[DocJohn]

Rainbowzz is a 2+ year member of Psych Central who's also a new mom (as many of you may know).

She put in a request for a Community Fund Drive to help her with some new mom stuff that would help her own fight against isolation and the difficulties she faces. I'll let her get into more detail if she'd like, but I believe her request is justified and appropriate, and so open it up to the community for help.

Please consider donating to our community fund to help Rainbowzz out.

Psych Central will match dollar for dollar of every dollar donated (up to the maximum of $250; $500 total to the member). Every dollar counts, so even if you can afford just $5, please consider this request.

The easiest way to donate is to send money via PayPal to:

donations@psychcentral.com
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Otherwise, send your check or money order (no cash, please) to:

Liviant LLC
PO Box 5464
Bradford, MA 01835

Everyone who donates gets access to our exclusive Poohbah Forum, and our thanks for helping out another member in need in our community.

This Community Fund Drive will run for approximately one week; donations will close on Wed., April 16, 2008.

If you cannot give at this time, please consider Rainbowzz in your thoughts and prayers, or offer her your support here in this thread. As always, I thank you for your kind consideration and support.

Best,
DocJohn

[kimmydawn]

((((((((((((((((((( Rainbowzz ))))))))))))))))))))))

Thank you, DocJohn!

KD

[Christina86]

(((((((((((((((((Rainbowzz &amp; Jeremy))))))))))))))))))))))

why cant we mail cash?

[DocJohn]

Well, you can do anything you want of course, but the postal service says never to mail cash, because it's unaccountable. So it's preferred if you sent a check, money order, or PayPal instead.

DocJohn

well i dont have checks because i'm 16 lol and i dont even know what paypal is. it doesnt matter though because whatever i send will have to be out of my own money so it wouldnt be much

[mandazzle]

Oh dang. I wanted to donate but I can't send checks because like Court, I'm too young.

[LMo]

((( Rainbowzz )))

I have some extra/duplicate baby stuff from my own showers - I'd be happy to send you some of it, if you'd find it useful. PM me, ok?

[wanttoheal]

money orders cost less than a dollar


((((((((((((Rainbowzz)))))))))))))))

[Danialla]

Hey Rainbowzz......

Anything I can do to help another mom .

Remember being a mom is probably one of the hardest jobs in the world, but one of the most rewarding too . And I know you are doing a great job at it.....

Please PM me with any questions and I will try to help any way I can....from one mom to another.

P.S. I'm praying for you too!!!!

((((everyone)))))

Let me explain where the money will be going so that all know why I have made this request.

As some of you know, I am committed to breastfeeding my gorgeous little boy Jeremy. Things are going well with nursing, but two things have happened. One, I am almost completely isolated and can't get out to have much fun because of this. Two, I need to be taking pain meds and strong ones for my back, and I can't nurse baby after I take them for a certain period of time.

What does this mean? This means in order to have a life and breastfeed safely, I need to purchase a Medela Pump In Style Pump - its known to be the best for alot of pumping which I will have to do to build up a supply. It is around three hundred fifty dollars plus tax, and that was american I think.

I have tried EVERYTHING to get one another way, but the FDA says never to use pumps that are second hand as parts cant be sterilized and could pass n germs to me and baby, and we dont want that.

Welfare wouldnt help me, La Leche didnt have any, and several other places just didnt have the funding to pay for one. Renting is out because I do not have a credit card and its almost three dollars a day, and if you think I plan to feed BM for a year, thats a HUGELY high cost.

The rest of the money is going to be spent on storage supplies, bottles, newborn nipples, and things related to bottlefeeding. I am going to try to also squeeze in a bottle warmer if there is enough left. I was SHOCKED at how expensive the best stuff for this is. But, I want my baby to have the very best.

In conclusion, you guys are helping even if it is thoughts and prayers right now. Hugs are welcome, and I will share them with the baby too.

I am more than happy to provide receipt copies for anyone who wishes to see proof of what I bought (not saying you all don';t trust me but there are people out there who would take advantage of this program and I do not want to be seen as one of them in any way.)

I also hope when I am on my feet to put the same amount of money back IN to the fund for other people who need it.

Thank you all for your consideration, and thank you Doc John for allowing me this small bit of grace.

Any questions do not hesitate to ask ok everyone?

Much Much Love and Hugs from me!

[LMo]

bump... and....

I already made a donation and will send you some stuff as discussed, but I also wanted to pass along the following website:

http://www.thebabychain.com

Doesn't appear to be quite as utilized as it could be, but it's something to keep an eye on!

[Rhapsody]

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Oh dang. I wanted to donate but I can't send checks because like Court, I'm too young.

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Send a Money Order........ same as a Check.


Good Luck ((((((( Rainbow ))))))) -

[DocJohn]

Hey folks, I just wanted to thank everyone who has responded so far. This community is a fantastic group of people! Even if you couldn't send any money for this fund drive, the support and well-wishes remind me one of the reasons I love this place!

In less than 2 days, we've raised $210.00 so far, and only need another $40.00 to close out this fund drive. You all are amazing.

Thank you,
DocJohn

[Cthomas]

Got my vote rainbowzz......let me know personally if there is anything I can send you as well. oK? PM when you need. rest when you can.

You have my donation, and blessing.

Colleen

[sabby]

Oh dear....my check is in the mail today!! Rain....you so deserve this and I know it will make your life so much easier!


sabby

[mandazzle]

Oh snap I am so sending one today.

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((((( Rainbowzz and Jeremy )))))))))))))))

sorry not more detailed, im sort of an emotional wreck tonight because of the ex....but thank you all soso much. more when im not so downhearted.....

Sending you and Jeremy good thoughts and hearts and... just lots of good stuff. I wanted to tell you that I think you are an amazing, loving mother.

[DocJohn]

Thank you all for your support and help for Rainbowzz.

We've reached our fundraising goal for this drive and a check has been sent.

Thanks again!!! You are all so great!

DocJohn

Dearhearts,

I am replying not one by one because I will be honest the ex has me very depressed and I am struggling tonight.

I just wanted to explain how this will help me.

Finally, I will be able to pump and store breastmilk for the baby. This means that when I reach severe pain threshold, instead of suffering and being depressed about it, I will be able to take my meds and feed him the stored milk.

It also means I will have all of the supplies I need to feed Jeremy in this situation. IT means I will be able to go out for the night if I want, make some friends and visit some old ones. It means if I go out with JEremy I dont have to haul out the boob in public, which I know i shouldnt worry about but with my past issues it makes me uncomfortable.

Heres to breastfeeding until at least one year!

Thank you for helping to keep my baby healthy. I am copying this thread into Jeremys baby book so he knows all the wonderful people who helped when his momma was down and out.

[sujunew]

(((((rainbowzz)))))(((((jeremy)))))
best wishes, and kudos for your will to breastfeed through all of this. I was unable to breastfeed at all, so am in awe of anyone who not only has the ability but also has such dedication and determination.

[Razzleberry]

Good luck with it all Rainbowzz. I'm here if you need help or links to support resources. I went thru a lot of stuff trying to breastfeed, so I know where to find a lot of information if/when you need it. Good luck. Breastmilk is one of the best gifts you can give to your child.

[BrnEyedGrl]

Sending you and Jeremy hugs and prayers.
I too struggled some when I had my son so I know how it is...good luck to you both and keep your head up!