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#26
Jul 29, 2008, 08:24 PM
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When parents age and become "unlovable" (or if they never really were the parents you needed them to be) a good shift is from thatidea of a "loving" daughter/ mother-dad relationship to "honoring" your mum or dad. Do what you can safely do at this point; that way you will honor her as your mother, which is still a good thing.
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#27
Jul 30, 2008, 09:19 PM
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Hugs and prayers from Angel
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#28
Jul 30, 2008, 09:34 PM
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(((((((Orange_Blossom)))))) sorry i don't come in this forum much any more..so just saw this...sending love and hugs for you and your Mom. 
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#29
Jul 31, 2008, 12:05 AM
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Thank you so much everyone.
I appreciate all your caring and good thoughts.
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#30
Jul 31, 2008, 09:59 AM
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(((((((((Orange Blossom)))))))
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All my life I have know that I am different. I have trouble with my thinking and processing information. I have trouble in keeping close friends. I am afraid of living, and I don't really know why. I am good at pretending everything is all right, by just gritting my teeth and just charging ahead and getting through the rough spots, but inside I am afraid of failure and getting critized for things I do. I am hoping someone can help me, or at least understand me. |
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#31
Jul 31, 2008, 02:55 PM
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Thanks for the hug 1oxbowgirl!
Here's one back. ((((( 1oxbowgirl )))))
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#32
Jul 31, 2008, 03:02 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((( orange blossom & mom ))))))))))))))))))))
I have much to catch up on, but please know that your mother, you and your entire family are in my thoughts. KD
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#33
Jul 31, 2008, 03:06 PM
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((((((((((((((orange-blossom+ mum))))))))))))
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 No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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#34
Aug 02, 2008, 10:11 AM
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Thanks KD and katheryn,
They moved her scan up. She's having one next week and not at the end of August as originally planned. Her case was presented to the panel at Moffitt and soon after she got a call changing her appointment to Thursday. I see it as both good and bad. Good-- they're reacting much quicker than the four weeks that were originally planned. Bad-- they're reacting much quicker than the four weeks that were originally planned which must mean it's a dire emergency. 
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#35
Aug 02, 2008, 10:29 AM
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holding your hand/leaf in these times
(((((((((((orange-blossom and mum)))))))))))))))
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#36
Aug 02, 2008, 11:27 AM
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Please let us know, so that we can be whatever is possible *for you* right now.
Please just know that you're very cared for here and hope to be whatever is possible to and for you through this time. Safe and caring hugs, KD
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#37
Aug 16, 2008, 11:46 AM
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((orange))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
The words I have for you is I am here for you nothing i can say will fix it. I know your in pain. I understand muffy
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#38
Aug 16, 2008, 12:37 PM
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((((((((((((((((((orange and mom))))))))))))))))))))))))
thinking of you dearest friend .... always, Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxoxo |
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#39
Aug 16, 2008, 03:44 PM
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((((((((((((((((( Orange_Blossom ))))))))))))))))))
More hugs coming your way.
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#40
Aug 16, 2008, 08:16 PM
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Thanks to all of you.
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Aug 17, 2008, 09:33 AM
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No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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#42
Aug 17, 2008, 08:13 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
katheryn said: </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> aww((((((((((((orange)))))))))))))))))))))))) |
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#43
Aug 22, 2008, 07:32 PM
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The news was not good.
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#44
Aug 22, 2008, 07:37 PM
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((((((((((((((( Orange )))))))))))))))
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Aug 22, 2008, 08:33 PM
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((( Fuzzy )))
 
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#46
Aug 22, 2008, 09:58 PM
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aww((((((((orange)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am so sorry  I may cry with you awwwwwwwwwww |
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#47
Aug 22, 2008, 10:22 PM
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 (((((((((((((((((((((( Orange & Mom ))))))))))))))))))) My thoughts are with you both
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Aug 23, 2008, 08:57 AM
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(((OrangeBlossom)))))))
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Aug 23, 2008, 09:37 PM
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((((((((((Orange_Blossom)))))))))))
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#50
Aug 24, 2008, 10:11 AM
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Thanks everyone. It's an emotional time for me right now. My nerves are shot to hell.
On top of worrying about my mom, my T goes for her scan to see if her cancer has come back. She has beat it twice now so I'm hopeful, but it's still scary. The ghosts of my family are hovering around too. I feel like that little ten-year-old who lost her father. And even though I was an adult when my two brothers died, I still feel small. The little one is grieving for so many lost and she's fearing the loss ahead.
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