Im a loser

jen!!!!! you arent a loser... You are a mom of 3 kids....You work full time... come on cut yourself some slack... You are "assuming" that you are a loser, because you forgot one time to to make a payment.... no one is perfect.. Hubby need to step back and see everything you do,do. I know that is easier said than done. I dont think you would have done that on purpose... you try to hard...... you are a wonderful person and a good friend...

dont worry i wont stop loving ya just cause you made a mistake...

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Jen -

There's nothing more fun than paying for homes in two cities!!!! It's just tough when you have so much on your plate. You can call, tell them it was an oversight on your part, and you will be mailing the check on such and such date.

Hugs,

Jane

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Love,
Fuzzy

PS you are not a loser

Poopiedust, the loser is your lazy butt hubby, have him do some of the work, he does live there doesn't he?
Also tell him the next time he comes to wake you up he'd better duck cuz crap flies

Wise-in-himer

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You are not a loser, people who bully, gossips and backstabs are losers. Even computers which are designed to perform 100% of the time have downtimes. Even the most intelligent, educated scientists at NASA make mistakes, so go easy on yourself.
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Ain't NO WAY, NO HOW that you are a looser!! Hubby is equally responsible for making sure all the bills get paid! Besides!! Forgetting something ONE time sure doesn't make you a looser!

This is going to put a slight strain on you financially, but it's not anything that you can't recover from.

If hubby keeps after you, tell him "Fine! YOU pay the bills from now on!" and mean it! Let's see what kind of a job HE does! I'm willing to bet he's gonna louse it up pretty bad. LOL

Remember, I'm your "Mama" and Mama doesn't have loosers, ok?!


I LOVE YOU!!

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You are NOT a loser. Take it back. You know what you are? You are wonderful hard working, kind loving human being. Yeah, that's right. A human being. A human being who happens to have way too much on her plate at the moment who made one, (count 'em), one mistake.

You are special.

Love and hugs,

Jan

You are Not a loser!!!!!! Take an honest look at Mr. Perfect. I finally was able to. Way different!

Thank you, all of you for your replies.

Last night I was so angry at "Mr. Perfect" I could hardley see straight. I wanted to rip his face off but knew that was no way to settle the matter. I ended up going upstairs and reading a book on anger. Didnt help. I never did journal like I should have and I didnt talk to hubby either. Didnt even call him from work today.

I have to get my thoughts together before I talk to him because I dont want to go to him with my thoughts scattered.

I am angry because I feel like it all comes back on me. YES, I do have alot on my plate. I know this. I also know that people do make mistakes but when I have to hear that amplified by the Mr, it makes me angry with myself too.

I think when we talk I might suggest he take things over for a while, as far as paying the bills. At least until I can get back into the swing of things with work. The settlement on the house in TX is supposed to me on or before April 1st. Since that falls on a Saturday, I assume it will take place on the 31st. At least when that is over with, I will not have to contend with any more bills there. So that should take a load off.

I also need to get a little more organized so this does not happen again in the future. A calendar should help and I need one of those bill organizers too.

Right now, this is the last thing I want to deal with. Just got home from work and about to get dinner started. We are having turkey burgers. YUMMY

Thanks again you guys. He makes me me so angry with myself when he points out my faults

It's no wonder it totally slipped your mind! You've got so much going on right now with kids, bills, hubby, work, etc. that I don't know how you can keep anything straight! I know I struggle just to do one thing a day, let alone a whole list of things!

Making a mistake does not make you a loser, either. That's exactly what this was, too...a mistake.

Hang in there.

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Thank you sweety. I am planning on talking to hubby tonight when I get home. I am calmer about the situation now.

Huggles,

Jen