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I love the way people say now, oh I'm gonna make this a separate thread, or sorry, I guess I shoulda made this a thread. There is just something connecting and respectful about that. I guess that's important to me, a recognition of boundaries at a feeling, elemental level - not imposed from above.

I don't think I am ready for MC.

I can't imagine not having the couch now.

Good luck Healed

I went.. the session was ok, my feelings afterwards not so good.

These totally cracked me up (NOTE - WARNING - These are not all politically correct)

29 Church Signs That Make You Scratch Your Head | ViewMixed

Post against foreign aid and immigration. As if the recession were the fault of Africans and Hispanics. Grrr. "We don't care about our own people so we shouldn't care about others either."

I've felt like an outsider most of my life. I identify with outsiders.

Hey Jersey! What up?

Healed - do you think it was useful okay or just okay okay?

I am not sure it will be useful right now. I am not sure I am there yet. MC commented on how it seems as though there is a block in our relationship that keeps us from being vulnerable with eachother. To the point that we can't be open and hoenst. He asked to think about what those blocks maybe. I already know what it is.. I know that it has alot to do with my "trauma." It is not something I am ready to talk about with my h or MC. At the end, he gave us his card and said if there wasn't anything at all that we needed to call. It set me off. He was acting like a T. I already have a t, a t that it took awhile for me to open up to. I don't want to open up to another T.. I don't like this at all. I have shared way too much of myself already!

You made my evening with this link! Thanks.

Those were funny... Thanks for sharing!

Good evening.

Jersey...HEYYYYY!!!

SD, thanks for those. Good for a laugh.

MKAC, your drawing is amazing. It would make a lovely tattoo.

Fixated, I love playing with the label maker, tho not as much now since I am in charge of my own budget.

I'm out like a scout. I've got something I want to make for T's and my 2 year anniversary.

Have a great night!

Healed this is something I noticed when I read your post... maybe its nothing but it popped out... see the bolded words above. Since you already know what is going on in your head...its easy to think that its all your issues but.... there were a lot of we's and us and ours in those comments... so that involves your H too... so don't take all of the responsibility...

When do you see Individual T? Do you think it will be helpful to talk it over with him?

Hello everyone. Strange day. We won our lawsuit. Defendant did not show up. Before the judge would grant our judgment, he instructed the bailiff to step out on the court house steps and shout the defendant's name three times. The bailiff returned and said no one answered. Judge then granted our judgment.
Is this just some crazy SC thing?

Here the court has to call the defaulting party's name 3 times, but in the courtroom - they don't have to go outside.
What do you expect of a people who eat mustard based bbq sauce?

I don't know if I should take this as a sign or not. Today my sales were $666.00. The 666 is strange, the fact that it was on the dot without any cents is strange, and now the number is brought up on the couch.

Ike, glad you won your case even if it was by default....

I ended up having a better day today. My mind has been so stuck in the past this last week.... not a good place to be stuck!!!

RTS - I'm glad that you had a better day today.

Love the church signs....I laughed my *** off.

HI Wiki.... I usually miss being on the couch at the same time.

So, I'm slightly freaking out. Tomorrow is my first group meeting, and then I have my regular t session on Wednesday. The problem is that now on Wednesday they are calling for 8-12 inches of snow. I am sure that the offices will be closed even if doesn't snow that much. D.C. does not know how to deal with even a dusting. I will be able to reschedule, but one of the things that was helping me get though the group meeting tomorrow was the fact that the next morning I would be having t.

I see T tomorrow. We purposley planned it that way so I could really unpack my first MC session. I know that H has his issues and that we are going to work on some of those. I am just worried, that my issues will trump his and be the ones that ultimatley ends the marriage.

trdle, a lot of the US is getting hit with snow tomorrow and/or Wednesday. I'm not sure I can get to T tomorrow. What is this "snowstorms in March deal?" I'm sorry it's interfering with our schedules.

Trdleblue, can you ask for a phone session or just a check in if you have to reschedule due to weather?