has anything to do with this depression...
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 08:55 AM
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dear rohag again...i also worry about what is causing all this depression...
what is the cause for each individual...it may be serotonin...but maybe not...
what is really causing all of this suffering...
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 09:29 AM
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I’ve become more invisible irl

Does anyone have any idea what might be causing this

People simply ignore me.. after I’ve maybe said one or two (neutral or positive) words
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 09:45 AM
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I’ve become more invisible irl

Does anyone have any idea what might be causing this

People simply ignore me.. after I’ve maybe said one or two (neutral or positive) words
You'd first need to be confident and maintain a good posture. Then you'll have to be positive and say hi to both the people you don't know and you know. Effective communication is a skill that can be acquired by practice. Just go with the flow once you're comfortable.


That's all. You'll become popular. I am speaking from experience.
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 10:17 AM
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It really is irl I’m talking about,

I don’t want to give the details, papa bear doesn’t think it’s significant

It’s “strangers”...

(Shut up bear and stop “whining” )
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 10:18 AM
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You'd first need to be confident and maintain a good posture. Then you'll have to be positive and say hi to both the people you don't know and you know. Effective communication is a skill that can be acquired by practice. Just go with the flow once you're comfortable.


That's all. You'll become popular. I am speaking from experience.
Thanks, I’ll try this
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 10:30 AM
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dear rohag again...i also worry about what is causing all this depression...
what is the cause for each individual...it may be serotonin...but maybe not...
what is really causing all of this suffering...
Rohag has a lot of good questions

I question if anyone really has many answers ...

For me it may be partly serotonin but that’s going down a route I don’t want to go (allergies to meds )

Trauma for some is a factor, cptsd, I know you know this little turtle
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 10:32 AM
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Where is Rohag? I don’t think he wants to be the bus driver
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 11:37 AM
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dear rohag again...i also worry about what is causing all this depression...
what is the cause for each individual...it may be serotonin...but maybe not...
what is really causing all of this suffering...
I believe that our long term suffering comes from emotional pain. It drags us down and drowns us. We cannot see it clearly through the murky water.

We just experience it as depression and anxiety.

Love and acceptance for all would be a better cure.

Much love and acceptance to all
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 11:40 AM
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I’ve become more invisible irl

Does anyone have any idea what might be causing this

People simply ignore me.. after I’ve maybe said one or two (neutral or positive) words
Your withdrawal from the rejection is a wise human choice.

I think IRL they sense we are emotionally overloaded. They recoil faster than my snake dear friend.

Sending hugs and respect to you and everyone on the bus
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 11:57 AM
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Your withdrawal from the rejection is a wise human choice.

I think IRL they sense we are emotionally overloaded. They recoil faster than my snake dear friend.

Sending hugs and respect to you and everyone on the bus
I think you’re right dear friend

Hugs and respect to you and all on the bus
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 11:58 AM
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I believe that our long term suffering comes from emotional pain. It drags us down and drowns us. We cannot see it clearly through the murky water.

We just experience it as depression and anxiety.

Love and acceptance for all would be a better cure.

Much love and acceptance to all
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 03:32 PM
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Thank you to all on the As Is Bus for being here and for accepting people AS IS

Much love
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Old Jul 11, 2019, 09:08 PM
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Where is Rohag? I don’t think he wants to be the bus driver
Long ago I became too distractable and too easily overwhelmed by stimuli. My driving days are over.
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I believe that our long term suffering comes from emotional pain. ... We just experience it as depression and anxiety.
Well said! I much prefer this explanation to some others I've heard or read.
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Old Jul 12, 2019, 02:09 PM
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Long ago I became too distractable and too easily overwhelmed by stimuli. My driving days are over.

Well said! I much prefer this explanation to some others I've heard or read.
Good post Rohag. Words are so important. Your words are always respectful and true

Judgmental words to describe our suffering.... are ... not helpful
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 08:33 AM
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I breakdown when something in life is not working out for me...
underneath all of this is FEAR....I am very scared now...
I am afraid of so many things that are happening...
and I am a hypochondriac....on the AS IS bus...
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 08:40 AM
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Past trials and tribulations for me include moving often growing up. Oh your the new kid, we don’t like you was the response from other junior high girls. Moved again in high school much better place, made some friends, joined the swim team. Lived my life some. Doing my job, attempting a career, boss totally makes me feel like back in junior high or worse. Moved again and living near family, able to visit dad who has stage 4 cancer. Glad I made a move to be near family and able to visit my dad before he passed last year.
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 09:37 AM
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thanks zapatoes....i am feeling very sad about all the people that are suffering out there..
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 11:25 AM
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Grrrrrrrr

Life sucks

When will people STOP judging

(Not about anyone here)
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 11:30 AM
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I breakdown when something in life is not working out for me...
underneath all of this is FEAR....I am very scared now...
I am afraid of so many things that are happening...
and I am a hypochondriac....on the AS IS bus...
I can relate

I find medical stuff (of which I have plenty ) very scary

And I hate talking about it.. it doesn’t help

Finding I’ve woken up one morning with other angels would help

Other angels like fuzzy bear

(And no I’m not a narcissist)

Thank you little turtle and all on the bus for all the good, compassionate and true posts. I never come on the bus and feel worse afterwards..

Unlike so many other places

And I don’t feel like I have to censor every little thing I say so I don’t get bitten

I have teeth too, for a reason, but I am NOT a nasty bear

Love to all in the as is bus
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 11:51 AM
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 11:54 AM
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good fuzzy

we may have lost a lot fuzzy...but we are not losers ...
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Old Jul 13, 2019, 01:12 PM
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