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Old Jun 27, 2013, 07:45 AM
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I have a hard time developing a hobby too. I mean all i do is read articles online but they can be pretty boring sometimes.
hub does this too, and I do, to some degree. So, I think you could still legitimately call that a hobby.

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Old Jun 28, 2013, 02:59 PM
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I haven't developed any hobbies either. Every time I go to my therapist she asks me if I've done anything or joined anything and I'm like no, I can't think of anything to do. Everything I enjoyed I don't enjoy anymore, or I don't have the drive or willpower to leave the apartment. I could look up classes or clubs, but when I do stuff like that I always feel so out of place. When I get really bad, sometimes I just go out and drive around, or walk around a store, like Walmart, or go sit in a cafe and have coffee by myself. I wish I could say something that would help, but I know how you feel not being able to get a hobby.
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Old Jul 02, 2013, 06:44 AM
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Old Jul 02, 2013, 07:04 AM
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people just always say afterwards they for the first time met this situation at my bad happening conducted by others.

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Old Jul 02, 2013, 07:29 AM
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90% decided by external factors in a person's doing .
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Old Jul 02, 2013, 10:31 AM
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like i already known the method to learn english,but there is always intrusions to my irreplacable living and peace,so i can't expand and develop and solidary it.can you understand it?
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Old Jul 02, 2013, 05:04 PM
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like i already known the method to learn english,but there is always intrusions to my irreplacable living and peace,so i can't expand and develop and solidary it.can you understand it?
That you don't have any time for yourself? That whenever you want to do something, someone has to intrude or interfere? That's what I understand. If so, that's no way to live a life. I'm sorry to say that you may never find peace at home and maybe moving elsewhere is the only option, if you can. Your family seems determined to not let you succeed, and it seems doubtful that they'll change.
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Old Jul 03, 2013, 07:13 AM
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more than that of from my family,bark.
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Old Jul 04, 2013, 05:38 AM
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more that that of from my family,it's the people.
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Old Jul 05, 2013, 12:56 AM
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cusack! the people where you live? not just your family?

surely there are people with mental illness who suffer as you have. is it not possible to socialize with people who understand and accept you?
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Old Jul 05, 2013, 09:05 AM
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i am too true,thus become an alien to people around.no "assets"(底子).
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Old Jul 08, 2013, 09:12 PM
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Hi we should share how we started our hobbies.....
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Old Jul 13, 2013, 11:56 PM
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job quitted.
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Old Jul 14, 2013, 12:23 AM
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Everyone knows the basic hobbies like gardening, fishing, cooking, drawing, and video games, but that doesn't say much to a person in your position. First of all, you need a good friend. Someone who would talk about anything with you, get to you know, and enjoy being around you. Hobbies these days are usually based off shows or games, and within the subject the hobby usually revolves around a character, ability, story-line, or object. To create your own hobby it's easiest done by spending your time with the subject, and thinking about it--relating to yourself. If you like it then it'll become a hobby, and what really helps is getting into the hobby with a friend. There's nothing wrong with becoming fanatic over your hobby. Fanatics usually create fan-fictions, pictures, musical remixes, and other things based off of their hobbies or enjoyed subjects. For example: I've always been a fan of the Legend of Zelda and Star Trek ever since I was a kid, and I still am.
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Old Jul 14, 2013, 01:37 AM
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i am too good,and weak,people spit at me a lot,intrude me must living.
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Old Jul 19, 2013, 10:28 AM
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worst,no one is willing to understand it,also avoid issues regarding family,turns out i have to bear all this all alone all the time.
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Old Jul 20, 2013, 01:16 PM
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when i talked to telecom customer sevice about my internet problem on cell phone along the street near my home and speak loud of my landline phone number,i happened to pass some ones sitting outside their haircut shop and one of them spat for me.i am afraid that these low ppl would make harrasment calls to me.what then?

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Old Jul 20, 2013, 02:21 PM
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i'm sorry people spit at you, i have been spit at too in the big city i live near, i never knew anyone else who actually got spit at.
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Old Jul 25, 2013, 03:36 AM
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They determined to kill the weak,here is my DECLARATION OF READINESS to confront it.
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 07:25 PM
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continue the angwish theory landing,it's one of the kind thing going on me.
too decent.

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Old Jul 30, 2013, 12:16 PM
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first,the thing happens on me is a rare thing or rarely attention paid.(even now someones talking dirty outside below my window of sixth floor,(勺子太厉害了。).)(i am hit and lost.)for others to know about it,he/she must experience it,but in common sense,they're busy with making money for their living,how can they get close to me.(now,and future,not many days left if this not changed,in contrast,i am their devour.)
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 06:24 AM
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who'd voice with me in skype,i note that whatever it would be,however unbearable it is,i got food,lockable shelter,no privacy is ok,i'd work it out,why take in bad results from others wrongness.idk.talk with me,and i got some straight tiredness,and call it a day.skype name is standinthelord.
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