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Old May 19, 2011, 12:25 PM
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Yes, absolutely! Go in there with your feelings about it. To stay home would be coping with the bad feelings by being avoidant, it would be self-harming by way of cutting out your therapy session. Go, with the words of what it feels like and how hard it is to have those feelings.
Thanks Echoes, you are right.
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:27 PM
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If you don't go, you'll be proving her right.
Well i don't want to do that!
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:27 PM
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Excellent. Really lovely job you calling her and her calling back. I hope tomorrow's session is good, though I can't imagine what would top ("I've been seeing you suffer for 8 years--- don't do this to me!!")
You right LYIB, it would be pretty hard to top that....
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:28 PM
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cats it was a really hard session wasnt it?i am hoping she is going to be a bit easier on you thhis session.and you are able to let her know how she left you feelingill be thinking of you.
Thanks so much Granite!!
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:28 PM
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thinking about you this morning cats. hope all turns out well with your session today.
Thanks Karebear, you are so awesome you are almost like a real CareBear!
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:29 PM
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I am glad you are going, really I am. It will be OK! Just be honest and open with her, tell her you feel like hiding, if that is still the case.......communicate! ((((((((ptsd))))))))))
Thanks for all your advice Poetgirl!
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:30 PM
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I'm glad you're going too....Update when you can! ((( BIG HUGS )))
Thanks MUE. I will update when I get home later tonight.
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:31 PM
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the way i see it, the can's already open! you can sit there covered in worms, pretending that nothing's wrong....or you can live in reality. you're upset. that's okay. she can handle it. and if, by some off chance, she can't handle it....that's not your fault.
Dr.Muffin you are so right! I guess I need to face my fears with this one eh?
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:32 PM
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Very good cats! Going to session and facing your feelings and her is how you will learn to behave as an adult. You can do it!!
"learning to behave like an adult"....that is the ultimate goal isn't it? Thanks Sannah.
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:33 PM
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Well my appointment is this afternoon. Any pocket riders want to go for a ride today??
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Old May 19, 2011, 12:41 PM
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ME!!!!! I'll ride!!!
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Old May 19, 2011, 02:49 PM
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Thanks Karebear, you are so awesome you are almost like a real CareBear!

I'm the ORIGINAL carebear cats!
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Old May 19, 2011, 02:51 PM
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I'm a good pocket rider too.... as long as I'm in the top pocket closest to your ear so I can whisper in your ear when you think you're gonna lose it!
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Old May 19, 2011, 03:40 PM
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cats, I'm sorry I missed your other thread. What your T told you sounds like something my former T told me one session where she got very firm with me for sort of the same reasons.

I'm probably too late to be a pocket rider, but in case not, I'm in! I hope your session goes well. I'm thinking of you!!!
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Old May 19, 2011, 05:01 PM
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Hey hun,

I am just getting around to reading your last thread and this one. I really hope today went well. I think if you didn't go or cancelled your Therapist would also see this as a borderline type reactions - trying to get a reaction from her in a way. I hope she was nicer to you today as I think she was too sharp on tuesday

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Old May 20, 2011, 01:54 PM
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So cats...... just wondering how everything went at your appointment?
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Old May 20, 2011, 01:56 PM
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So cats...... just wondering how everything went at your appointment?
and me too!
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Old May 20, 2011, 04:05 PM
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Well...i guess it went ok....she was 30mins late starting the appointment, then she had to go to the washroom...didn't feel like we even talked that much about anything...atleast she wasn't scary this time....that's all I got right now...sorry to be disappointing!
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Old May 20, 2011, 04:20 PM
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If she was 30 minutes late, did she give you time afterward to make it up or charge you less? 30 minutes is a long time to be late. I'm glad she wasn't scary, though.
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Old May 20, 2011, 04:42 PM
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No she didn't give me any time to make up for it. Luckily I don't have to pay to see her so it didn't affect me that way...
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Old May 20, 2011, 08:33 PM
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glad she wasnt scary this time
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Old May 20, 2011, 09:05 PM
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No she didn't give me any time to make up for it. Luckily I don't have to pay to see her so it didn't affect me that way...
Hey, that doesn't seem very fair, did she say anything about her lateness and ask how you feel about it or talk about how she could make the time up in some way?
I would feel very upset if my therapist was late for my session and didn't give me my full time. How do you feel about it?

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Old May 20, 2011, 10:55 PM
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Meh, it didn't really bother me that much. She didn't give me extra time but she has on numerous occasions given me exta time before so I guess it all works out in the end...
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Old May 21, 2011, 10:37 AM
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Is it normal for me to still be kinda upset about all this??
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Old May 21, 2011, 04:32 PM
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Is it normal for me to still be kinda upset about all this??
Do you mean about what she said in the session that made you cry? I think it's very understandable that you still feel upset, she was very harsh with you and I can imagine many of us would still feel hurt if these things had been said to us .
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