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Dec 09, 2006, 02:13 AM
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in april my boyfriend of about three years(off and on) killed himself. i was the last person he spoke to and it hurts so bad! he told me he thought that in the situation he was getting in he would hurt himself. i told his doctor. i told them all that he seemed very serious. they said that he had threatened it so many times they had no reaon to suspect he would hurt himself. my counselor keeps telling me that i did what i could, but i cant help but feel that it is my fault... i know im young and people say you cant find true love when you're young, but i was...AM truly in love. i love and miss him sooo much. we knew what color our wedding was gonna be. and it hurts so bad i cant see him or talk to him! somebody tell my honestly, does it ever get any better?? six months feels like less than an hour ago, i can barely stand it.
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Dec 09, 2006, 02:23 AM
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Its been 9 1/2 years since my daughters father commited suicide. He and I weren't together at the time due to his alcohol and drug abuse. Needless to say, everyone blamed me then and still probably does.
To answer your question, I never got over it. But time, and everday life, has allowed me to continue on. I've kept some photographic and written memories for my daughter, which I tend to look through now and then. It does get better, even though now, it doesn't seem that way. Sending caring thoughts your way. Dee
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Dec 09, 2006, 05:13 AM
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thanks. thats good to hear.
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Dec 09, 2006, 05:23 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I think suicide is one of the worst kinds of death as there are so many unanswered questions.
Things will get better. It takes time but they will get better. In the meantime, try and get out of the house. Go see a movie, go to a friends house or you can go for a walk. It will help you to get out and get back into the mainstream of life, whatever that is. Good Luck to you, Linda
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Dec 09, 2006, 12:08 PM
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Dec 09, 2006, 08:52 PM
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i dont have anywhere to go or anything to do but to sit here and think about it. my best friend said i pushed him away, i cant socialize very well. i know i need to just get out and do something, but in my current situation, i cant really do that very well. idk what else to do.
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