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Old Sep 28, 2004, 01:16 PM
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The only thing worse than the rollercoaster of depression is having that coaster derailed.

I'm set for my closing in about an hour... when I get a call from the broker. With the final numbers the loan is not enough to cover the payoff. He is trying to get a larger loan from the lending bank. Won't know until tomorrow. If not I would have to come up with several thousand dollars to go through with this. I have about $460 in the bank and no other resources.

I would turn my anti-pity-party into a pity-pity-party but I don't feel like any kind of party-party right now.

Why does this suck so much?
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Old Sep 28, 2004, 01:48 PM
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Aw, Dex. I'm so sorry to hear this. Unfortunately, however, I can relate. I'm giving up and filing for bankruptcy, and somehow, on the $800 I clear twice a month, I'm supposed to come up with a grand for the lawyer and court costs. Right now I have about 50 cents in my pocket and -$65 in the bank. I get paid thursday, but if I pay everything I need to, I'll have $6 till the 30th.

Banks just suck. When I win the lottery, I'm keeping all the cash under my mattress!!

Try to think positive. Maybe you'll be surprised and it will all work out.

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Old Sep 28, 2004, 01:59 PM
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I don't have any words right now so i hope hugs are ok..

((((((((((((Dexter))))))))))))

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Old Sep 28, 2004, 11:11 PM
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Hi Dexter -- There's so many things that can wrong at closing. So sorry this happened to you. Hope it turns out all right.

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Old Sep 29, 2004, 10:59 AM
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(((Dex))))
I wish that I had some answers for you, but I do not right now. I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you.

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Old Sep 29, 2004, 03:31 PM
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arrrrrgggghhhhh! Any chance the numbers don't jive because they are trying to make you pay for something you don't have to?

criminy! how stressful! how depressing! ... I'll buy you a tent if you need one... :P
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Old Sep 29, 2004, 07:57 PM
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Oh, DAMN!! My roller coaster just derailed, too, with that news. DAMN! DAMN! DAMN!

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Old Sep 29, 2004, 08:05 PM
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GRRRRRRRRRR !!!!!!!!!!

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Old Sep 29, 2004, 08:11 PM
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I, too, wish there were something that could be done. We all rely on your good advice and wisdom on this forum and look forward to reading your posts. All I can do is wish you the best and provide those long distance heart hugs.
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