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Old Jul 12, 2015, 08:53 PM
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nah, i could careless how other people work or what their standards are. They are their own individual and can choose and live how they wish.
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Old Jul 17, 2015, 12:53 PM
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One thing I've noticed about perfectionists in my experience that they are very insecure and try to hide it by controlling everything in their environment and keeping things orderly and if someone says anything negative they take it personal as a a character flaw. I used to do that too and worry too much about what other people think, but then just recently I realized that I am only responsible for what I say and do and my body and what I own and that's it. If someone doesn't like something about me, that's out of my control number one and number two if they judge you for a flaw like that then that says more about them than it does about you.
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Old Jul 17, 2015, 11:38 PM
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yes it's always important to remember there's a lot more going on in people's lives than you see
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