Premature baby...

No! I'm being tested beyond my endurance right now, thank you!

Thanks for your thoughtful words, Tamzin. This is getting beyond my own understanding.

{{{{{{{{{{{{Karen}}}}}}}}}}}}} I need them more than you might think right now, Sweet Lady!

Can use all the prayers we can get right now, {{{{{{{{{{{Lexi}}}}}}}}}! Thank you so much for being thoughtful and caring!

{{{{{{{{{{Julia}}}}}}}}}}} EVen the knot in my rope is beginning to come loose! Thank you!

{{{{{Tomi}}}}}

Glad the baby seems to be good...and hopefully it was the fear that made your son react how he did...so sorry you have all this stress, hun.

Take care of yourself as much as you can

{{{{{{{{{{{{{Wantto}}}}}}}}}}}}} Thank you so much! It's appreciated, more than you know!

I'll take your word for it, GG. I'm so hurt and confused with all of this that it's hard for me to understand some people's ractions. They just don't seem "Normal" to me.

I'll hang on to your words, though.

BP, I'll try to remember the pain and yes, fear, in his voice when he first answered the phone and forget the coldness in how he finished the conversation. But it's STILL his dad that he calls. He's called him at least three times after I called him. I don't resent his dad. It just confuses me!!

Angie, I think it's my son's knowledge of how much the WIFE hates and resents ME... not the other way around. I keep forgetting that she not only has him by the shorthairs, she's been twisting them lately.

I'm sorry I answered you so sharply. It was another member's response that set me off.

we're here for you....and prayer is a powerful thing (don't we know it).....hang on and keep us informed
grace

{{{{{{{{{{{{Grace}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Thank you!

There may be only 1 visible set of footprints in the sand, but you know who is carrying you....much love

tomi, i know that you are hurt and angry. but remember your hubby loves you and the son. i'm praying for all of you....baby, son, you, DIL and hubby. pat

(((((((((((((((SeptemberMorn))))))))))))))) I can't even imagine all the emotions and fear running through all of you. I am glad the baby is doing good. I hope your relationship with your son heals in the near future as this is the time for families to stick together. I am so sorry your DIL is not letting this happen. I hope your son starts appreciating your offer for help in these hard times. If I can be of any support let me know. My prayers are with you.

Hey, sorry to hear about your pain. I'm thinking of you and prayed for y'all too. Hope things get better soon.

(((((((((Mama Tomi)))))))))

Just saw this post. I am so sorry to hear about all of this. I know how deeply this hurts you and I wish there was something I could do. Just remember, you are doing all you can. Dont dare blame yourself for the way others act, ok. I am here for you.

Love,

Jen

my darling sept..

I want you to know I am here for you.. Do not forget I have had a premie baby before and I also know how stressfull it can be on everyone included..

All I can say is be there for him when or if he falls, cause trust me they will both need your support..
if you show any hate what so ever it will feed the anger between all of you.

Take it from a mom who had a mother-in-law who just wanted my first child to die, instead of geting better.. The hate has to go away, while all of this is going on..

I do not understand everything but only love and support is what you need to give to evelryone and that should also be givien to you..

I am here pm if you want to talk ..

I love you and would hate to see you get worse over this

I don't hate her, Lady D. I just hate what she does to those I love; to my son and to my grandchildren by her. I hate what she's doing to our family. It seems I'm powerless to circumvent any of it. There doesn't seem to be anything I can do to stop it. There just isn't ANY WAY or ANY THING that would help.

Seems that the only thing that will help all of us is for me to lock myself up in my bedroom so I can't hear hubby's phone ringing or hear him talking to our son so I don't know what's going on. I don't know...

Tomi, Imy Grandmother 's favorite son was married to a woman that "owned him' he was not allowed to call Mama without her permission so I do understand, Peace be with you Dearheart
Angie

Keep the prayers coming, Pat. It strikes terror in my heart to think the baby may not be well and it's worse if he doesn't survive!!

And there's that niggling thought that MAYBE this girl/woman has pulled off another one???

Yes! As far as we know, the baby is still hanging in. Please, God! Just a few more weeks!!

{{{{{{{{{{Angie}}}}}}}}}}}}} That's insecurity gone abusive. My baby is being abused and there's NO THING I can do about it!! My heart hurts so bad for him! And on top of that, he may lose a son?? If only I could spare him that pain!

My oldest son has a little boy who MAY have Asperger's Syndrome. The only reason I'm not in a deep depression is because these two are exemplary parents! They are unbelievable! I know that little boy will have the best life possible, but... my youngest son and his wife... and if that baby isn't well? I don't even want to think about it!! The wife's parents will deny the baby and the wife be damned if she'd let hubby and I do anything for him! The two children they have now are Neglected with a capital "N"!

HUGZ to you my friend, and prayers for all..........

MY prayers go out to your grandchild to be..his mother who must be terrified of losing him/her and your son. This has to be a very scary time for all.