I am having a hard time with judgements and harsh stuff here

I am very sensitive and I like peace. I am sorry people have conflicts and I know they sometimes have to be discussed but I wish we could take it private or do it like adults. And, best parenting advice I heard lately, choose your battles. I have had a lot going on personally and can't share because of the climate here. I am not comfortable with attack. I can disagree all of the time if we are mature enough to listen, respect, respond maturely. I don't know what I am saying. I am pretty well used up at this point. I used to feel snuggled here some. Guess there is no perfection and I am going to have to hire real life snugglers.

(((((wisewoman)))))

I'm sorry you're not feeling very "snuggled" lately here. I know I've been missing a lot of what's been going on here lately because I haven't been online as much. I feel bad about that because I feel like I'm not doing my job of supporting you and many others. It's not your fault, so don't blame yourself...I feel that way a lot.

Anyways...my point...I'll eventually get to it! LOL

If you need a caring shoulder to cry on or someone to just listen, feel free to PM me. I'm here much during the day, even though I'm not always on PC.

snuggles(ww)snuggles

This is the best I can come up with for a snuggle. I hope it helps a little bit.

Hugs,

Jan

Will one of these work?



That's how I feel when the cats are in bed with me.

Wisewoman

I am truly sorry that you are feeling vulnerable right now. It's not a nice thing to feel. I guess the only advice I have is to not only "pick your battles", but pick your friends, stay with those you know you can trust right now, until you feel more like venturing out.

I have to filter my reading of posts quite a bit because of the work I am doing in therapy and I think the others understand. I have said as much to them within a given forum.

I hope you feel more snuggly soon. Warm blankets are so comforting and this site is usually a warm blanket for me.

Best regards,
Songbird

((((((((((((wisewoman)))))))))))))) I am considered pretty cuddly if that coiunts. Please feel free to PM me if you would like. Hugs from one cuddly bear. Take care of you.

(((wisewoman))))

I try a hot choc to warm me up and feel snuggled.Sorry your hurting now

Love Claire xx

This is winding down--sorry you're feeling put out, but it won't last forever.

thanks all for the snuggles. But, the stuff does last forever. Spent 4 hours in er with spouse tonight and have some crappy situations to deal with. I know that the hugs and snuggles are sincere. I am tired and probably a little angry at my life right now so don't be offended if I make this a thank you to everyone who responded instead of one by one. Love the animal pics! My puppies are all over me so that is cool. Thanks.

I hear you, and send tlc and comfort.

It's truly sad when we have to put our gaurd up in a place we used to once trust. But I think that happens everywhere, and through time it will begin to feel more like how it used too. At least I hope, depends on everyones willingness I guess. Just remember, although there is those few that seem to decieve, there is also the majority who are worth having around.

I hope you feel better hun, take a nice relaxing break.

Hi Des, good to see you

(((((((Wisewoman)))))))))))))))

Hi WW,

I think some of the dynamics here at at PC goes over my head, mightn't be a bad thing.

Anyway, I'd just like to say that you won't be getting any harsh judgements from me. This is a support site, and I think that fact should be the first thing in our minds whenever we make a post, every single time.

Many of us are here because we were messed up with 'harsh judgments' in the first place!

Good thoughts, M

WW, as we have discussed, this will pass. i know you're having a hard time right now and i am so sorry for that. take a deep breath and have some hot chocolate or tea. i am sending protective vibes to you. pat