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Oct 16, 2007, 05:02 PM
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I am wondering what is going to happen if I am in fact pregnant., I don't know for sure yet, but I am thinking that I am. What are things going to be like? Am I going to fall apart? Do you think my child would be taken away from me? I am just so confused. If I am pregnant, I deffinately want to keep the baby. It is something that may be difficult but I feel it is for me to deal with and I would be more than happy to take care of a child of my own. I mean, I have wanted a child but I was thinking about waiting awhile. I am only 21 but my boyfriend is 33, so on his end he can't wait too much longer. I think I may be at a point where I am a little more stable at least. I hardly switch anymore and I am really working on some different things. I have told my boyfriend and he has been supportive. I am just waiting to find out the results really. Well I will update you all on this, I am just curious of how my system may handle it.
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Oct 16, 2007, 05:43 PM
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hey... you... please rest assured your "system" will handle being a mom... and a good mom at that... you make adjustments..
My son is 23 years old.. so raised by me a DID person.. who was DXed about the time he was born. So, at least in the US... your child isn't taken away. I had a set of "sarced rules" - those were internal rules that all alters abided by. No "littles around our son", we had a set of Mom alters that were consistant - they were brought out just by being with my son... so he saw consistancy with his Mom.. So... DID people make good moms.. they are intelligent, creative, caring, loving... So you will do just fine... |
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Oct 19, 2007, 01:59 PM
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Well I find out that I am not. So that is a relief in a way but yet not in others.
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Oct 24, 2007, 02:10 AM
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don't worry about it
 we had two kids & fostered a whole lotta kids you will be a good mother, don't stress sweetie.
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 ZORAH
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