DRUNK WIHT PAINN

HELP, DROWNING IN SORROW AND PAIN - I WNAT TO DIE

safe kind gentle hugs to you.....please know we are here for you sleepingsacredrose!



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hoe kind you bee - but for me too latew, i want to runf andl hide and fjus die- I hatye alchol, but now no more aapain

I know...we drink to feel better and end up feeling worse...maybe you can just lay your head down now and rest ok?

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heelpeme

Hello.
I'm sorry you're dealing with a lot of pain and guilt. Drinking intensifies those feelings. Perhaps lying down and sleeping off some of the alcohol will help. Allow yourself to put aside the pain and guilt and pick it up only when you are sober and able to cope. What happened has happened - please find a new psychologist because continuing a dual relationship with the current one will only complicate things and harm you.
Please get some rest. Take care of you right now.

t hnkes, i will slep now

Hi Rose,
Like the others have said, drinking is only going to make things worse.

Why don't you tell us a little about your pain, your struggles? I bet you will find that a lot of people here have, or are having the same pain.

You are not alone. Share your story with us. If you need help getting off the alcohol, let us know that too.

Take good care (((((Rose))))),
Okie

Am trying to deal with an issue with my T - sleeping with me! Thought I was coping well, then, I hit a wall!

I won't drink again - could not cope last night!

thanks for listening to me!

Hi SSR,
I had a pdoc rape me so I know a little of your pain. There is an inequality of power inherent in the therapeutic or physician/patient relationship that makes it flat wrong for our kind of abuse to occur. It just pisses me off!

I'm sorry you are suffering. After my experience I decided that I would never again seek help from a male professional. (I'm bound to take some hits on this one. ) I'm not saying that ALL males would act like this either for those of you who are ready to pounce!

I read in another thread that you are considering seeking help from a female T. I think that is a great idea!

If you read the psychotherapy forum you will see how much love and admiration there is for T's and pdocs. I guess that is partly evidence that some people may find our experiences so hard to believe. They could instead think, "There but for the Grace of God, go I."

You take good care. Good idea to stay away from the booze. Never did anybody much good that I could see.
Okie

Okie,

Your words are kindness to my soul, wisdom and hope that uplift me!

I feel so horrible about your rape - my heart and my prayers to you !

I guess one thing that is coming from my pain is that my Doctorate is in power/knowledge nexus - Foucault. Fast am I learning he has the power, skills and all the knowledge that I do not have.

I know this sounds funny, but I wish this did not happen, that I could just erase everything and live so care free.

I agree with all you have said, and yes, I WILL STAY AWAY FROM THE ALCOHOL TOO!

My two other friends sleep with their T too, it does not bother them - they have moved in together - they both find it hard to understand me (why I don't cope with my situation - weird!). It's like it is normal. I did try and seek help from another male (only 1 session), he said there was nothing wrong with my T sleeping with me - so, I 'm a bit lost in it all.

Appreciate your kindness and words of hope.

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