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Old Mar 27, 2017, 12:16 PM
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Yes, he said I could. We've done it before, he is also a tai chi teacher and does aikido so sometimes when I'm really mad he lets me spar with him. It helps a lot. I'm very passive and shy in real life.
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Old Mar 27, 2017, 12:17 PM
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Yes, he said I could. We've done it before, he is also a tai chi teacher and does aikido so sometimes when I'm really mad he lets me spar with him. It helps a lot. I'm very passive and shy in real life.
that's interesting

my T taught me tai chi.

whatever works
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Old Mar 27, 2017, 12:36 PM
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that's interesting

my T taught me tai chi.

whatever works

I often think I'd like to study tai chi with my T. He gives workshops for it all over the place. But I also really like him just as my T.
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Old Mar 27, 2017, 01:06 PM
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Hey couch. I'm still feeling so confused about t. I don't know what i want from her anymore. I'm playing a stupid game right now telling myself if she responds to the poem i sent over the weekend, then i will ask to come this week like she tried to get me to do. Just to be clear: I'm not playing games w her. This just started inside my own head today. I don't do intense feelings very well and I'm dealing with some that's for sure. I feel like it will be a miracle if she and i don't hate each other after my next session. I know i know melodramatic enough, art?
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Old Mar 27, 2017, 01:26 PM
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Can somebody start a new couch? I don't know how on my phone....
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Old Mar 27, 2017, 01:37 PM
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Can somebody start a new couch? I don't know how on my phone....
Are you using Tapatalk? My version of the app has a "New Topic" button at the bottom of the screen. You could just start it and paste in the intro later.
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Old Mar 27, 2017, 01:58 PM
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Hah...I was hardly upfront, trust me. It was something that's bothered me pretty much from the beginning (7 months) and I didn't say anything -- she was astonished that it's bothered me so much but I hadn't let out a peep all this while (told me that she couldn't imagine holding in something that intense for that long).

I totally agree on the usefulness of email -- I fear that I'll just explode if I try to convey some stuff in person. And, I get that feeling of hoping that she'll understand how crucial it is for you to keep talking until it's resolved -- in my email, I'd started by saying that I'd experienced a profound loss of trust in her and then ended by saying that I'd like to hope that it can be worked out. But it was just that -- hope and nothing else.

I know how the whole situation can feel all-consumingly hellish....take care of yourself
It is all-consuming and hellish. I think I took heart from your post from the other week and stewed on this for a long time before sending that email.

She just replied to me. She's out of town and on the road, and said she probably won't be able to get back to me before I see her tomorrow, but that basically she said it's important to get to a point that I feel comfortable/heard and that "we'll work it out." That's really all I needed to hear.
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Old Mar 27, 2017, 02:14 PM
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New thread is here https://forums.psychcentral.com/psyc...ml#post5551199
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