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#26
Jan 15, 2004, 05:03 PM
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Just so long as it's heavy and it makes a satsifying "bonnnnnnng" off someone's head, I'll take it!
 some of it's magic some of it's tragic but i had a good life all the way...... ~jimmy buffett
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#27
Jan 15, 2004, 06:15 PM
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I'll go for an "el kabong!" (secret identity of quickdraw mcgraw for those who might remember...)
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#28
Jan 15, 2004, 07:39 PM
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Heheheh. Reading posts can be well, can send me to all levels of emotion. While I understand the frustrations (and for a P.S. few ppl in FL can get SS without an attorney) I think it's important to NOT think physical.
You are showing a really high level of distress, and I understand that, really. BUT feeling like physical violence, and thinking about it... and POSTING such , borders on a line I would rather no one here cross. ...I can misspeak like the best of us
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#29
Jan 15, 2004, 08:00 PM
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Who are you directing your response to Skybdark?
I got the impression from the posts that it feels good to let out the steam of the frustration that people feel.... it is like punching a pillow or listening to music loudly. Gosh.....imagining yourself clunking someone over the head with a frying pan doesn't mean you are going to do it.  When I get frustrated with someone...in my dreams I imagine they are strapped to the front of my Hummer (dream car). ahhhhhhh  Letting out the stress is good for you.....it is the keeping of the emotions in that is not good. Just my thoughts......  Heather
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#30
Jan 15, 2004, 08:08 PM
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Actually, I was replying to any who posted physical actions against another. My mind doesn't allow me to remember such things as s/ns and total posts...
And there is research regarding the possible detriment of venting. So venting, and suppressing are considered less than good responses to frustration... Considering physical abuse or retaliation isn't acceptable to me; just thought you'd want to know. ...I can misspeak like the best of us
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Jan 15, 2004, 08:15 PM
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I am sorry you are unable to remember the posts but if you follow them through....reading each one of them....my opinion of them is of healthy venting and emoticons/avatars.
Heather
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#32
Jan 15, 2004, 08:15 PM
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HAHAHA I would imagine it would make more of BONKK sound than boooiiiinnnnnng hehehe I'm thinking boing would come from aluminum rather than cast iron. muaaahaaaahaaaa
<font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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#33
Jan 15, 2004, 08:19 PM
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Do I remember El Kabong? Now his guitar would produce a very definite oing sound... KaaaBOING!!
<font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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#34
Jan 15, 2004, 08:22 PM
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Well... I'm sorry you feel that way, but my anger is being defused by the laughing... so I think I'll continue.
<font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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Jan 15, 2004, 08:25 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{Tomi}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Heather
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Jan 15, 2004, 08:28 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Heather}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Love you, Hun!<font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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#37
Jan 15, 2004, 08:31 PM
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Love you too sweetie
  Heather
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#38
Jan 15, 2004, 08:31 PM
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SkyBdark, from my own personal experience with both repressing feelings and venting the way I have here, venting is much, much healthier! Anyone that knows me here knows that I would never carry through with harming someone physically. Maybe you need to be reassured in that aspect, eh?
If it still bothers you, maybe you could leave this thread and read something that doesn't bother you so much. <font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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#39
Jan 15, 2004, 08:36 PM
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Eeeelll KABONG!!!! hehehehe And like Queeks Draw Magraw used to say to Babalouie "I'll do the thinkin' around here!"
See, Dex? I remember my cartoons! <font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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Jan 15, 2004, 11:23 PM
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Psssssssst Tomi and Heather -
remember my baseball bat???? rofl 
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Jan 16, 2004, 05:52 AM
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I LOVED Quick Draw McGraw! Elllllllll Kabonnnnnnng! [laughing]
some of it's magic some of it's tragic but i had a good life all the way...... ~jimmy buffett
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Jan 16, 2004, 08:13 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{Mary Alice}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
heeheehee yes I do hun Can I borrow it? puuuhhhhleeeezzze? Heather
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Jan 16, 2004, 12:44 PM
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HAHAHAHA Yep! I get it after Heather!!
Oh, oops! I forgot about my cast iron skillet! Nevermind! <font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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#44
Jan 16, 2004, 01:17 PM
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:::::::
 roudly giving Heather her OWN bat::::::::::::::::::::::[wiping tears away] you've earned it, take good care of it and use it wisely.
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#45
Jan 16, 2004, 01:18 PM
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it's okay Tomi, you have advanced to the stage where you too may have your own........
::::::::::giving "mom" her own bat:::::::::::::::::::::::: [smooches and hugs] xoxoxoxox
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#46
Jan 16, 2004, 02:01 PM
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hehehehe {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Mary Alice}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Thank you, Sweet Daughter!
Nobody's going to abuse us anymore, are they?  hehehehe They just have to know that we're willing to go the distance to protect ourselves, by golly! <font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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#47
Jan 16, 2004, 06:57 PM
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Hello again. Hmmm that would mean because of improper handling of anger i.e. venting or repressing, I should be self-banned from any future forum on anger?
Releasing frustration and expressing anger are healthy ... venting and repressing only injures us further. I don't expect ppl to totally post like normal ppl, since obviously we all have disorders, but I have every right to post my opinions especially when they are backed up with good therapeutic methods. We are trying to get along with each, I know... ...I can misspeak like the best of us
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#48
Jan 16, 2004, 07:40 PM
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I appreciate your right to your own opinion... just don't tell me what I can and cannot do, ok?
If reading that someone isn't expressing their feelings how you think is proper disturbs you, then it's very simple to remedy the problem. Don't read it! Just like you have your right to your own opinions, we have a right to ours. As long as the rest of us aren't triggering other folks into doing something illegal or immoral, which we're not, I certainly don't see any problem with what we have been doing. <font color=blue>"The winds of change continue rolling and they just carry me away."</font color=blue>
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#49
Jan 17, 2004, 09:05 AM
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I agree - venting and laughing about it is a whole lot better than repressing it! Otherwise I might have to put my foot in someone's behind at work - so I view this as a way to keep my professional demeanor
. Very therapeutic!!some of it's magic some of it's tragic but i had a good life all the way...... ~jimmy buffett
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#50
Jan 17, 2004, 09:20 AM
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I completely agree as well
I am such a believer in laughing at my own problems and venting them away....gosh I would feel too weird if I was normal .Heather
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