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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:43 AM
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That is just one of the many reasons I avoid churches. People think they can touch you there and there is nothing you can do because you are in church and supposed to act nice.
There are a lot of other reasons I avoid it too. But seriously, I have had personal space ignored at churches (weddings, funerals, etc) more than any other actual place.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:44 AM
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Or you could just say, stop that its irritating!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:45 AM
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Morning SD... Wanna hug about it?
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:47 AM
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No hugging. A small, inexcessive smile and nod will do.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:50 AM
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A girls gotta try, I need my hug fix.... Maybe ill go to the addiction area?
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:53 AM
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Are the small hug monkeys gone home?
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:59 AM
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They are getting ready and I love them all but the amount of garbage and laundry they can produce is staggering.... My house looks like a heard of Gazellez ran through it!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 09:59 AM
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Texting from church....freakng the hell out. Damn mother keeps putting her f'ing hand on my shoulder. I am going to kick her face in. I can't take it!!! Seriously!!

Serenity NOW!!! Serenity NOW!!!
breathe and move further away
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 10:03 AM
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You know, I was just thinking yesterday that Church people are huggers and I am so not a hugger. It doesn't matter what church I go to.. Everybody wants to hug!

Anyways- Kids/H just left for church and I am about to shampoo the living carpet..Trying not to feel too guilty this morning.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 10:17 AM
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Last time I went to church the bird flu or something was going around, so the priest said you don't have to shake hands. That was a huge relief for me!! Cooties!!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 10:53 AM
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Kid free! Woot woot!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 11:06 AM
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Moved. Most people in this church at respectful... She just thinks she owns me... Grrrr!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 11:09 AM
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Note - The Onion is quite irreverent and some may find it not their type of humor.

I love the Onion almost as much as Monty Python:
http://www.onion.demon.co.uk/theonio...upidbabies.htm

and this one
http://www.theonion.com/articles/god...ittle-boy,475/

are my two favorites
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 11:21 AM
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I like the Onion too! LOL
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 11:22 AM
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Carpets shampooed!! Now, I could take a quick nap before everybody gets home or start folding putting away clothes.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 11:24 AM
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Moved. Most people in this church at respectful... She just thinks she owns me... Grrrr!
My mother also thought this until she died. The more problematic thing was I also had a part of me that could not fully shake the belief either. To be honest, I haven't fully shaken it yet and she has been dead for a few years now.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:07 PM
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My mother also thought this until she died. The more problematic thing was I also had a part of me that could not fully shake the belief either. To be honest, I haven't fully shaken it yet and she has been dead for a few years now.
My parents both voiced that. Thing was, their parents died younger (3) or lived elsewhere (one only). So wtf. I finally (too late) had to say, I could not define my life by their chosen limitations.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:16 PM
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I don't think the belief kept me from acting. It was more I acted with the knowledge I was bad. I was willing to accept I am bad/wrong for being how I am along with the but it does not matter I will simply be bad and wrong without apology.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:16 PM
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I have a total physical reaction to her when she is possessive. Usually we take her to lunch after church, but today she just got dropped off coldly. That'll teach her.... Not!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:18 PM
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Wikid - when you coldly dropped her off -Did you tell to think about what she had done wrong?
(This is a joke)

Last edited by stopdog; Feb 24, 2013 at 02:49 PM. Reason: Because people kept taking it seriously
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:29 PM
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I don't think the belief kept me from acting. It was more I acted with the knowledge I was bad. I was willing to accept I am bad/wrong for being how I am along with the but it does not matter I will simply be bad and wrong without apology.
When do you get to "mistaken belief" instead of "knowledge"? Although I envy you for taking action, period. It's a little uncomfortable sIttIng on top of this fence here - oochie!!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:31 PM
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wiki it will probibly just go over her head.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:33 PM
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Wikid - when you coldly dropped her off -Did you tell to think about what she had done wrong?
I don't think it would make any difference. In her mind, wiki was wrong - but only to not let mother show off in church how close they are. The damage is already done. Wiki wouldn't lie or pretend. The mother never meant it as affection, only for show. It would only be met with a dodge. Imo.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:35 PM
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hey peeps .got the worse headache ever i feel like my eyes are going to pop out of my head
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 12:36 PM
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I don't think it would make any difference. In her mind, wiki was wrong - but only to not let mother show off in church how close they are. The damage is already done. Wiki wouldn't lie or pretend. The mother never meant it as affection, only for show. It would only be met with a dodge. Imo.
I was joking.

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