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same here I guess I just wish you could stand up for yourself but in time .im sorry this happened

i hadnt read it mkac...so no apologies needed.

I'm so, so sorry that happened to you, ready.

Hey Granite, I know this really great story about this pot and this kettle ...

I have no idea what you might be talking about my friend lol

I'm okay...got myself back together...makeup fixed and back to work mode.

Thanks for listening sorry about complaining about H again...said I wouldnt do that on PC..

SD..i see new T tonight... Dont have much feeling ...good or bad...about it at all.

is this the woman ?

there really isnt anything to tell H off about. Its all very true... Truth can be hard to hear.

Yes...it is a new woman T...not sure how it will go... I feel very SD about women Ts...as long as she stays back (physically and emotionally) it should work out

uuuuggggghhhhhhh! THIS is the kind of thing that makes me erupt the way I did earlier. THIS is NOT TRUE, Ready. I am sorry, I am going to repost my previous thing -- YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THIS. Your husband is a total A S S. I truly worry about the example that is being set for your sons through all this about the way women should be treated. Your husband set a horrible example. By tolerating this stuff you are sending a message to your sons that women in general do not deserve better. You AND your sons deserve better.

I love that you have my back MKAC..

I am far from perfect...

ETA.... My kids didnt hear him he was in the car alone...

RTS - I am so sorry.... i dont know what to say to to that
I hope the new T goes well.

nothing to see here .....move along

I was shouted at in front of teenage boys earlier by H. It makes me feel so stupid and pathetic. And I don't want my boys to think this is acceptable. I don't think they do or will ever. But it breaks me. Plus my friends treat me like this and speak harshly about me which they wouldn't do to anyone else. I am too weak and quiet. I hate myself. I wish I didn't care so much.

Hello yous guys.

Ready good luck with the new T.

Hello Granite, Lola, MKAC, RTS, Mast, Wiki, RTerroni, CE, Ike, Aloneandafraid, Healed, SD, MelissaD, and everyone else (sorry if I didn't list you individually. I promise I like you the same-Its just that I took a Klonopin a 1/2 hour ago totally forgetting I have an appt for a haircut at 7:30 so I'm slightly out of it. But hi! I miss you all.

Hi guys!

I've printed this out and stapled it to the wall as a reminder to look after myself.

alone I so get it . someday if you keep working towards health maybe it wont be so hard to stand up to these people in your life . my T got a bit uppity about allowing my farther to treat me in such a way in front of my son. it is hard I hope someday ill also learn to stand up to these people also and feel I am worth it . oh and you definitely are worth it. one thing I am doing these days is to try and surround myself with positive people if I need to be around any . like when I go crafting. not always easy but I try

HEY jersey hows things going . I know you are a bit worried about the new baby .I know you will do just fine caring for it

sorry I deleated my message was just trying to be supportive .not always good at it .will try to keep thoughts regarding this to myself in future ok .I hope all will be well

Granite... you were being supportive... I don't want you to keep thoughts to yourself..

It felt great that everyone had my back... just amusing that everyone assumed H was wrong without hearing what he said... and you don't know me like he does (ie forced to live with me)...

I'm sorry I didn't sound appreciative because I am.

No one is perfect, Ready, but you ARE awesome and amazing. I understand your kids did not hear this particular thing, but they DO see things like him fixing food for everyone except you. They see the silent treatment he subjects you to in order to get his way. They see and absorb this kind of thing. I wish you could give them a clear and unambiguous message that behavior like your H's is reprehensible and will not lead them to happy relationships in life. EVERYONE deserves respect, even when the person is not perfect and/or makes mistakes.

SHOEHORN. I propose this as a substitute for Cool Whip. And major Wiki(if I may) points to anyone that remembers the TV show it's from.

Hi couch people,
How is everyone? I am doing pretty good. However, since I started working out I have this pain in my foot that won't go away. It is getting very frustrating but I refuse to let it keep me down. I'll see my PCP in a week and I will talk to him about it.

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Make sure you have REALLY good shoes, Melissa, and maybe see a chiropractor. When I ignored my foot and knee pain, it ended up a lot worse than if I had addressed it right away. AND it was caused by worn out shoes.

Thanks MKAC. I will talk to PCP about your ideas and see what he says. I just bought new running shoes but maybe I need something different and I'm up for that if it alleviates the pain and prevents further complications. Amazingly it hurts LESS when I work out. It hurts more getting out of bed in the morning or after sitting for a while.

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Having a good night but I have to get up very early tomorrow, at least very early for me.