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Old Aug 07, 2006, 07:24 PM
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I am sure we do not all sit on PC all day and night as that would not be very healthy. What do you do ?

Me I am married have 2 daughters we have a nice family and do a lot of things together like going to the beach, boating, shopping, we love to eat out and have BBQ's and just TALK
My husband and I both work and like our jobs
We as a family try to stay fit.
Right now my husband is laying a ceramic floor and I am off and on helping while I paint the dinningroom.
I do keep very busy IRL and see a T once a week to once every 2 weeks.
My friends and I do not go to bars but we do shop and eat out and go to the beach or use my one friends pool. I cannot list it all but this is a good way IMHO to get to know one another even better/
I like to latchhook and read also
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Old Aug 07, 2006, 07:27 PM
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And I LOVE to make and eat popcorn What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life? What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life? What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life? <-- thanks Rhaps
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Old Aug 07, 2006, 07:48 PM
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Wow you do have your hands ful but it sounds like with only worthwhile things thats a nice balance
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Old Aug 07, 2006, 09:57 PM
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Well my husband & I both work. He works in construction , I`m a hairdresser & own my salon. I have 1 son who I absolutely adore & we also recieve alot on weekends & enjoy just getting together with friends!
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Old Aug 07, 2006, 10:10 PM
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ok... i am married with 4 children, we all have seprate lives, or thou we do go out to places as a family we dont really talk.
my wife works in a care home ( and is a member of pc) i am currantly off work but when im working im a kitchen porter, our oldest child has ADD, second oldest is ok i think as she spends most of her day in her room or on the computer, the third oldest has ADHD , and can be a right handful , and the baby of the family is a proper daddy's girl, even thou she is only 12 she is so wise for her years,
we do go out to places together and they spend so much money its scary, but i love them all so much
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Old Aug 07, 2006, 10:13 PM
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I farm, and I chase storms. Snow storms or tornadoes, It doesn't matter. I have seen over 25 tornadoes and funnels,and the closest I have been to a tornado is the dust-debri cloud. Once, I looked directly up into a funnel. One tornado was powerful enough to rip up the asphalt from a highway. The sound of the storms is awesome, like several Niagra Falls. Lightning feeder channels have passed through me. It feels like touching a power mower spark plug. Probably, I need my head examined for taking such chances.

Right now, our crops are dying because of a two year drought. We raise corn and soy beans, and combine season is usually in late September. This year, it may be August if we don't get more rain and cooler weather.
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 12:21 AM
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umm ... as most of you know i have a phd in criminal psychology (substance abuse and offending) ... i love to travel and am currently planning my next trip to south america ... my last was to malaysia for work ... i went into the private sector to a corporate job in the end because it's better pay and more opportunities (working for a global company). right now my life seems to revolve around developing my career so i work pretty long hours.

i love to go out, drink wine, chill out with friends ... a lot of my friends including my sort-of-boy are DJs so often go check out them spinning at a club or party.

hmmm i love shopping and the beach too.
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 01:15 AM
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I am working in a thankless useless job but it pays the bills...
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 01:28 AM
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Not alot, actually. I can't work (tried last month), can't drive to go anywhere. I spend time with my sister and husband the most, when they aren't working. I go to my mom's a couple times a month, mostly talk on the phone occasionally to the rest of the family. I play at a few sites, watch movies, read, write very occasionally. What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life?
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 02:20 AM
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I do a lot -- too much, most likely. Am stretched too thin, in fact.

I am self-employed and have a full-time client and a few part-time clients. I take classes toward an MBA and just finished a certificate program in Mediation/Conflict Resolution. I am the president of a nonprofit organization that provides educational programs on cultural respect and world travel - it takes up a good portion of my free time. Until recently, I was on the board of directors for a women's SA/DV crisis line, but I stepped down because I simply couldn't dedicate any extra time to it. I am a hardcore gardener and am currently helping my husband with carpentry projects on weekends. I also ride my bicycle (road) long distances, usually with a group of my girlfriends; sometimes take yoga classes or run. My biggest passion is world exploration - I have been to more countries than I can count and planning one trip to the next is what keeps me motivated to work as hard as I do. And of course, I am a moderator here.

