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Old Oct 27, 2017, 12:31 AM
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Hugs... I don't understand your T...
I'm sorry Cathy is (probably) making your communication with your T more complicated. Can you ask her if she's the one who talked with T?
He believes that everything happens in its own time. i try not to talk to her she is antagonistic, i will ask the small boy who sems to liike her.

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Old Oct 27, 2017, 03:52 AM
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I didn't work today and I feel awful.
T in an hour, may I request pocket riders please?
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 03:53 AM
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I'm in, capt. Hope you have a wonderful session.
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 03:56 AM
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I am in Capt I will bring the Aussie wonder that is lamingtons, little cubes of cake covered in chocolate icing and coconut
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 03:58 AM
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I didn't work today and I feel awful.
T in an hour, may I request pocket riders please?


I'm in. I'll bring chocolate
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 04:06 AM
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I'm in. I'll bring chocolate
Oooo! What sort of chocolate? A variety?
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 04:18 AM
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Oooo! What sort of chocolate? A variety?


Sure... white/black/milk... some with and some without nuts
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 04:53 AM
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I'm tired of feeling so numb
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 06:27 AM
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I'm back... Hope chocolate was tasty.
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 06:29 AM
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I hope your session went okay capt.

((((Demunie))))
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 06:30 AM
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I hope your session went okay capt.

((((Demunie))))
Not really...
He still wants to talk with my family
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 06:57 AM
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Not really...
He still wants to talk with my family
I find that weird...
When will you see him next?
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:01 AM
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I find that weird...
When will you see him next?
After two weeks, as usual
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:08 AM
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Hi everyone, sorry I've been silent for the past week or so... I've been really focused on work and getting projects done! Luckily my T is keeping me accountable and that is helping me immensely! That is the reason that I haven't been around so I had so much to catch up on I gave up on the old couch and now I'm completely caught up on this new couch! Just wanted to give hugs to anyone that needs them I feel so bad for all the couchies that are hurting!

For for those that like seeing pics of snow, Boston had one of our worst Winters ever two years ago! I have some pictures of snow that would amaze those that have very limited snow experience... I will have to post some for my computer later on.

Anais, sorry to hear that you had dinner in a bed bug apartment! You may want to wash all of your clothes and your Linens in hot water. Good luck!
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:22 AM
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Hugs Demunie and Capt.

Capt, can you write in English (if it's less triggering that way than using your native tongue) that your parents blamed you for abuse which is why you don't want them to see T, and then ask T to google translate it or something?
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:24 AM
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I've been quiet all day because I'm upset.

Friend disclosed some trauma details because a stupid, judgmental clergy person made a bunch of assumptions and friend had to tell them why the public hospital psych wards would be traumatizing. She didn't describe stuff but some stuff is just evil.

I cried at work because I felt for her. I've been crying on other days due to personal issues and a colleague (same one) has caught me twice but fortunately seems really "selectively visually impaired".
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:27 AM
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I've been quiet all day because I'm upset. Friend disclosed some trauma details because a stupid, judgmental clergy person made a bunch of assumptions and friend had to tell them why the public hospital psych wards would be traumatizing. She didn't describe stuff but some stuff is just evil.
Sorry about your friend Judgemental people can be awful.
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:30 AM
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Hugs Demunie and Capt.

Capt, can you write in English (if it's less triggering that way than using your native tongue) that your parents blamed you for abuse which is why you don't want them to see T, and then ask T to google translate it or something?
Haha, interesting, thank you
He says there is a chance that my parents are better than I think. That they can support and help me... Meh.
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:31 AM
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Sorry about your friend Judgemental people can be awful.
So mad at that clergy person.

The person compared recovery from significant chronic abuse to her personal recovery from situational difficult depressive period in her life.

Said friend was "spoilt" for insisting on private psych hospitalisation (only option to get a room of your own rather than be in a ward). So friend had to explain just why she needs a private room with a toilet door which can lock (because the public psych hospital has a toilet with open doors, and has like 20 beds in a ward and is like prison)...
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:34 AM
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Haha, interesting, thank you
He says there is a chance that my parents are better than I think. That they can support and help me... Meh.
Oh, great...your T is...naive.

No. Please tell him in English or any way you can that they did nothing but hurt you *hugs*

If I were local to you, I'd accompany you and then have a quick word. I did that for my younger brother to ensure his therapists knew they should NEVER ask to meet our parents.
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:39 AM
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Oh, great...your T is...naive.

No. Please tell him in English or any way you can that they did nothing but hurt you *hugs*

If I were local to you, I'd accompany you and then have a quick word. I did that for my younger brother to ensure his therapists knew they should NEVER ask to meet our parents.
Wow, you rock.
I don't know which words to use. How to make him believe me?
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:43 AM
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Wow, you rock.
I don't know which words to use. How to make him believe me?
"They abused me and blamed me when <family member> abused me".

For me I told his therapist "They abused him a lot growing up." and other things which illustrated how them suggesting family counselling wouldn't work like "they believe in conversion therapy, and that mental illness is demon possession"
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:44 AM
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Not really...
He still wants to talk with my family
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:48 AM
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So mad at that clergy person.

The person compared recovery from significant chronic abuse to her personal recovery from situational difficult depressive period in her life.

Said friend was "spoilt" for insisting on private psych hospitalisation (only option to get a room of your own rather than be in a ward). So friend had to explain just why she needs a private room with a toilet door which can lock (because the public psych hospital has a toilet with open doors, and has like 20 beds in a ward and is like prison)...
Urgs. I totally understand your friend and yeah... Of course situational depressive periods can also be awful but it's not really the same. I'd be angry too. (Also totally understand your friend... I freak out when I can't lock the bathroom at home, lol)
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Old Oct 27, 2017, 07:49 AM
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Urgs. I totally understand your friend and yeah... Of course situational depressive periods can also be awful but it's not really the same. I'd be angry too. (Also totally understand your friend... I freak out when I can't lock the bathroom at home, lol)
I hate it when I can't lock doors either *hugs*

of course my room door could be unlocked with keys from the parents but it stopped my abuser brother from creepy staring
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