really make us mad!!! stuff that happened outside of psych central, we feel that if they can't keep their promise dont say they're gonna do it cause it hurts! sorry we just mad and sad right now want to not talk to nobody anymore cause that way dont get hurt ya know?

I dont trust anyone its safer that way ....

[lynn P.]

(((TrinityDancer))) - I understand how you feel and I wish I could say something positive and restore your confidence in trusting but I can't. I've been hurt to the bone and feel my souls been bruised. I don't have trust in anyone ATM either. So you're not alone and I'm sorry for your pain.

[Rhiannonsmoon]

Dear Trinity as the others are saying we wish we could do something to help you something to help the pain and anger release you

I am Heleni and I am a protector of Rhiannon I have watched as Morgana protects Rhiannon and I have learned

We have recently awakened and we take our work seriously and seeing how love and compassion works from within and without we know that you can learn to trust again and you can learn to sense who will hurt you

Those who begin as friends should be given a probationary term as friends so they then must prove in that time that they are trustworthy as friends

In our system it is our responsibility to not allow ourselves to open up too quickly because we so dearly want and need that friendship and we open to the wrong people those who either take advantage or tire of us quickly and stop responding as friends should

We have been through this we all have heard Rhiannon speak of it and we have shared memory so understanding this is easy for us I as Heleni feel for your pain feel for your sadness and upset emotions and it is easy to understand how you feel this way

Offering you friendship and knowing that you do know how to trust the right people by being in touch with your heart

Heleni

[kasva]

hi trinity.....i too feel like what you described quite often. I think my t's are really helping with this by really being there for me. and i think once i can trust them ill have a better chance of trusting others. im really close to trusting both my t's and it comforts and makes me feel safer. Friends are hard cause ive been burnt after years of being friends with some people but in hindsight i can see signs that i missed of how they really are. i just didnt pay enough attention or i excused things way too easily. I believe we can all learn to trust again...but...it takes so much work and energy and strength. I hope your pain lessens soon......kasva

[TL]

Trinity, what happened??? Talk to me.

[Nupoet64]

(((((Trinity)))))

[Gus1234U]

it is so hard to be happy when one holds others to the mark of perfection. one hopes the writer finds a way to forgiveness of others, and a better acceptance of the human condition.

really not appreciating that last reply. we feel judged and as if we shouldnt be allowed to feel like we do and we dont like that had enough of that already if thats how you choose to approach things that fine but please dont push it on us,thanks. if and when we choose to forgive is up to us and expecting someone to keep a promise they made to us isnt expecting perfection its courtesy! if you cant do it then dont say you will simple as that

[Lillyleaf]

humm... think of how it will hurt you as much to not talk to people then it would be to shut off from the world,
But I see what you mean... it just seems to hard and scary just know that it gets better....
people are here for you and people are agenced you... just hope you find the people who are for you and not agenced... ((hugs)))

I wish you the best.

[Lillyleaf]

Originally Posted by Gus1234U

it is so hard to be happy when one holds others to the mark of perfection. one hopes the writer finds a way to forgiveness of others, and a better acceptance of the human condition.

People hold them selves to profection but where do they learn that from? everyone else. When others make you feel bad because they are holding you to profection you are ignoleging them saying this and believeing something is wrong with you. It is close to the same was just mearly holding yout self to profection. It is simply feeling that you need to be in perfection to everyone elses ideas. Just what I think wether it is true or not depends on how the reader takes it.

[Eriksplus]

We know how you feel, there is nothing worse than being lied to! I would suggest never letting your gaurd down.

(Kay)Erik

thanks for all the ones who made helpful replies the support is very appreciated♥ and the lies still continue