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Oct 17, 2006, 10:25 AM
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I have messed up.
I talked to Mr Bear today. I have decided he has quite "loose boundaries".... in other words he is very tolerant of me. Perhaps he is too tolerant of my "crap" as it could be called. Not that I intend to do "crap". But there are a couple of issues which I need/want to change. And I think seeing a counsellor is the only real way to change them quickly... or more quickly. Either that, or be very silent. Ugh. Sorry if this post seems cryptic. I am just a bit mad at myself. Take care, Fuzzy
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Oct 17, 2006, 10:30 AM
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Fuzz Bear,
Counseling can be a very good thing. It doesn't mean you're bad! It takes bravery and fortitude to realize you need to change and then go do something about it. Hugs, Jan
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#3
Oct 17, 2006, 10:41 AM
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your not a bad bear your a smart bear, you saw something and want to correct it, this is very possitive
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Oct 17, 2006, 10:48 AM
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((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))
Not bad - it is a good thing to help yourself. Take care of YOU!
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Oct 17, 2006, 12:16 PM
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People (and bears hehe) who admit to having problems that they want to change are very brave and strong minded individuals. many people will go through life thinking the world has problems but they dont, but everyone alive has problems, big or small. but to stand and say you have these problems, and say that you are thinking of councilling to help yourself, means alot to me and i think you should be very proud of yourself.
i hope it goes well. you certainly are not a "bad bear" hehe. simon |
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Oct 17, 2006, 02:10 PM
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Thanks everyone.....your kindness is much appreciated by this bear!
 
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Oct 17, 2006, 03:30 PM
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They said it well before I saw this. Going to a doctor or counselor is no different than having your car repared.
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Oct 17, 2006, 03:33 PM
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Thanks weather..... makes sense!
 Fuzzy
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Oct 17, 2006, 03:46 PM
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I give thumbs up on the Therapist idea! Mine helped me wonderfully today after my reaction to having my buttons pushed last night.
You are not a bad bear. You said it correctly: you messed up. Big deal. So did I. You and I can't change what happened or what we did, but we can change how we are feeling about it, and that in turn will help us next time! There are NO bad bears! (BTW I also don't think there are any "bad" children either!)
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Oct 17, 2006, 05:01 PM
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Thanks Sky. Good points!!
 (((((( Sky ))))))Fuzzy
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Oct 17, 2006, 05:15 PM
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Hi Fuzzybear...you are not a bad bear at all...if you can stand back and take a look at yourself and decide to get help....you are a good bear...and a courageous bear and a smart bear!!! I think I am going to look for a therapist also...!!
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#12
Oct 17, 2006, 06:17 PM
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How about if I keep you to that?
 
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Oct 18, 2006, 04:04 AM
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((((((((((( Fuzzy ))))))))))
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Oct 18, 2006, 07:33 AM
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Maybe that is what I need Fuzzybear...someone to give me a little push in the right direction...! I know a therapist may help me...I have been thinking of it!
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Oct 19, 2006, 06:23 AM
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sorry i have only just seen this post, fuzzy you are a very brave special bear, counsilling helped me i hope it helps you, good luck
(((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))
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Oct 19, 2006, 06:34 AM
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fuzzybear = bad ? NO
fuzzybear = good ? YES fuzzy you are one of the most caring and helpful bears i know  i saw a "T" and it was so good to get some things off my chest that i went back for 12 sessions when i first went i thought it would be .... "its all down to your childhood" but it wasnt like that, she listened while i talked and talked and talked, give it a try it may help you, like you have helped so many of us here on PC take care fuzzy, your in my thoughts dear uk bear dec xox
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Oct 19, 2006, 09:30 AM
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Not getting along well with a few people and getting along well with most ppl are two different things entirely. Not being able to work well with a few ppl does not make someone bad. It's the same idea that you have a great day except for one negative thing that happens...that doesn't make it a bad day.
Just thinking, bear.
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Oct 19, 2006, 12:27 PM
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No such thing as a bad bear! Therapy sure helped me to do some things differently with my Mr. Every now and then I go back for a refresher course. (((((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))
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Oct 19, 2006, 12:55 PM
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Hey Katheryn! How long have you been seeing your counsellor for? And did/are you seeing her on the NHS? Feel free not to reply if you feel I am being too nosey. I really don't know many people in my area of the planet who are seeing counsellors or have seen counsellors. I know a few, I guess I need "endless" discussions before I get my fuzzy butt in gear. Or something like that. But if you don't want to tell me, either here, or in PM, I have no problem at all with that!
(((((((((((( Katheryn ))))))))))))))) PS If you have posted the info. on here, please ignore my post or direct me to the post you made. Sorry if I seem formal here. I just have been getting my fur in a few knots lately to you
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Oct 19, 2006, 01:33 PM
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The flower and the bear are feeling a bit gray and pale.
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Oct 19, 2006, 03:02 PM
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Oct 19, 2006, 03:03 PM
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Oct 19, 2006, 03:04 PM
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((((((((((((((( Tanya )))))))))))))))
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Oct 19, 2006, 07:00 PM
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((((((((((((( therealme ))))))))))))))
Thank you hon! xo Fuzzy
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Oct 19, 2006, 07:02 PM
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((((((((((((((( ozzie ))))))))))))))))
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