My absolute guiltiest leisure vice is watching a few shows on Comedy Central - South Park, Reno 911, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report. The most relaxing thing that I do is go for walks around our neighborhood (I love where we live) with my husband or my best friend, or sit on our patio with my husband around the fire pit. We used to love camping, but that was before we started putting every weekend into renovating our house and yard.

All in all, I'm very happy with my life, but just need about 4 more hours to each day.
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 02:36 AM
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I would donate 4 hours a day to you...you could use them much more than me! What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life?
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 02:42 AM
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You might say Im a jane of all trades and then some. having DID my life is kind of pot luck depending on what piece of memory I get triggered in to and act out. from knowing some of the memory content of (at the least since I still lose time I know there are more separated pieces of memories that I have no idea what pieces of memories get acted out so have no idea what I do in them) 17 separated pieces of memories I know that I -

write
type on my typewriter
watch tv
read nancy drew, the hardy boys, trixie belden, the bobsey twins, edgar allen poe, sherlock holmes, danielle steele, V. C. Andrews, Dean Koontz, Alfred Hitchcock, little house on the prairie, and many more..
play the piano, guitar, flute, recorder, claranet
speak some french, spanish, possibly german found (some weird writing)
housework
laundry
cooking
draw
paint
crochet
knit
macrame
latch hook
Sign language
Shorthand
balancing and accounting
day care
journal writing

Since I still lose time The list goes on...

While aware I -

journal writing
various mediums of artwork
day care provider at times
tutoring from time to time
researching and planning my therapy projects and activities.
vollunteer work
started and facilitator of a support group for women survivors of sexual abuse
cook
clean
sew and other crafts
biking
walking
visit friends
see my therapist and various doctors for my health problems
physical therapy from time to time
visit my child when I can
take care of my cat
pay bills
grocery and other types of shopping
advocate for survivors who are escaping abusive situations
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 04:40 AM
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I'm married to four wonderful husbands, who help me raise our 23 kids. We have 16 girls and seven boys. All the kids have jobs to do, so I don't have to work. The little ones clean and pick up trash, the middle ones do slightly harder work, like laundry, and help the older ones raise the two babies. The older ones also have jobs outside the house and one is just starting college as well. The ones with jobs outside our home pay me 60% of their salaries for rent, plus another 15% for food and utilities. I watch TV and shop at malls all day.

Kidding! Kidding! What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life? When I'm not online, I'm cooking dinner, cleaning the apartment, watching TV, writing, reading, and, once in a while, I do other things, usually creative stuff. On the weekends, I usually go out with my boyfriend.
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 04:45 AM
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Maven said:
I'm married to four wonderful husbands, who help me raise our 23 kids. We have 16 girls and seven boys. All the kids have jobs to do, so I don't have to work. The little ones clean and pick up trash, the middle ones do slightly harder work, like laundry, and help the older ones raise the two babies. The older ones also have jobs outside the house and one is just starting college as well. The ones with jobs outside our home pay me 60% of their salaries for rent, plus another 15% for food and utilities. I watch TV and shop at malls all day.

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Old Aug 08, 2006, 07:32 AM
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I'm 52 years old & have 2 grown children (30 yr.-old lawyer in Dallas & 27 yr.-old engineer in San Francisco, but he is moving to Argentina in a month!). I work part-time in the billing dept. at a tennis club (spend all my time on a computer there). My husband & I travel a lot. We have a 2nd home in AZ so we go there one week a month (We live in Indiana) & do a lot of hiking. We also visit our "kids" frequently.

I co-lead a support group as a volunteer at the women's jail once a week & go to 2 support groups that meet monthly as well (through DBSA & mental health assoc.). I was diagnosed with bp about 4 yrs. ago, maybe 5 by now, & haven't been sleeping much since April so I read A LOT from around 2:30am-6:30am when my husband gets up. I journal & exercise a lot (DVD's, stairmaster & treadmill that we have at home) to help keep my mood up. In the winter I also add sitting under a full-spectrum light. Plus all the wonderful meds.

