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#1
Dec 19, 2011, 08:06 PM
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Sometimes I just want to stand on top of a chair and yell at the top of my voice: "Help me!!!!!!!!!!"
And I will feel ignored.
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Lauru-------------That's me, Bipolar and Watching TV   I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. ---Robert Frost |
 JustWannaDisappear, Laura88, rainbow8, sweepy62, Unrigged64072835, WePow
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#2
Dec 19, 2011, 08:17 PM
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 Sorry Lauru! |
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#3
Dec 19, 2011, 08:22 PM
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its dangerous, u fall off.how are u feeling?
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#4
Dec 19, 2011, 08:45 PM
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Don't feel ignored, Lauru. We're here, if no one else!
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Dec 19, 2011, 08:48 PM
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~ 
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#6
Dec 20, 2011, 01:14 PM
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(((((Lauru)))))
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#7
Dec 20, 2011, 01:54 PM
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The feeling is familiar.
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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Dec 20, 2011, 02:54 PM
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#9
Dec 20, 2011, 10:58 PM
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Thanks all for the hugs and replies. I have so much going on, everything is hitting the fan all at once. I want to fall back in to old ways to ask for help. If I do it moderately, by simply asking for help, it will be ignored or dismissed. I feel like I need to yell so loud for others to hear me. I don't know anymore, I just don't know.
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Lauru-------------That's me, Bipolar and Watching TV I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. ---Robert Frost |
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#10
Dec 21, 2011, 07:36 AM
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Who do you hope will hear you?
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Dec 21, 2011, 05:55 PM
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Lauru-------------That's me, Bipolar and Watching TV I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. ---Robert Frost |
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Dec 21, 2011, 06:00 PM
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Makes a lot of sense Lauru, and I know the feeling. But if you do choose to stand on something and yell HELP ME can you just do it from something more sturdy than a chair
 Hugs to you...I know..when it rains it pours..but keep working...we are here for you..
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#13
Dec 21, 2011, 06:40 PM
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i am there.just about ready to explode too.i want to yell help me then start throwing a fit about all of the people cloging up the system with worthless claims because to them it is like buying a lottery ticket maybe they will win and get a check and never have to work while i wish so bad that i could work again.now it is a hassle just to go to the kitchen and i have not been able to go get grocerys by myself after 15 months post aneurysm.
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#14
Dec 21, 2011, 09:00 PM
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yes! It does make sense! In fact, why don't you try it at your home to see how it feels to say that out loud?
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Dec 21, 2011, 11:33 PM
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Lauru-------------That's me, Bipolar and Watching TV I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. ---Robert Frost |
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Dec 22, 2011, 12:04 AM
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Lauru.....I completely understand! Esp. around my family....being ignored by loved ones is always ******......and you know what....sometimes you do have to stand up and yell to get them to listen.
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Dec 22, 2011, 03:38 AM
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It's hard when you feel no-one hears you and you have no voice. Maybe you could "scream" for help in an e-mail or text to T? It's only natural to be scared but just remember that you DO deserve help
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Dec 22, 2011, 08:51 AM
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It feels like this may be worth you exploring. If the idea of asking for help causes fear, there may be a root issue. My T would ask me "What is the first time you remember feeling that way about a similar situation?" .... So maybe that is something you can try to find out for yourself and bring it with your T?
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Dec 22, 2011, 11:14 PM
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Lauru-------------That's me, Bipolar and Watching TV I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. ---Robert Frost |
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#20
Dec 23, 2011, 03:11 AM
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I had a rather unsatisfactory interchange with T on this subject:
Me: Help me!!! T: What is it? Tell me and I'll help you. Me: I don't know!!!
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Dec 23, 2011, 06:48 AM
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((((Laura)))) It is hard to dig deep enough to see those roots. Just go slowly and let yourself stay honest about what you need.
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#22
Dec 23, 2011, 07:17 AM
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You feel that if you ask for help you will be ignored--has this often happened with you or are you just hesitating to voice your troubles?Sometimes we presume something which is not really true.Even if you were neglected in past,it does not follow that everybody you come across will respond in a similar manner.Therefore don't fester inside.Ask for help.Even when the going is rough,a change in perspective helps to soothe the mind.
Check my blog post "Choose to be happy" http://jeeteraho.blogspot.com I do hope you come out of this mood fast.take care.
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Dec 25, 2011, 09:15 AM
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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#24
Dec 26, 2011, 07:28 AM
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It is very unfortunate that you cant ask for help from those around you-that"s decided-then what CAN you do ? Ts are fine to go to &vent your feelings,they give you support & advice...but ultimately my dear,YOU have to support yourself..build up your inner strength...grow a thick hide to ward off hurts..as Eienstein said we use only 20% of our potentials...you can do it..& focus on the brighter aspects of your life..there must be some,no ? Wishing you the very best..LOL.
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Dec 27, 2011, 01:20 AM
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. Are you laughing at me or with me? And by the way, I'm not laughing. All in all, I found your reply inappropriate, rude, and insulting. Please refrain from replying to this thread.
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Lauru-------------That's me, Bipolar and Watching TV I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. ---Robert Frost |
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