[PasDeDeux]

Can't we all just get along or use the ignore button? I hate to see a lot of side comments in posts (fights) and see people leaving. ...or even outright fights Isn't that what the IGNORE button IS for? We CAN do this if we use it. I come here for help and can sure use each and everyone of you. Please just ignore anyone you do not get along with

[kimmydawn]

Agreed. Discord brought to the public forums affects so many.

Please keep the personal matters private, and make use of the tools available.

KD

[shearmaniac]

We all come here for support so I don`t think there should be arguments. We should really just try to support & be non judgemental.....

[January]

<font color="blue"> The ignore button is our friend.

Jan</font>

[Liv28]

(((((((((((((((((((PASDEDEUX))))))))))))))))))) My sentiments exactly!!! Its really sad when the few people fighting can bring down the WHOLE room even further..but then again, how easy it is for us to focus on the drama instead of surrounding ourselves with the ones that WILL support us?! We must remember the majority in this room are here to give support and are still here for the ones that need it..They too need support and love and why not focus on them instead..that is what I intend on doing from now on..if you need an ear..or a hug..just yell!

I've always had trouble with the words "put someone on ignore."

It seems harsh.

I was wondering if we could change that and put in a button that just says...

[allthegirls6]

Now petunia thats clever. I dont use ignore but i would use your button.

[Liv28]

LOL...me too!!!

[Fuzzybear]

Completely agree, those words have always felt very harsh to me .... now THAT "No Drama!" button, I would use

[Gemstone]

LOL, That is a good idea petunia.

[radio_flyer]

Wow .. me too... The ignore button feels harsh, i agree......oooo i do like the NO DRAMA button much better...

[bebop]

good idea

[Sabrina]

I haven't used the ignore button even though I have been tempted to once or twice. The thing is my curiosity gets the better of me every time!!

I would use a No Drama button too!!

[Frozen_Heart]

Forgive my ignorance but where is the ignore button (I'm glad I haven't felt the need to use it).

???????

[Rhapsody]

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PasDeDeux said:
Can't we all just get along or use the ignore button? I hate to see a lot of side comments in posts (fights) and see people leaving. ...or even outright fights Isn't that what the IGNORE button IS for? We CAN do this if we use it. I come here for help and can sure use each and everyone of you. Please just ignore anyone you do not get along with

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I personally use my tools (the ignore / block button) and while that may keep me from receiving unwanted PM - it does not stop unwanted post, for rather I can see them or not.... other members still have to be exposed to them.

Big Sigh!!......... so IMHO the button is not the solution here, ACCEPTANCE of ALL is.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

As someone once said (prob a mod) if someone has an issue with another person, why not take a step back, digest their potential reply, and think of the nature and consequences of their post.

I don't really see the point of posting (or sending pms) in order to hurt someone else. Where's the helping part in that... which i thought was what this community was all about.

There are rules, but then again, if individuals do not apply them, the whole board suffers as a result. And that is a darn shame.

I promise to never again let my passionate nature speak out publicly here and since I've always been supportive.....I will do that in PMs..........If I do post, I promise it will be late at night and to the people who are truly in serious pain.

I promise to remain caring to my friends and will offer my total support to those who need me. I will promise to continue to read so that I will be aware of what others may need.

I promise to use the ignore button with the will and determination that i use IRL and will never again let anyone here get to me.

[Liv28]

YEAH, PAT!!! That's what I am talking about!! lol..its about time!! Hate to sound cliche..but YOU GO GIRL!!!

GIRL IS GOING>..didn't you feel that rush of wind.....sorry, i digressed and got off topic.......xoxox to you, Liv......

to be honest, theres another conflict surrounding us in the outside world, why bring it to a supportive community. these type of sites are few and far between, so lets keep it clean and all get along. tolerance is an important part of everyday life, and we are all grown-ups here, so we should all act like it. and show consideration to fellow members. we are all here for a reason, and that reason isnt to argue.we can do it if we try...in the time ive been signed onto this site i havent had any problems with anyone, and thats been after about 4/5 weeks, so it is possible. thats my rant finished hehe.

[Liv28]

(((SIMPLYSIMON)))) Well put!!!

[wi_fighter]

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I promise to never again let my passionate nature speak out publicly here

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Ditto

[Fuzzybear]

Ditto ..."I promise to never again let my passionate nature speak out publicly here"

Been there and done that too

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I will not promise not to growl though

I promise to be more thoughtful with what I write and I'll try not to be insensitive, judgemental or flaming. (((((((hugs to everyone))))))))