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Old Apr 19, 2006, 08:58 PM
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Say I am a good friend with Denise..AND I like Sharron....but Denise doesn't like Sharron.....what's the big deal? why can't we be friends and just not talk about Sharron? I find this sad and kinda childish

But maybe I am stupid and not loyal?
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Old Apr 19, 2006, 09:01 PM
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I would simply tell Denise this, "I'm friend's with Sharon. You don't like Sharon. That's none of my business and I won't talk about her with you." That's pretty simple eh?
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Old Apr 19, 2006, 09:14 PM
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I think it depends on how deep the dislike runs and on someone's past experiences..... but I agree with you Sleeps Why is it bad or wrong,.....

And I know that you are loyal and far from stupid Why is it bad or wrong,.....

Life.......Why is it bad or wrong,.....
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Old Apr 19, 2006, 09:24 PM
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Nope, you are not stupid.To me it sounds like you are very loyal and they are both lucky to have you as a friend! I'm sorry you have to put up with this. I have been in similiar situations with girlfriends I've had too.

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Old Apr 19, 2006, 09:36 PM
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Yeah it should be easy....I hate to NOT be kind or nice to someone to FIT IN with my friend..to me, it diminishes me as a person. I don't would never talk about either one of them to the other one..I think by now Denise should/does know that but this is all kinda sad and childish.
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Old Apr 19, 2006, 09:45 PM
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You're a good and decent person, Sleeps.

You have a warm, kind heart. Why is it bad or wrong,.....
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Old Apr 19, 2006, 10:11 PM
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Yes this can be a difficult situation to be in as I know you must feel torn. However, "Denise" should understand that "Sharon" and your relationship with "Sharon" has nothing to do with your relationship with "Denise".
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Old Apr 19, 2006, 11:52 PM
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Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,.....

Thank you all...we talked and it's fixed..It was all just kind of a misunderstanding....... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,.....

yeahhhhh
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Old Apr 20, 2006, 12:12 AM
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I'm glad it worked out. But in general, if you're friends with two or more people who don't like each other, and one or both of them tell you that you can't be friends with the other, then tell him or her that being the other's friend does not make you disloyal or a bad friend. It's her choice if she doesn't want to continue being friends, and I know it's hard to lose a friend, but real friends don't try to manipulate you. You can be friends with people who don't like each other, as long as you don't gossip between them and don't reveal personal information among them.
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Old Apr 20, 2006, 12:50 AM
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Thanks Maven,...I am glad its fixed too..thing is Denise is like my bestest friend so it seemed kinda hard....but its fixed Why is it bad or wrong,.....
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{{{{{{{{Sleeps}}}}}}- you are a great person and a wonderful friend Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,..... Why is it bad or wrong,.....
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Awwew thanks ((((((OK)))))) Why is it bad or wrong,.....
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Old Apr 20, 2006, 06:04 AM
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I had something though ... where the Sharon accused the Denise of doing something horrible ... I'd known the Denise much longer than the Sharon ... And I love him (so not really a Denise heh) ... so the Sharon becomes someone I will not associate with, even though the Sharon was passable the times I've known her.

Sometimes u gotta stick with people au.
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