[granite1]

i am leaving for T soon and i'm scared.i made my T a card saying i was sorry forr getting her so angry last week.i hope it will help with her not being so angry with me this week.i dont know what i will do if she is.or if that stupid chair is in the darn corner

[pbutton]

That was very nice of you to make her a card. If you give it to her & she asks you why you thought she was angry, I hope you're able to mention the chair.

After you give T the card, ask if you can move that Fluckin Chair!

[granite1]

i would so love to move the bleeping chair but i do feel it is a boudary of hers for some reason and i dont want to be all kinds of intrusive and break her boundarys.she seems to have it there for a reason .well see.thanks for responding i need some suport in getting me to leave and go

Originally Posted by granite1

i would so love to move the bleeping chair but i do feel it is a boudary of hers for some reason and i dont want to be all kinds of intrusive and break her boundarys.she seems to have it there for a reason .well see.thanks for responding i need some suport in getting me to leave and go

do you want pocket riders? Maybe you should just mention the chair and how by having it so far away, in the corner it is just reinforcing your own thoughts about yourself?

Maybe I should not pocket ride. Your T might hear me cursing and mumbling, "Nobody puts Granite in a corner," in my best Swayze impression.

[granite1]

i would love pocket riders i'm getting more scared as the time comes.maybe it isnt a good idea to go i dont know last week really shook me up badly

[granite1]

lol thanks MKAC

[granite1]

i have youa tomorrow and believe me it has been a life saver for me last week.it isn't you regular kind of yoga .it is a lot of meditation and relaxation and stress relief.it doesnt have a lot of working poses just stress relief .i may need it again this week

[granite1]

i need to go now

[SpiritRunner]

with you, (((((granite)))))
you can ask if the bleeping chair IS a boundary then! you have the right to ask that, know that, and it seems like a boundary that should be open to change if it is some sort of boundary (but I think it would be an odd boundary...) anyway, it's your therapy and if something bugs you, you have the right to SAY so ..... if you don't say it, what changes? but if you do say it, good change may well happen!

Originally Posted by granite1

i would love pocket riders i'm getting more scared as the time comes.maybe it isnt a good idea to go i dont know last week really shook me up badly

I'll pocket ride, if I may.

[karebear1]

Good luck granite- I'm in your pocket as well. Please let us know how it goes..... and you go in there FEARLESS! (I know.... I should listen to my own self!)

Fearless as a RuPaul Drag race contestant..im with MKAC.....no one puts Granite in the corner!

[taylor43]

im in your pocket. Hope you are brave enough to mention the chair.

Sooooooooo.?.........

[FourRedheads]

Too late to pocket ride. How did it go?

Really hope it went well, granite. So great to hear that you've been finding yoga and meditation helpful!- would love to hear more about it

[pbutton]

I'd love to hear about your visit & also your yoga. I am new to yoga too. I have a hard time relaxing, but I manage to do it now and then. It feels amazing.

[granite1]

i just made things so much worse but i did tell her about the chair.

[pbutton]

You can tell us about it when you're ready. We're here. Nice work bringing up the chair!!!

[karebear1]

Good for you bringing up the chair granite. What was her response and why do you think you made things worse???

Did she like your card?

And if it helps any, I feel like I do something to drive my T whackadoodle almost every week. rEALLY........... I do!

[Nightlight]

Originally Posted by granite1

i just made things so much worse but i did tell her about the chair.

I'm sorry it hasn't made the situation feel any better...but you were really brave to tell her!

[unaluna]

we all just do therapy in our own repetition compulsion way. last night they showed the twilight zone episode where the earth fell out of its orbit and is falling into the sun and it keeps getting hotter and hotter. then all of a sudden the main character wakes up and it turns out the opposite is true, the earth is going away from the sun and it's really getting colder. granite, everything you do you think makes things worse, because with your the mother, they did, like getting closer to the sun. with me, if I don't watch out, I keep getting farther and farther away from T, cos that's how it was with my the mother. both our T's are just trying to get us into a more normal orbit, good luck to them.

[growlycat]

Good luck!! Really, ask about that chair!!!