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Old Feb 15, 2015, 12:18 PM
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Well, instead of going to church I stayed home and slept. It felt good, as my sleep hasn't been so great lately.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 12:22 PM
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enjoying another snow day. I have not even got out of my pj's
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 12:23 PM
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Well, instead of going to church I stayed home and slept. It felt good, as my sleep hasn't been so great lately.

Good job.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 12:24 PM
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enjoying another snow day. I have not even got out of my pj's

I got out of my Jammies to shower and then promptly put them back on. I only get dressed if I'm leaving the house and planning to get out of the car. If I leave to go to timmies drive thru I won't get dressed
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 12:46 PM
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I saw Breakfast Club sometime in the early 90s, I think. I remember liking it. I tried rewatching it about a year ago but didn't like it so much this time - in fact I gave up after half an hour or so.

I was actually reminded of Dead Poets' Society a day or two ago. I was 16 when it was released. I think most people loved the film and thought that the teacher portrayed by Robin Williams was a bit of a hero, but to me it was pretty much a horror movie. I can't actually remember anything of the plot, other than the teacher bullying the quiet kid.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 12:56 PM
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I was actually reminded of Dead Poets' Society a day or two ago. I was 16 when it was released. I think most people loved the film and thought that the teacher portrayed by Robin Williams was a bit of a hero, but to me it was pretty much a horror movie. I can't actually remember anything of the plot, other than the teacher bullying the quiet kid.

I was 4 when it came out. Had to look up he date. I remember seeing it in high school. I forget what class showed it. I actually have the DVD, but I haven't watched it in probably 7 years. I should watch it again and see what I think now.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 01:00 PM
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I thought DPS was just plain silly. I remember laughing aloud in the theater and then realizing others were not.
I have found it not unoften to occur with me and groups and films. I don't see many new ones these days - I don't really like movies that much.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 01:01 PM
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The Village & Van Helsing both made me laugh in the theatre.

I haven't watched DPS in a long time, hopefully I have matured some since then. I should watch it again as well and see what I think of it now.

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Old Feb 15, 2015, 01:07 PM
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My brother and I saw Halloween (rob zombie version) in theatre... And we were laughing so hard. I think people got offended.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 01:43 PM
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Yes, I always think it's interesting to re-watch films (and re-read books) that I had a strong reaction to when I was younger, to see what has changed. Just because I don't like a film (or a book) doesn't mean it's bad, of course. There are many films I've seen where I've recognised that it is actually a very good film, I just didn't like it. Conversely, I enjoy things that I realise aren't actually very good.

I have a friend who is a vet, and he watched some horror slasher movie where somebody pulled a kidney out of a person... my friend recognised it as a calf kidney (I think he said it was a calf) and he started laughing really hard. Other people sidled away from him after that.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 02:07 PM
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Me too Mast. I find I understand things better now than I used to. I want to watch Forrest Gump again.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 03:22 PM
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Depression sucks.

I got up to potty today. Once. It's now 3:15-ish in the afternoon. Somehow I can't call this "catching up on missed sleep."

The fact that I'm not missing work or school-work makes it 75% better. And the 6 year old climbed in for a nap, bonus!

Must shower and dress and spend a few productive hours today.

Stay warm couchies who are snowed in, and stay cool couchies in TX!

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Old Feb 15, 2015, 03:35 PM
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Is it weird that I can't think of a thing I wouldn't tell my T? I've read the "dear T" thread a few times and I have never thought of a thing I wouldn't say. I just assume that she would not be surprised at anything I said, afterall I am in therapy for a reason. lol

Eta: I guess there are things that are more difficult and take me longer to say, but I always say them anyways.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 03:38 PM
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Is it weird that I can't think of a thing I wouldn't tell my T? I've read the "dear T" thread a few times and I have never thought of a thing I wouldn't say. I just assume that she would not be surprised at anything I said, afterall I am in therapy for a reason. lol

Eta: I guess there are things that are more difficult and take me longer to say, but I always say them anyways.
No, it isn't weird. I'm the same way. Sometimes I post things there that I want to say at the moment but I'm not going to call him to say it (not that important), but they aren't things I wouldn't say to him if he was in front of me.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 03:43 PM
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Is it weird that I can't think of a thing I wouldn't tell my T? I've read the "dear T" thread a few times and I have never thought of a thing I wouldn't say. I just assume that she would not be surprised at anything I said, afterall I am in therapy for a reason. lol

Eta: I guess there are things that are more difficult and take me longer to say, but I always say them anyways.
I write in there but it's more of an "if I could tell you now I would but I can't but will at our next session" type of thing and less of an "I won't ever tell you/don't know how" because let's be honest I tell her pretty much everything present I think/have thought/want to discuss more. Now the stuff in my past? I haven't talked to her about that yet and I'm not going to post it on a board if I haven't...

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Old Feb 15, 2015, 03:45 PM
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Ah makes sense. I always just took the thread title literally. lol "Don't know how"
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 03:51 PM
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I think the title is misleading. Because if I have something to say but don't know how, yet I can write it out in a forum then I obviously know how to say it I just can't or don't want to. IMHO anyway...

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Old Feb 15, 2015, 03:56 PM
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lol Yeah... I guess that makes sense!
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 04:35 PM
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But if I mention, for instance, some work situation where I feel badly treated to H, he'll immediately and automatically defend the other person's position. It's just his way, and when I am idiotic enough to ask him not to do it, that's what he'll say: "You know that's just my way, it's what I am like." So there is no malice there - I simply have to think about what I tell him so I don't put myself in that situation.
Hmmm. Ways can be changed. I know, because I've changed mine.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 04:36 PM
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Blahh!!!! Trying to distract myself... I hate it when this happens. The feels are getting to me.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 04:36 PM
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Hmmm. Ways can be changed. I know, because I've changed mine.
Exactly, so I am working on changing mine. (It's why I'm in therapy, right?)
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 05:01 PM
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I can usually tell the therapist anything I choose to. There is not much I post about that the woman has not been told.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 05:07 PM
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So SD... When you say "the woman"... is that one or both collectively? I've often wondered.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 05:14 PM
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The woman generally refers to the first one. I rarely refer to the second one on here.
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Old Feb 15, 2015, 05:15 PM
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Fair enough. I was curious.
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