Small talk

I’ve noticed that we work together to make a life, but we really sorta not like each other...more resentful.

Or is it tired of each other....complacency? Each alter is strong and don’t like being told what to do, say or act.

So we don’t actually carry on in depth conversation, so asking about things or what happened usually goes unanswered...or they can’t. Idk, so the advice of asking your alters seldom work for us.

Other then comments or quips...there is no connection. Dissatisfied.

maybe rereading your past posts here will get you the answers you want. example if I am remembering right somewhere in your past posts you or your alters stated you do talk with each other and plan what you are going to do when and which alter does what.

maybe you can do a sort of spring cleaning with the purpose being locating objects, writings, art work and ... well you get the idea... of what goes on in your system. I mean you cant live as a person with DID without these weird things you dont remember showing up. forgotten calendars, or that one drew this or that one wrote that or this one drove us here or there.....photos of favorite places and things...

my point if you are one that happens to be out of this loop there is ways to find out what you need to know even if you dont talk to each other for what ever reasons.

use small talk with certain people and strive to notice those that meet it with positive reactions....Folks talking going off on tangents or sprung up a small talk conversation. I get looked down upon too I also know that my small talk isn't the great I rely on my great listening skills. Those can be excellent skills especially trying to maintain employment.

I can’t help but to feel that the voicing of opinions beyond the realm of this system is creating diversion that must be stopped. It is here by forbidden.

We shall stop posting anything that is beyond the scope of this system’s goal and can be used against us.

Hear hear

Yeah yeah yeah...some of us ain’t as smart as you are. Not everyone is the same. Hmmm... Integrators think like a singleton. Good to know.

I don’t reread posts or anything from the past- it gives me a queasy feeling of uncertainty. I can use a lot less stress and triggers in my life.

This forum is too easy for the others to open up and get antagonized, let alone other accounts. We need to learn to keep our crazy to ourselves and not make it so public.

I enjoy all I've built it probably is easy to vacation a bit or visit other forums. When I can't separate some of the our world verses there then I have to do the same thing turnn off phones etc. It is important unfairness to like that even we as socializers have to accept even if it is about relating to people and occupationally as well