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Jun 20, 2008, 01:46 AM
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<font color="blue"> i've had trust issues all my life. i don't talk about my situation because of that. even the things that truely scare me, i say nothing about them. my best friend stopped talking to me two years ago, just when everything fell apart.
an event that i go to every july for the past 11 years is coming up. every year before, i get super excited about it months ahead of time. this year, there's nothing inside me - is that the final straw??? </font> |
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#2
Jun 20, 2008, 11:57 AM
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(((((( jrae )))))))
Maybe you will be excited the closer it gets and if not thats okay too. I have gone through periods of time where I couldn't get excited about anything. 
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Jun 20, 2008, 05:53 PM
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Me too! I have huge diffculties to tell my fears and issues. NO WAY I can talk about them with my family. And not even with those few friends. I can open just with 2 or 3 online pals, fellow sufferers.
At this point I have no hints or advise... but I can relate to your problem. Let's not feel strange or guilty... |
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Jun 21, 2008, 09:39 PM
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I have the same problems with trust, when people tell you, talk to me when your down and then they turn your back, it's hard to trust again.
I haven't started this yet, but in my depression group they suggest writing your problems into a journal, that way you're releasing what is bothering you without having to talk to anyone. Or the other idea is get a box, write your problem on a piece of paper then put that paper in the box, and hope you can release the problems that way. As far as getting excite about your upcoming event, you may get excited as it get closer, or maybe not but just try to have a good time. 
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Today I am going to spend more time looking for all the positive things about myself. Today I recongnize myself and acknowledge myself as a terrific human being. by of: Time for Joy by Ruth Fishel Cindy 
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Jun 23, 2008, 11:52 PM
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I love your avitar ... reminds me of somebody.
You may be feeling grief over the loss of friendship, which may be preventing you from feeling excited about your yearly trip. My best guess, anyway. Grief has stages ... In case you are depressed, you might get alot out of going on your trip. It will keep you from being alone. right? Dwelling? See. Just go through the motions of preparing for the trip, and by the time you put your sunglasses on, your summer hat, and get to the airport or the in the car, chances are you will be digging it ... if not, go to Cinnabons', the sugar rush will help. (; Hope you feel better soon. Keep posting. Glad you are here, i love that kitty hawk! peace and love, nightbird 
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Jun 24, 2008, 12:05 PM
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((((((((((((((( jrae )))))))))))))))
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Jun 24, 2008, 12:54 PM
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TRUST is such a hard word now. ;[
<font color="purple">Clandestine</font> |
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