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Dec 29, 2005, 04:39 PM
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My "Evil DIL" may have just gone into premature labor. They think her water broke. Baby isn't due until March. WAY too many emotions flooding through me to even try to explain. My biggest concern is the baby... then my son.
For those that believe in prayer, please pray for all concerned. 
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Dec 29, 2005, 04:42 PM
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You got it Tomi. Hang in there! Its not happening to my niece yet but its a big concernfor her right now as she has a problem vein. Hope all goes well. Take care.
Bethy
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Dec 29, 2005, 04:46 PM
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Absolutely. Praying hard for baby. Be strong, Tomi. We're here for you.
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Dec 29, 2005, 04:49 PM
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<font color="purple"> Will pray for sure! ((((((((hugs)))))))) Melinda </font>
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Dec 29, 2005, 04:51 PM
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Thank you, Jenn! My son... my baby boy... 
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Dec 29, 2005, 04:54 PM
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{{{{{{{{Melinda}}}}}}}}} Thank you!
Beth, thank you.
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Dec 29, 2005, 04:55 PM
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((((((((((((Sept))))))))))))))) We're here for you sweetie, and offering up lots of prayers and thoughts.
KD
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:09 PM
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You know I am here for you... what ever you need.....
thinking about you.... and your son right now....
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:18 PM
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Kimmy and Mel... just talked to him. They don't know anything for sure yet.
He seemed so cold towards me... Told him I'm here when and if he needs me...
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:20 PM
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Just want you to know that YOU are my lifeline right now, ok? You don't know how much I appreciate your thoughts and prayers.
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:22 PM
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I'm here too, right behind ya Septy.
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:22 PM
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Sept, sweetie, that coldness might've been him wrapping up all his emotion and storing them away right now to do what needs to be done and to try to be a strong man.
We're here and listening. KD
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:25 PM
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honey one thing that I have learned in life, is to not accept responsibilty for someone elses actions...
He may have seemed cold towards you... but dont take that to heart. I am sure he has a million different emotions running through him right now.... ((((((((((((((((((((Tomi))))))))))))))))))
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Live life passionately, love unconditionally. Hope for the best, laugh your heart out. Cry when you need to, learn from the past. And remember what is meant to be will find its way. |
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:26 PM
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Thank you, Bunny!! I really appreciate it!
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:27 PM
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Kimmy and Mel... you're both right. I'll keep your words in mind. Thank you!!
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Dec 29, 2005, 05:55 PM
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Got my best wishes too
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...she's a difficult girl...
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Dec 29, 2005, 07:27 PM
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I don't know anymore. Wish I could just go away and not know anything.
Apparently her bag of waters DID NOT break. They are keeping her for a couple of days. Son is concerned about his work because there is no one to take care of the kids???? Apparently the wife's parents, who live right next door won't do it. (????) My husband offered to baby-sit... After our son told me that he wants to be left alone by us until AFTER the baby is born?????? Keep in mind the due date isn't till the middle of March. I don't get it. My husband doesn't understand my hurt feelings or my concern... or why I even ask how he justifies any of this!! Who or what am I in all of this??? WHY SHOULD I EVEN CARE ABOUT ANY OF IT????? TO BLOODY HELL WITH ALL OF THEM!!!! I KNOW WHEN I'M NOT WANTED OR NEEDED!!! %$#& IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dec 29, 2005, 07:29 PM
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{{{{{{{{Tomi}}}}}}}}}}
Am sending you all my love, good thoughts and prayers.
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Dec 29, 2005, 07:51 PM
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My prayers are with you and your family! Hang in there.
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Dec 29, 2005, 07:58 PM
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tomi.......thinking of you....praying for you to find strength.......love you
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Dec 29, 2005, 08:01 PM
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(((((((((((((((Septembermorn)))))))))))))))))))
Thinking of you.
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Dec 29, 2005, 08:45 PM
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Tomi,
I'm sorry that something so stressful is happening. What a scare! I know you were just as upset as anyone else involved, but I suspect that like somebody already said, they had enough going on with their own emotions that they just couldn't deal. For whatever reason, simple transactions such as offering to help get so darned muddled up with family. If your husband had offered to babysit for someone in the community, there would not be so much attached to that offer and how the other person receives it. Put it to family, though, and it becomes a very big messed up deal, often. ((((((Tomi)))))) Breathe. We're here. I'm glad that the baby's not coming right now. gg
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#23
Dec 29, 2005, 08:47 PM
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Tomi, does your son know how much you dislike your DIL? Might be why he's so cold, we are here for ya girl
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#24
Dec 29, 2005, 09:14 PM
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You don't understand!
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Dec 29, 2005, 09:19 PM
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Okay help me understand
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