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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:04 PM
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I imagine writing a performance evaluation is very hard work.
Thanks. It's really hard for him considering all the changes I've been through. He has to evaluate my performance as a QP and a Program Development Coordinator; as well as two months in this new position.

My position used to be 3 full-time positions.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:06 PM
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I apologize for being self-focused lately. That's one of the reasons I haven't posted much on here lately, but I realize when I do it's mostly about myself.

I prefer to be supportive and right now, I just don't have it in me to give.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:07 PM
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A sign that a deep productive session has been had... My chest breakouts in hives. Soooo annoying!!
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:14 PM
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Glad to see I am not the only one disturbed by the images feelings has posted today.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:17 PM
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Where did everybody go???
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:40 PM
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Kind of laughing to myself about the way my day has gone. The old couch had me laughing so hard my stomach hurt. My husband said something that brought to mind the truly horrible marriage counseling session this week, then I spend a long time writing what I really hoped would a helpful, thoughtful private message to someone who has seemed really stuck for a long time. Finally called my T and when he called back, I was at the grocery store but took the call and hid out in an unpopular aisle and we ended up talking about the marriage counseling thing for 20 minutes. Came home, cleaned a bunch, and made food for my kids, my son has a total attitude with me, and I had messages that made me really unhappy. It's just been a weird day.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:42 PM
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And I cannot decide if it's humorous or irritating that the people who get most irate about hijacking are totally hijacking other people's threads.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 03:46 PM
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Kind of laughing to myself about the way my day has gone. The old couch had me laughing so hard my stomach hurt. My husband said something that brought to mind the truly horrible marriage counseling session this week, then I spend a long time writing what I really hoped would a helpful, thoughtful private message to someone who has seemed really stuck for a long time. Finally called my T and when he called back, I was at the grocery store but took the call and hid out in an unpopular aisle and we ended up talking about the marriage counseling thing for 20 minutes. Came home, cleaned a bunch, and made food for my kids, my son has a total attitude with me, and I had messages that made me really unhappy. It's just been a weird day.

Weird is better then bad and it definitly sounds eventful.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:08 PM
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Count down to kids vs. chief weekend ... And 5 , 4
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:27 PM
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S**T!! F**K!! MOTHERF**K!!

I am really, really tired of being completely misunderstood on this forum; especially when I try to deal firmly, yet politely, with the issue at hand privately with the individual in question. Being a pushover is something three T's have tried to correct in me. My current T finally succeeded in making me realize that I am worth enough to defend myself, even to those in authority with me...even with her. It's too late; the beast has been released and she will not go back.

I can no longer deal with passive-aggressiveness here on PC. I was warned that once I started standing up for myself, it would cause issues with many people. I don't need more drama than my job and my past are providing me.

Hopefully, I'll see you all soon.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:43 PM
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good gravy, it's not always ABOUT YOU, Chopin. It WASN'T about you. NOW it's about you, because you MADE IT ABOUT YOU.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:43 PM
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My cat went to the vet this week & they had to shave part of both his front legs. He looks like he has little drumsticks. I really need to take a picture. Poor baby.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:45 PM
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My position used to be 3 full-time positions.
Eek indeed!
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:46 PM
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Aw, poor kitty. I hope he's okay, pbutton.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:46 PM
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Um, ok. So the little drumstick legs now seems a bit out of place. And he's now hiding because he doesn't WANT to have his picture posted on the internet.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 04:49 PM
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I can no longer deal with passive-aggressiveness here on PC. I was warned that once I started standing up for myself, it would cause issues with many people. I don't need more drama than my job and my past are providing me.
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I'm really sorry this is happening to you, Chopin.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:03 PM
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Ok let just all breathe and agree that we are all just trying ti help each other?
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:04 PM
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My cat went to the vet this week & they had to shave part of both his front legs. He looks like he has little drumsticks. I really need to take a picture. Poor baby.
OMG poor baby indeed. Definitely take a picture.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:06 PM
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Yeah good luck with the kitty picture. Not surprised he's hiding. cats are ever so dignified lol
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:09 PM
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Woah.. must of missed something somewhere.. Sorry to hear you feel that way Chopin.

I want to see a picture of a kitty looking like a drumstick..
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:10 PM
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Now I really can't find him. His little fluffy shaved legs were so soft. I'm pretty sure he got sick of me trying to pet his legs.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:10 PM
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He kind of looks like he's wearing Uggs.
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:11 PM
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LOL.. a kitty wearing uggs that would make me laugh!
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:17 PM
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He kind of looks like he's wearing Uggs.
It's funny but cats and dogs do not like being laughed at. They look at you like, don't think I'm too dumb to know you're laughing at me! I will never forgive you! Now feed me!
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Old Feb 22, 2013, 05:25 PM
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Fish fry time with my mom and her h.. Kids are excited, me on the other, not so much.
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