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I haven’t talked about my mom much. Of course I’m thinking about her because of the holiday.
You know, you can’t talk much about suicide IRL. It’s taboo. I don’t really need anyone to read this. I just wanted to write it out. Even though it was very difficult to take care of her, and I’ll admit that she made me and my family pretty miserable, I loved my mom. I was an only child, and my mom and dad split when I was 3, and my father was absent and his side of the family didn’t accept me. My mother’s family was overseas. She was all I knew, all I ever had growing up. I get upset sometimes when I see commercials about suicide prevention.
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#2
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Thank you for sharing this.
Yes, you did go above and beyond and you did try very hard. I dont know what to say accept that I cannot imagine how I would cope seeing my own mom deteriorate before my own eyes. I wish it were more acceptable to discuss suicide IRL. It has become the elephant in the room yet completely ignored and not tolerated. I am really very sorry that you are hurting and please know that I am here if you ever want to vent, talk.
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FallDuskTrain—thank you for listening and your kind reply. I just needed to talk about my mom tonight.
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![]() ![]() I agree with the sentiment that, I wish it were more acceptable to discuss suicide IRL--even my therapist has suggested that I not tell people IRL about my serious attempt. At least PC is a good place to talk about it. Hugs. ![]() ![]() |
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I understand. I lost my dad to suicide this year. While I am doing absolutely nothing to deal with his loss (i am in complete denial), I am filed with guilt. I did not have the opportunity to be there for him. I hope you are feeling better. If you are not, that is understandable. I am here.
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There is no-one like a Mum ![]() I really wish I could take this pain away from you. KT, I hope you don't mind me saying this - I realise we don't know each other that well - but I can say for sure that she would be so proud of you. She loved you, and would want you to be happy. |
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((((((((((((Key tones)))))))))))) I hear you.
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![]() Don't feel guilt! This is one of the awful things about a sudden death, especially suicide. Everyone feels guilty! When my father died, my older brother wasn't speaking to him. I mean, he'd completely disowned him. Terrible things were said. Hindsight is a wonderful thing. If we could see what is going to happen, we'd know what to do. But humans aren't made that way. Everyone I've spoken to who's lost someone has this bitter and corrosive feeling of regret. Even if the death is relatively 'straightforward'. Dads love their children. If he was able to speak to you now, do you think he would say, 'I want you to suffer and brood and blame yourself.' He wouldn't ![]() |
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I know in my heart that our loved ones would not want us to feel this way ![]() |
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![]() Those are such kind words ![]() |
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![]() We, as a society, do a terrible job dealing with the topic of suicide ![]() I’m so glad you find support here ![]() |
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Thank you so much for caring. You said such nice things. Thank you, really. I am sorry that you lost your dad. I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving day with your loved ones. Again, thank you for the support. It means more than you can imagine.
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I'm terribly sorry. I don't know what it feels like to lose someone to suicide. I've lost my dad to cancer and it's not nice. I don't know what to say but I want to send you my love and hugs
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Thank you, Happycheeks. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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(((((((( key tones )))))))
I’m very sorry for your loss ![]() ![]()
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Thank you Fuzzy
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key tones- I am so sorry for your loss. You were a loving daughter who went above and beyond. It’s hard to accept that if people are really set on that course of action, they will find a way.
Thinking of you. For the record, I don’t think you’ll end up like your mom. You have too much joie de vive if I’m using that term correctly. ![]() |
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Sorry for your loss
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Thank you, Buffy and Lavender
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So sorry for your loss (((Hugs))).
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