Here we go again

Oh, I see!

We won't go into the "V" thing here. I'm trying to hold all thoughts concerning the "incubator" for Aiden at bay. By "incubator" I mean the opposite of "sperm donor," ok?

i understand.. i am pming you... he he he

Aiden is completely off the breathing machine!!! YeeeHaaaaaaw!!! His blood pressure is stable, blood sugars are normal and heart rate is great! Everything is working great! All he has to do now is keep it up and gain weight! They've been making the "incubus" pump her milk so I'm sure they're getting ready to start feeding him out of a bottle instead of pumping sugar water through his navel.

There's NO doubt that your good thoughts and prayers have gotten him this far!

Thank you, thank you, thank you, Everyone!!

So happy to hear the baby is doing better, I'm sending positive vibes for continued progress.
Take care now.

Roe

Tomi,

This is great news. So happy to hear it.

((((((((((((((Aiden))))))))))))))





What a strong little guy


HUggles,

Jen

i got chill bumps reading this...... woo hoooo way to go baby Aiden!!!!!

((((((((((((((((((Tomi and Aiden))))))))))

All right!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

for you and for Aiden.

Hugs,

Jan

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Welcome to Aiden ...and if he has only 1/10 of his Abuela's determination, he'll be fine.

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This quote came in an email from a very dear friend of mine. I prayed with all I had at the time that she was right. Do ya'll mind if I believe it now and brag on myself a bit?? LOL YUP! THAT BOY TAKES AFTER HIS GRANDMA! hehehe Of course, his dad ain't no slouch in the DETERMINATION department! Oy vey!

That aside, all your prayers and good thoughts were what made all of determined that Aiden would survive.

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Just wanted everyone that helped us through the roughest part of Aiden's journey into this world see this.

Miracles DO happen!!

i am so very happy to hear that the baby is doing well,,,,,,,,,,,

i am so glad he is doing well..

love to you and the whole family ok.

Maybe I'll get to hold him soon!

Thanks {{{{{{{{{{{{Lady D}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Hope you're doing better, too!

(((((Tomi and Grandbaby)))))...

XOXO,

Peanutty

I've been barred from seeing Aiden... by the incubus.

why....what did *she* say was the reason??

AFTER my oldest son, David, and hubby, Jerry, had been in to see the baby, Jerry was told that she only had an hour a day to see the baby and she wasn't giving up any of her time for ANYONE.

I knew this was going to happen. She had been laying the groundwork. When the baby goes home, I won't be able to see him then either because her daughter, Autumn, who used to be the light of my life doesn't want to see me either because she's got it in her head that I told her "I hate you and I don't ever want you to come to my house ever again." I ask you! Does that sound like something a 62 yr old grandmother who is totally in love with her granddaughter would say? "The incubus" believes it even if my son doesn't! I'm done with her flippen games!!

Just so I understand you mean the mom of the baby can only see the kid an hour a day and said she doesnt wanna share that time??? yes....or no....make it simple so I get it then maybe I can read this better

Yes, the mother of that baby says she only gets to see him one hour of the day... and she's not sharing that time with anyone... after my husband and my oldest son got to see him!

There's a whole lot more to the story. Some know it, some don't. Right now, I don't have what it takes to start from the beginning and tell it all. But what's happening is that we're all getting manipulated!

that may be true but it could also be she only gets one hour with her new baby..she and the baby almost died..she may like have PTSD and or JUST wants time with the baby..an hour isnt much for a new mom....Its just a different way to try to maybe look at it...I am sorry youre so upset

At face value, it sounds good, but the hospital's rules don't say anything about her visiting only for an hour, just two times during the day are there no visiting hours. From 6:30 & 7:30 am. then again at night at shift change.

Like I said, there's a whole lot more to the story than what I just posted. This ****** has been manipulating all of us for the last 7 yrs!

Maybe I'll get up whatever it takes that I don't have right now and post in Relationships. Before tonight, I was ready to do whatever it takes, without being manipulative myself because I don't know how, to try and resolve the situation. Now I'm not sure if I care!

sept can you call the hosital and see what applies to premees..a lotta times its not posted but diff rules...WHAT IF its really true...if so I could not blame her...that baby almost died and all...but I dont know....just dont think the worse till you know.....facts...What does hubby say and all....

even if she called the hospital and they told her that the DIL is wrong, what would happen then? It's not like she could then go to the DIL and say "you're wrong. Now let me see the baby".

Sounds to me like the DIL is setting a boundary rather than manipulating.

Thanks alot for your faith in me, Lee Ann. I thought you knew me better than that. Guess not.

Whatever! I don't give a ***** anymore.

PS You forget I said that my oldest son had gone in to see the baby, then my husband went in to see the baby, both time accompanied by the mother. When it was MY turn she's not sharing her time with ANYONE?????????

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even if she called the hospital and they told her that the DIL is wrong, what would happen then? It's not like she could then go to the DIL and say "you're wrong. Now let me see the baby".

Sounds to me like the DIL is setting a boundary rather than manipulating.

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Yeah good point LMO ...soon my pm will be off but yeah...and it may also be individual to this child and this mom thus only those who know would know

anyhow sorry for anyones pain