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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:26 PM
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Healed - you don't have to go to bars if you become single - you can join a softball team instead.

Or join reading groups that meet at book stores with names like A Room of One's Own, Gertrude and Alice Live Here, Lambda Rising or Rainbow Room etc.

There's always the frozen entree section of food aisle.
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:28 PM
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Healed - you don't have to go to bars if you become single - you can join a softball team instead.
Or join reading groups that meet at book stores with names like A Room of One's Own, Gertrude and Alice Live Here, Lambda Rising or Rainbow Room etc.
Ohhh... SD divulges her secrets on how to pick up women. LOL..
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:29 PM
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It depends on the bar. I prefer the ones that don't smell like stale beer and sweat personally. Though if you're looking for someone to hang out in bars with, I'm also newly single and out of practice

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But you live FARRRRR away.... Maybe we will meet somewhere half way!
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:31 PM
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Around here it is not hard to find teams of all sorts.

Seriously though, I'd love to play any team sport - never really have... It's kinda nice to be a single girl who plays tennis though, there are not too many of us.

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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:38 PM
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Healed - you don't have to go to bars if you become single - you can join a softball team instead.
She is looking for a man , so you better make it CO-ED softball .
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:42 PM
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But you live FARRRRR away.... Maybe we will meet somewhere half way!

Let's do Vegas!

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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:42 PM
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She is looking for a man , so you better make it CO-ED softball .
I am not so sure about that. Check with healed and see.
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:47 PM
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Perhaps the cat food aisle then.
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:48 PM
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Or near the herbal teas.
(see the movie Go Fish)
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:51 PM
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I would indeed be looking for a woman... I suppose I should come out to somebody.
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:51 PM
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The cooperative grocery store or the farmers' market in my hood.
eta: especially if you join the inclusiveness committee at the co-op...so I've heard...
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:51 PM
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Let's do Vegas!

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Awesome idea!!
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:53 PM
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Apparently I'm in agreement with everyone on the couch right now...
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:56 PM
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I would indeed be looking for a woman... I suppose I should come out to somebody.
Then yes join a womens softball team!
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:58 PM
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Then yes join a womens softball team!
You play softball don't ya?
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:58 PM
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Looks like I have a move-in date of next Tuesday. Thanks to the couch I'm now inspired to go grocery shopping in heels and makeup

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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:59 PM
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There's always the frozen entree section of food aisle.
Oh god, no, ha...I was asked out in the frozen food section of the grocery store last year by some random guy (totally true, and totally ridiculous)...one of my most creepy experiences ever!!
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 06:59 PM
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Awesome, JS!
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 07:07 PM
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This is one of my favorite lesbian love story girl gets girl movie - for free on Hulu (I just tried and you don't have to sign in or anything - there is a bit of an ad at the beginning though)

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Old Feb 26, 2015, 07:09 PM
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JS - that is good news.
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 07:22 PM
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Gah. I still feel ill.
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 07:32 PM
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JustShakey that's good news!! Congrats!!
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 07:37 PM
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I hope it actually comes off now. This is my third move-in date... I think it's for real this time though. Three times is the charm, right?

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The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 07:38 PM
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JS... Congrats...
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Old Feb 26, 2015, 07:39 PM
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I'll have to watch Stopdog's chick flick as soon as I get my internet fired up

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The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
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