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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:06 PM
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I don't know how to leave. Not practically, not emotionally. I don't know how. I don't know how.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:13 PM
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Rough day overall. Don't see the point of pretty much anything. Out to dinner and later b-day of friend of a friend thing.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:31 PM
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:39 PM
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Sorry. I'm somewhat inebriated. I don't drink very often.

It occurs to me that it was after I told my T that I didn't want to be with my partner, after I said it out loud for the first time having known it to be true for so long, that the erotic transference came about. I don't know why I've only just noticed that.

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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:40 PM
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My cat is on the end of my bed snoring. I love her.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:50 PM
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I got this magic stuff called unisolve to remove the tape on my puppy's ears. It is used to remove surgical/medical tape. I had tried all sorts of things to get this tape off and nothing was working and some of it was annoying to the pup. This stuff just took one swipe and poof the adhesive dissolved and pup did not even notice - it did not sting or hurt him at all. Then I took a baby wipe and cleaned it up.
If you ever need to remove sticky stuff from a pet or child - I give this stuff 2 thumbs up
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:51 PM
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My cat is on the end of my bed snoring. I love her.
omg, i love when my cat snores! its so cute. my kitten is currently lying across my lap <3
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:56 PM
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I got this magic stuff called unisolve to remove the tape on my puppy's ears. It is used to remove surgical/medical tape. I had tried all sorts of things to get this tape off and nothing was working and some of it was annoying to the pup. This stuff just took one swipe and poof the adhesive dissolved and pup did not even notice - it did not sting or hurt him at all. Then I took a baby wipe and cleaned it up.
If you ever need to remove sticky stuff from a pet or child - I give this stuff 2 thumbs up
You need to get your own YouTube channel and do product reviews.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:58 PM
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One of my favorite things on youtube are unboxing videos - it completely cracks me up that people tape themselves unboxing stuff and explain the packaging. How did that ever start? And they are always really terrible - like they drop the camera or tape the floor because they are using one hand to take some product out of a box.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 09:07 PM
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I don't know how to leave. Not practically, not emotionally. I don't know how. I don't know how.


I can relate to this, because I'm in a similar relationship dynamic. I have moments where want to leave, but I can't see it happening logistically, emotionally, etc. Not saying this is true for you, obv, but these moments are outweighed for me with how much I love him, how much I know he loves me, and that we do have good moments together.

Drink lots of water and make sure you take care of yourself.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 10:47 PM
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I am so not motivated to pack up the rest of my house even though I just have to throw my clothes in a suitcase and unplug the tv and shove papers in my desk drawer and tape it shut. I am also not looking forward to cleaning. I have bought all the cleaning supplies but only managed to clean the Windows on one side of the house. When we moved my ex used to organise me. The removalists come on Tuesday morning
I think it is amazing that you have that much done!
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 10:58 PM
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BCM - moving is very stressful
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 11:19 PM
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H's dog is lying in the middle of the bed on all of the covers. She doesn't think I need any.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 11:26 PM
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BCM - moving is very stressful
Ugh, yes it is. To avoid moving, I signed another year lease on my apartment in which I can't afford. That is how much I hate moving. Check in with me in a few months as I might be homeless.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 11:28 PM
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A conflict at work and I'm right in the middle of it. It has me so upset I left at lunch yesterday, in tears. I cried all afternoon and into the evening. Finally had to take a Klonopin to calm down. I'm okay now but I don't know how to resolve this situation. Both sides are pissed at each other and I'm in the middle.
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 11:33 PM
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Old Apr 08, 2017, 11:34 PM
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 01:10 AM
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Sorry. I'm somewhat inebriated. I don't drink very often.
That is how I dealt with the night too... finally home, I'm not so inebriated as I was earlier. Things are not as funny. I am such a lightweight, it doesn't take much. I should sleep well tonight once I finally get there.

Luco - I hope your day is better tomorrow.... I hope my day is better too.
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 01:11 AM
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I got this magic stuff called unisolve to remove the tape on my puppy's ears.
Could have used this knowledge 2 wks ago. Will try to file it away for next surgery in Oct.
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 01:35 AM
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 02:20 AM
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A conflict at work and I'm right in the middle of it. It has me so upset I left at lunch yesterday, in tears. I cried all afternoon and into the evening. Finally had to take a Klonopin to calm down. I'm okay now but I don't know how to resolve this situation. Both sides are pissed at each other and I'm in the middle.
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 04:53 AM
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@daisy; Are you ok? We're here if you want to talk...

I pissed BF off. I don't know, I was just joking around while he was doing some stuff in the kitchen, it was more like a game for me. He ended up wrapping a towel (don't know the name, the small ones you have in the kitchen) around my eyes so that I couldn't see and pushing me out of the kitchen/living room to the stairs. He didn't hurt me or anything, just scared me to death... Can't calm myself down now. I don't even know why >.< Sorry, just needed to vent...
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 05:00 AM
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@daisy; Are you ok? We're here if you want to talk...

I pissed BF off. I don't know, I was just joking around while he was doing some stuff in the kitchen, it was more like a game for me. He ended up wrapping a towel (don't know the name, the small ones you have in the kitchen) around my eyes so that I couldn't see and pushing me out of the kitchen/living room to the stairs. He didn't hurt me or anything, just scared me to death... Can't calm myself down now. I don't even know why >.< Sorry, just needed to vent...
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 06:24 AM
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@daisy; Are you ok? We're here if you want to talk...

I pissed BF off. I don't know, I was just joking around while he was doing some stuff in the kitchen, it was more like a game for me. He ended up wrapping a towel (don't know the name, the small ones you have in the kitchen) around my eyes so that I couldn't see and pushing me out of the kitchen/living room to the stairs. He didn't hurt me or anything, just scared me to death... Can't calm myself down now. I don't even know why >.< Sorry, just needed to vent...


Meh. I'll be OK. Last night was rough, and then I woke up from a really upsetting dream when I had posted in Dear T. Like, I'm frustrated with the process at the moment, but I know that it's because for once I'm making actual progress.

Thank you for asking
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 06:44 AM
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@daisy; Are you ok? We're here if you want to talk...

I pissed BF off. I don't know, I was just joking around while he was doing some stuff in the kitchen, it was more like a game for me. He ended up wrapping a towel (don't know the name, the small ones you have in the kitchen) around my eyes so that I couldn't see and pushing me out of the kitchen/living room to the stairs. He didn't hurt me or anything, just scared me to death... Can't calm myself down now. I don't even know why >.< Sorry, just needed to vent...
That was really wrong of him to do. Even if he didn't hurt you, he scared and intimidated you. I'd be scared by that too.
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