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Old Jul 17, 2020, 08:02 AM
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i come from a very dysfunctional family...screwed up
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Old Jul 17, 2020, 10:31 AM
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i come from a very dysfunctional family...screwed up
This may be is the real reason many are depressed.

I have a dysfunctional family too.

I tried to do it differently with my own.

It was working...
But now I worry the dysfunctional ones are causing pain now they are grown up, that I can no longer protect them from.
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Old Jul 17, 2020, 10:32 AM
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I did not choose to be me...
I was born AS IS

I will continue to be AS IS...
Its the best I can do...
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Old Jul 17, 2020, 02:29 PM
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Could depression and anxiety be a reaction to human trauma?

Many have depression when they have been diagnosed with a physical illness.
Or mental torture.

Not enough is known about all mental heath conditions.

Much love and hugs to all on the bus
I am facing mental torture every day and physical torture too. This has been happening for the past 6+ years. Can't say beyond this.
How I wish this ends and I can go off to somewhere where they cannot get hold of me any more. If only I could get back to the life I left behind in 2014....
The trauma doesn't end even for one day....
You people keep me going. I hang in there hoping that this too shall pass....
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Old Jul 17, 2020, 05:16 PM
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I am facing mental torture every day and physical torture too. This has been happening for the past 6+ years. Can't say beyond this.
How I wish this ends and I can go off to somewhere where they cannot get hold of me any more. If only I could get back to the life I left behind in 2014....
The trauma doesn't end even for one day....
You people keep me going. I hang in there hoping that this too shall pass....
what is going on mimi...that sounds awful...sending you love
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Old Jul 17, 2020, 08:33 PM
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what is going on mimi...that sounds awful...sending you love
Thanks.
Right now I cannot say more, I wish I could tho.....no one will believe me atm.... maybe one day I will be able to.....
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Old Jul 18, 2020, 08:23 AM
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i saw so many awful things in psychiatry...
the biggest---suicide
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Old Jul 18, 2020, 08:33 AM
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i saw so many awful things in psychiatry...
the biggest---suicide
That must have been real tough for you

An added weight to carry.
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Old Jul 18, 2020, 08:37 AM
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I am not just one me.

There are different parts of me.

There is a big piece of me carries a huge scar causing ongoing pain.

I am going to try something new next week.

I wonder if I will ever find my pure self hiding somewhere deep inside....
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Old Jul 18, 2020, 11:24 AM
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I am not just one me.

There are different parts of me.

There is a big piece of me carries a huge scar causing ongoing pain.

I am going to try something new next week.

I wonder if I will ever find my pure self hiding somewhere deep inside....
i like what you are doing...
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Old Jul 18, 2020, 11:52 AM
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i saw so many awful things in psychiatry...
the biggest---suicide
Good post. I have experienced .....
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Old Jul 18, 2020, 01:43 PM
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Good post. I have experienced .....
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love to all on the bus
Hugs dear Fuzzybear

We are here for you on the bus.

Much love and respect to you and all on the bus
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Old Jul 20, 2020, 01:02 PM
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Hugs to all. Keep on pluggin'

And Mimi - dear - is there really no way out? It almost sounds as if you're enslaved, or in prison, or something.....
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Old Jul 20, 2020, 01:53 PM
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Hugs to all. Keep on pluggin'

And Mimi - dear - is there really no way out? It almost sounds as if you're enslaved, or in prison, or something.....
mimi we are worried about you....mopey did really good here...
mimi let us know whatever you can...we love you...you are precious
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 07:00 AM
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i am a mess this am...trying to stay away from my valium in the closet...
i have walked and talked and was practicing mindfulness...and had cup of coffee..
not as bad now but still scared about what i might find out in town...the agora...
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 07:41 AM
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i haven't learned yet that when i am in a panic mode ....it changes...
i think that if i don't fight that panic ...that something bad will happen to me...like going crazy
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 09:39 AM
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Hugs to all. Keep on pluggin'

And Mimi - dear - is there really no way out? It almost sounds as if you're enslaved, or in prison, or something.....
Not if I cannot move to somewhere else.
My ex Indian American boyfriend and his elder brother and their relations and friends are trolling me and making my life miserable. I can't go to the police against them as they have friends in the police and even politician friends.
Sigh....
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 09:43 AM
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mimi we are worried about you....mopey did really good here...
mimi let us know whatever you can...we love you...you are precious
Thank you
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 01:00 PM
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Not if I cannot move to somewhere else.
My ex Indian American boyfriend and his elder brother and their relations and friends are trolling me and making my life miserable. I can't go to the police against them as they have friends in the police and even politician friends.
Sigh....
Gosh, Mimi, that sounds awful. Sounds as if you are well and truly stuck.

Is there any chance that you can move somewhere else?
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 01:26 PM
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i haven't learned yet that when i am in a panic mode ....it changes...
i think that if i don't fight that panic ...that something bad will happen to me...like going crazy
Turtle, those panic attacks sound horrible. No wonder you want to reach for the valium!
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Old Jul 21, 2020, 08:32 PM
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Gosh, Mimi, that sounds awful. Sounds as if you are well and truly stuck.

Is there any chance that you can move somewhere else?
Not atm
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Old Jul 22, 2020, 12:49 PM
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Not atm
I was afraid you were going to say that.

Perhaps in the future.
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Old Jul 23, 2020, 10:21 AM
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marriage trouble again...frustrating
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Old Jul 23, 2020, 10:42 AM
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Little Turtle, are these current marriage challenges new issues, or are they of long duration?
Asked differently, are these issues more related to age and aging, or are they issues that persist from much earlier in your marriage?
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