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I was just wondering what are some triggers that everyone deals with?
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kids, sex, and men are my triggers. Crap, they all go hand in hand, too!
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Elderly men, certain names, ignorance to topics (such as self injury), things touching my neck, red writing, closing my eyes (if not tired), sometimes water...and a lot of other things.....whoa...I didn't think there were so many until I started listing them.
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snakes, dark, men, mens calogne, right guard deodorant, close up toothpaste, shows involving sex and or rape, lawnmowers, red, crowds, fuuny face by donna fargo, eggs, thursdays, babies crying, ...... the list goes on
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controlling people
someone yelling or raising his/her voice being alone outdoors leaving my residence without necessity bugs crawling on me being forced to do anything I'm not ready to do male physicians examining me talking about my past asking for help and not receiving any crying sexual contact man alone with child compliments being attractive or sexy being told, "I love you" my father |
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fighting and screaming
hair twirling / head rubs basements / crawl spaces black / red robes burned campfire places being touched / held being hugged / kissed certain songs being in Church snakes / dogs going to the doctor vomiting / gagging anything to do with bodiliy functions tight / closed spaces fire / water wow --- I wonder how I amke it thru each day. --- being numb I guess |
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nighttime
being alone having to confront someone someone confronting me chop meat blood my family |
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Being hugged from behind
certain words the smell of Polo cologne tiaras plaid
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You are not too much for them. They are not enough for you. ~E. Bennings |
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OMG! Gracey! Polo cologne and hugs from behind are big problems for me too!
Other triggers include loud noises like fireworks, large dogs, certain names, the CRC, guns
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Obsidian Lord, help me be the person my psychiatrist medicates me to be... |
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
jennie said: controlling people someone yelling or raising his/her voice being alone outdoors leaving my residence without necessity bugs crawling on me being forced to do anything I'm not ready to do male physicians examining me talking about my past asking for help and not receiving any crying sexual contact man alone with child compliments being attractive or sexy being told, "I love you" my father </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Oh my, I can SO relate to so much of that it's frightening. Bed Bath and Beyond is a trigger for me, I found that out the hard way, now when I manage to get out of the house (not easy) I go out of my way to NOT drive past it. Making matters worse; I love that store (used to I guess) and my roommate works there and has a discount . . . Being touched, hugged even in sympathy and support is a big trigger for me, and really hurts because I SO NEED a hug . . . Please, someone lie to me, tell me that I'm going to get past this, that I'm going to heal and have a life again one day??? My therapist is a woman (I couldn't talk to men in the past, now it's even worse) but miracle of miracles my Shrink is a guy, but he's okay. I'm so tired . . . Can I go home now? I'm being good, why am I still being punished???
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I am a spiritual woman living a human life . . . Damn, no wonder it's messed up, I picked second class citizen status for this trip . . . I wouldn't trade it for all the testosterone or money in the universe. I love being a girl! |
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being touched especially around my neck
certain laughs someone behind me the smell of hay crowds sex arms around me being pushed doctors agressive people loud people smell of leather someone too close to my face or ears smell or feeling someones breath in my face someone in authority
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Being asked/told to look or dress the way the other person wants.
Being told I'll like being submissive. Being asked questions of a political nature.
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If you're not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space! Rondeau |
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I never know what might trigger me. It's like walking through a mine field. I am always on alert.
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