I'm kinda isolated from other people. When I was really ill, I stayed home & avoided any contact with people except my immediate family (poor guys!). I now feel that I lack social skills & am pretty lonely. I do enjoy the support groups where other people are "in the same boat" & I can learn from them & offer encouragement.

I do the normal housework, etc. that is necessary for daily life.

Off the subject, I'm pretty new at computers. What does IRL mean? Here in Indy it has to do with car racing (Indy Racing League). I don't think that's what it means in pc!
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 07:38 AM
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Hmmm...well 2 days I week I attend partial hospitalization. I recently came out as a lesbian so I'm working on networking with other lesbians that I can just talk to.

I run my own website and moderate 2 others. I exercise when I can and do all the things around the house. I also clean my dad's house, help him out in any way I can, do his gardening, some cooking, some of his laundry, and I also buy his groceries when I can. I have a handful of cats that I keep at his farm so I'm busy taming them and the new kittens.

Oh yeah, I'm also attending an online college to get my associate's degree in psychology right now, too. I'm trying to currently lose weight so I'm busy focusing on that, too.

I have no children, but my cats are truly my children so it works out just fine!
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 07:55 AM
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Suzy5654 said: What does IRL mean? Here in Indy it has to do with car racing (Indy Racing League). I don't think that's what it means in pc!

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Hi Suzy IRL means "In Real Life" What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life?
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 08:13 AM
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I am married to a wonderful...... bear What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life?

I love eating out, cooking, the beach, studying (I have a degree), music, playing the piano.... and many other things, including searching for....... bugs.

We are also trying for cubs.

What do you DO in your real lifeor 3D life?
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 09:13 AM
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IRL--thanks for the info. on what that means!
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 09:19 AM
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I am married (20 yrs) to my high school sweetheart and father of our two boys (21 & 16).
I am a homemaker and have been most of my married life.... I take care of the house, 4 dogs, grocery shopping, errands, cooking, laundry, paying bills and managing the family finances. I am presently helping one of my nieces out who has just recently found herself as a single parent of three (her man cheated on her and then left the state) - so I baby sit two of her kids during the day (2 yrs & 9 mths) and then I pick her 5 year old up from school and keep them all until she gets off work at 10 pm - Mon thru Wed.

I fill in any extra free time with visiting & helping my retired parents, walking the lake with my baby - my pitbull Zulu, reading a good book, watching Animal Planet, being with my family or just relaxing out back in the wide open country field / woods.

Oh yeah!! - Hubby and I have a "Date your Mate" night at least two times a month..... to keep things fresh.

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Old Aug 08, 2006, 11:19 AM
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I live on a horse ranch in Texas (have seven Arabians) I train and ride..I am also a student (becoming a Paralegal) and work full-time at a Law Firm..
I love fast toys-jet skis, cars, motorcycles, horses..the faster the better..I love extreme anything..river running, rock climbing, spelunking, cliff diving, bunji jumping..and on and on..
I am a traveler..I have been all over the world..Europe..Canada..All over U.S...and its ongoing..
Am now married..three years..
When not here I am busy taking care of the ranch, horses, out playing, or finding a new adventure!!
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 11:28 AM
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in my real i allways put others first , why i dont know , i have four children i suppose you can tell that from hubbys post (therealme) my children have been hard work and still are my oldest daughter takes up most of my effort shes 22 with severe learning dificuties and behavioural problems along with her add my second eldest is 19 she is dyslexic and her self astyeem is low spends most of her time with a couple of friends or on a chat site or in her room, my son is 15 next mth he is adhd though hes well behaved in school i see a lot of his problems, my yoingest daughter is 13 next mth she just knows to much and yes she is daddys girl not that i mind because she looks out for him when im not home, i have been married nearly 15 yrs, i have depression this is 3 time i have medicated for this and the longest , i work 8 night shifts of 12hrs a mth and jugel my life i dont mix much now as i was betrayed last year by my best friend but thats another story,
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Old Aug 08, 2006, 12:14 PM
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Im a housewife & disabled with back problems

I have 2 boys aged 5yrs & 7 yrs who can b hard work when im having as bad day as i have them on my own while my husband is at work
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