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Old Apr 19, 2022, 07:18 AM
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i am feeling sorry for the little turtle...
for what has happened in my life..
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Old Apr 19, 2022, 08:08 AM
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for what has happened in my life..
Simple musings: How does one judge or evaluate what has happened in one's life? No matter how hard I try, I have no confidence I could ever fully "step outside myself" into a place of perfect objectivity. That kind of clarity will not be available to me. And...I do not trust others to do it "for" me, regardless of their "credentials."

???

But, I am human, and I cannot help but judge myself.
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Old Apr 23, 2022, 08:59 AM
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Simple musings: How does one judge or evaluate what has happened in one's life? No matter how hard I try, I have no confidence I could ever fully "step outside myself" into a place of perfect objectivity. That kind of clarity will not be available to me. And...I do not trust others to do it "for" me, regardless of their "credentials."

???

But, I am human, and I cannot help but judge myself.
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Old Apr 23, 2022, 11:19 AM
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Old Apr 25, 2022, 08:41 AM
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ok i am in the back of the BUS......
i have been very depressed...and angry and afraid..
i started this morning to go back on my celexa and valium...
my meditation and stress less was not good enough...
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Old Apr 28, 2022, 09:33 PM
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That sucks....

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Old Apr 28, 2022, 09:44 PM
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i am feeling sorry for the little turtle...
for what has happened in my life..
much love and respect to you dear little turtle
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Old Apr 30, 2022, 11:31 AM
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Antidepressants ... They cause me extreme allergies It's VERY DEPRESSING
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Old Apr 30, 2022, 11:43 AM
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That word ...

I wish they would STOP
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Old Apr 30, 2022, 11:53 AM
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Confessions of little turtle with love #6
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Old May 04, 2022, 10:15 AM
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Confessions of little turtle with love #6
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You always have the right to defend yourself. Abusive people will act like you don't have to right to stand up to them, disagree with them, voice your opinions, express your emotions, or say anything in response to their criticisms, accusations, sarcasm, bullying, rudeness or cruelty. You have every right in the world to stand up for yourself. Unfairness, disrespect, hypocrisy and double standards are red flags for narcissistic and emotional abuse.
Defending oneself...
Not always easy...
Depends much on the opponent...
When the opponent is one or more memories...
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Old May 08, 2022, 07:11 AM
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Hi everyone. I was horribly sick the past few months. I am still sick but the depression has lifted a bit since this may 3, miraculously. I still feel hopeless and helpless.
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Old May 08, 2022, 09:22 PM
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I have a confession to make. Like I have already mentioned, I have been very sick, both mentally and physically. I tried to kill myself last week by od on benzos, but I survived. I was unconscious for about a day.
Is it going to be like this forever? I feel helpless and hopeless most of the time. God help me!
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Old May 09, 2022, 06:51 AM
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i am glad mimi that you are still here with us.
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Old May 09, 2022, 10:26 AM
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i am glad mimi that you are still here with us.
Thank you little turtle.
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Old May 09, 2022, 11:42 AM
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I'm glad too that you're still here with us mimi
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Old May 09, 2022, 12:40 PM
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I'm glad too that you're still here with us mimi
Thank you dear fuzzy. I thought nobody cared if I lived or died.
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Old May 11, 2022, 08:58 AM
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I've felt the same way mimi, it makes people ''uncomfortable'' if we even allude to wishing we were not here. It can feel like they don't give a crap; And some of them DON'T give a crap (not anyone here)..It makes ME uncomfortable to feel that way

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Old May 11, 2022, 09:09 AM
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I made a couple of new posts (new threads)

I have a new book. It isn't helpful
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I am glad your here Mimi. Nice to have you back and feeling a bit better. It's very unpleasant to feel the way you felt. I send empathy to you and hope that you can have some peace.

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Old May 12, 2022, 02:24 AM
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I am glad your here Mimi. Nice to have you back and feeling a bit better. It's very unpleasant to feel the way you felt. I send empathy to you and hope that you can have some peace.

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Old May 12, 2022, 10:14 AM
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Grrrrrr anxiety sucks

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Old May 12, 2022, 12:59 PM
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Grrrrrr anxiety sucks

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I agree.

Much empathy to your dear cub
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Old May 15, 2022, 05:21 PM
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I agree.

Much empathy to your dear cub
Thank you dear Thirty shades. I send much empathy to your dear cub also
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