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Old Oct 12, 2013, 11:01 AM
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((( MKAC )))

Ugh. That sounds like a really bad day. for you yesterday. It infuriates me when people don't follow through on their commitments and then act like the helpless victim when someone is disappointed in them. AARGH.

And about that T..........Did you address her about her lack of follow-through? It might be helpful to address it head-on and see how she responds. Perhaps she'll get her head out of her arse and do what she committed to.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 11:49 AM
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It is better to write and delete than not to write at all.
Hey isnt that what Shakespeare said??
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 11:52 AM
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Thanks for that Wiki....its a sad time, it was my cousin. We have buried his Mum & Dad in the last 2 years, now it is his turn.
Oh no, that is probably what did them in, not knowing. That is terrible.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 11:57 AM
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Everyone it the US- Don't forget free Satisfries (which are very good) at Burger King today and tomorrow (going over now to get mine now).
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 12:16 PM
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Let us know how they taste RT
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 01:22 PM
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Lola....
Have you watched Fat Sick and Nearly Dead? Serious...watch it. Tell me what you think. I am starting a short Fast from the 21-30 of this month. If you want to do it with me, we can support each other. Think about it. Look at the website and the reboot site as well.

We can REBOOT our bodies. Stop the sickness. Drop some weight. Feel better.

Anyone else want to try? No, I'm not crazy...this is doable. PM me.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 01:29 PM
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I have seen it and it is a great idea. I couldn't start til November 1st, but I would do it with you.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 02:08 PM
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Thanks for the support, Couchsters. Ready, H was not all that busy (he's been playing computer games at work again), and there was no conflict involved. He was too busy playing on his computer to stop and do what needed to be done. However, he has been helping me this morning a bunch, getting ready for camping, and he went to our local Ren Fest with me and we had a great time.

Now it's time to finish packing up for camping. D is feeling better and is going to go!! The three of us will be in a tent tonight, roughing it. With electricity and phones. LOL D is planning to bring a power strip to have in the tent with an extension cord running to the electrical hookup for the campsite. In order to get a corral for the horses, we have to have an electrical site, even though we won't have the trailer with the living quarters. The friend I share it with is competing in another State this weekend.

Lola, hope you feel better! Wikid, I'm sure you will be careful with the cleanse, and I hope it goes well.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 03:26 PM
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Well that is frustrating but I'm so glad you are not letting it impact your weekend fun plans.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 03:50 PM
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It is so windy....i love the wind!!! Have i mentioned that fall is my favorite time of the year?
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 04:43 PM
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MKAC, so glad to hear today has been better. Have fun camping!
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 04:43 PM
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My movie, "Good ol' Freda" was fantastic! It was about the beginning of the Beatles and the 17 year old girl who was their secretary and the president of their fan club. It showed all the Beatles' parents and played many of their early songs and explained the breakup. A lot of clips from the past. Just really great.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 04:46 PM
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I am dragging right now. I ended up not getting to the store.....so I made spinach dip that will be served with pretzel crisps....ranch dip with baby carrots....cheese and crackers....a key lime cheeseball with graham crackers...and a berry cake. That should be plenty.

I should have been out the door already and at my friend's house, but I haven't even showered yet. *sigh*

My niece never showed up today to help me bathe the kittens. No surprise there. She knew I was planning to go out around 5 PM - so what does she do? She texts me at 5:20 PM saying she knows I'm busy but can I text for a bit....and goes on to ask me what she should do about her life.....*sigh*

I told her that's a loaded question and asked her if she could narrow it down. She said she needed a loaded answer. I told her that she is the only one who can decide what she wants to do with her life. Figure out where you want to be and put together some concrete plans with measurable steps to get there - with a creator mindset. I need to take my own advice. LOL.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 04:55 PM
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MUE...

you do so much for other people... I wish you would put yourself first...

did your friend really need you to bring so much?
could you have told your niece no you didn't have time to text?
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 05:12 PM
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Thanks, RTS.

I do need to get back on track with setting boundaries and respecting my own limits. I have always struggled with taking on more than I can handle. I'm not sure why it's so hard lately. I was doing so well with it.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 05:37 PM
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Perhaps its easier to be busy than to be present...
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 05:45 PM
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Ah yes.....so true. I know this pattern - the running away - and just keeping busy and taking on so much until I end up overwhelmed - and then crash.....Even though I've been busy with work, the kittens, migraines and pain, I feel that dark cloud so close by. and am fearful of sinking into that dark hole of depression. Blech.

I am getting out tonight, though, which is good.....problem is, my role in this particular crowd is one of providing support and guidance to others. My friend's unemployment ran out, so she has been struggling - big time. And her other friend that will be there is quite self-consumed with turmoil about her married boyfriend not leaving his wife for her. This was supposed to be a night where more people were going to hang out by a campfire. Looks like that didn't pan out, so it ends up being a crowd of people who I can either work to help bring up - or drag myself down with them....better than stay staying home.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 07:05 PM
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Okay, after several rain delays, prelims have finally finished. My son's band came in 1st. Finals will start at 8:15.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 07:14 PM
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Okay, after several rain delays, prelims have finally finished. My son's band came in 1st. Finals will start at 8:15.
I love drum & bugle corps. Next summer im definitely gonna catch a show. Good luck to your son!
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 07:16 PM
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I'm worried about work and worried that worry is destroying my life and worried that only my boss can reduce the worry and worried that he won't.

Otherwise fine.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 07:53 PM
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Okay, after several rain delays, prelims have finally finished. My son's band came in 1st. Finals will start at 8:15.
Band marches finals at 10:15 tonight. It's going to be a late night tonight. I expect they won't get back until close to 1AM.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 09:22 PM
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Hi Couchers. Anybody up?
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 09:24 PM
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They're great, I think they are even better than the regular fries.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 09:29 PM
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I got a Triple D cookbook for my yadhtrib. And a Lucinda Williams CD. Watch out for the cholesterol police.
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 10:30 PM
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Ok- this is not me being whiney.. or look here notice me. I am truly curious..

Did I do something to offend the couch, am I annoying you all? I feel so invisible, a lot of my post go unnoticed. I don't know.. maybe people have me on the ignore list? It just seems different the last couple of days.
Hi Healed. Just wanted to say I have also felt this way at times. Sometimes I feel no one really wants to hear what I have to say, so I remain silent. And I don't think you were being whiney.
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