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Jul 05, 2006, 10:29 PM
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Our niece whome we found out the beginning of June was pregnant is not . She had an ultrasound today and there is an empty sac. And the thing is .. for us this means we wont be adopting or be able to adopt the baby either.
  I feel bad for her...for her loss. But yet with her being unwed ... and out of college and the" sperm donor" grrrr that is what we are calling him cause he was being such a jerk to her... she is young and will have the rest of her life to try again for a baby. For my husband and I.. this was it for us. As realistic as I was trying to be about this.. OMG.... I wanted this so bad. I've always wanted a baby so bad. And yet another one has been ripped away from me... another chance for me to be a mother... and for some fullfillment in my heart . Maybe I just dont deserve it.
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Jul 05, 2006, 10:51 PM
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So sorry this has happened. I don't blame you for being devastated at all, it's a hard situation. But if you want motherhood this badly then adopt a baby or a young child. There are so many children in the need of a loving home and you could provide them with that. Please do not give up on motherhood yet.
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Jul 06, 2006, 12:38 AM
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Beth,
I'm so sorry this happened. I do believe that you would make an excellent mom, and there is a child out there somewhere who needs your love and can benefit from all you have to give. Please don't give up hope, you DO deserve to be a mom, and you deserve great things to happen to you. Love, Zen 
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Jul 06, 2006, 02:23 AM
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((( Bethy )))
I'm so sorry, both for your niece and for you. As Desirae and Zen said, please don't give up hope. This isn't the last chance for you... 
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Jul 06, 2006, 07:58 AM
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beth.....i am so sorry.......
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Jul 06, 2006, 07:59 AM
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((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))
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Jul 06, 2006, 03:06 PM
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)))))) ) )) )trying2beme ((((((( ( ( (( don't give up. There are so many babies who need a loving home.....
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Jul 06, 2006, 07:16 PM
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Oh Beth! I am so sorry this has happened to your neice and to your and your husband. Please don't give up hope.
Hugs, Jan
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I still dream and I still hope, therefore I can take what comes today. Jan is in Lothlorien reading 'neath a mallorn tree. My avatar and signature were created for my use only and may not be copied or used by anyone else. |
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