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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:12 PM
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I do 90 minutes once a week. My T has said that in her specialization having that extra half hour is very beneficial and I've personally found it to be true.
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:20 PM
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Depends on when we actually start and end. Sometimes I come in late and he's just waiting for me or I'm waiting for him because a client is running a little long. I would say, on average, it's 50-60 minutes though.

90 minutes might be nice once in a while. There have definitely been a few times I felt like we've ended things mid-thought. But, at the same time, there are probably more times when 60 minutes is about right or maybe even a little long, especially when he's quizzing me about whether I've done stuff he's asked me to work on
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:23 PM
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I've done 90-minute sessions in the past with my ex-therapist...it was very helpful for me. I would love to do 90-minute sessions with C. Perhaps that'll be a step I'll take when I drop down to 1x per week (ask for one 90-min session).

I see C for 50 minutes twice per week.
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:24 PM
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My sessions are 45 minutes, 4 times per week. I've asked if it would be possible to make two of them into double session and my T rejected that idea by saying that he wouldn't be able to offer me the same quality of intense listening and observation for more than 45 minutes at a time.
I can't even imagine four times a week, both the actual work and trying to schedule that
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:33 PM
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I forgot to mention my session is once a month. Sometimes I wish it were more frequent like with my former T, but then again, I don't know that this T is helping so much so maybe it's for the best. Kit.
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:50 PM
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I can't even imagine four times a week, both the actual work and trying to schedule that
Yeah, when my T proposed this setting I couldn't imagine it either. But I decided to try and now it is organically part of my everyday life. I have always had quite flexible schedule so it has been possible to schedule these sessions. Nowadays all my sessions are in the early morning which suits me well and does not interfere with other stuff in my life.
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:51 PM
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Mine were 50-60 minutes, usually 60 most of the past year. I would have loved 90 minutes even asked one time if she'd consider it as a one time thing and she said we could talk about it but we never did.
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 12:55 PM
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With first T strictly 45 mins. With second T, typically somewhere between 50-60 mins - I did not watch the time and he was never rigid about timing the session and just charged the same fee for a regular session. Usually I just stayed as long as he wanted the session to go and usually we naturally wrapped up after max an hour. I was fine with both the strict timing and the looser one. Most of the time I would have liked to continue but I had things to do as well and it's not like it was painful to leave.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 03:03 AM
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as long as they need to be. we dont have a time limit
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 09:32 AM
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50-60mins long once a month right now
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 09:42 AM
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Almost 2 hours or a bit over that, every time. It helped being last
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 10:08 AM
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60 minits.

well... maybe about 75 once I've finished saying everything I need to

I often say too much and go over 60, and even though the therapist tells me the 60 minits are up she does let me continue to talk about something (if it's quick and won't take all day)
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 10:23 AM
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I've heard that too from others - that their T would flake out after 50-60 minutes, which is the only reason I can think of that mine would say no to 90 - it's just too tiring.
IIRC your T is also a professor. Given university schedules it might be easier for him to find 60-minute blocks of time than it would be to find 90 minutes.

My sessions are 50 minutes long, twice a week.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 10:29 AM
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IIRC your T is also a professor. Given university schedules it might be easier for him to find 60-minute blocks of time than it would be to find 90 minutes.

My sessions are 50 minutes long, twice a week.
I thought about that too. I’m seeing him in two hours so hopefully we Can chat about it and find a solution. I just need more than I’m getting. I would prefer 2x60 mins... but I’ll do whatever is easier for him.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 10:37 AM
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The first 4 years I knew t we were in a residential treatment center where he was my therapist

The Tx center was progressive, and some staff lived on campus . It was a 'healing community'

So naturally T and I talked every day, I saw him twice a week for 50-90 min sessions, but he was pretty much there from 8-5 every day..even holidays

After t left the program I saw him for 50 minutes twice a week. This continued for 3 years

Last year we went down to once a week for 50 minutes which is what it currently is...although I miss weeks here and there...
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 12:41 PM
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My sessions are usually 50 mins. We might go over a min or two, but not by much.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 12:45 PM
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An hour. Sometimes she seems like she doesnt want to be in session that long though.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 02:52 PM
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45 minutes, 3/week. Occasionally we go over by a few minutes. Lately we've been doing a fairly regular 10 minute phone check-in on Sunday morning (which I pay for).
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 03:00 PM
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He said no to 90 minute sessions . But I’m gonna work on him - he said mainly because of the time we meet. I’d be willing to change the time if it meant longer sessions. I’ll work on him next week tho.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 03:18 PM
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Almost 2 hours or a bit over that, every time. It helped being last
What did you pay for? Just wondering if this is an example of his flexible boundaries so only answer if you wish, no worries.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 05:57 PM
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60 minutes, but he sometimes goes over, but not often or by much (sigh)
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 06:20 PM
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Typically 50-60 minutes. She usually sets a timer, but lets things wrap up naturally. Occasionally, especially around a year ago, we'd go over the hour by 15-20 minutes, but that was only if we were in the middle of something pretty challenging.

Usually there is not a client scheduled immediately after me and I allow myself some post-therapy to real life transition time in my schedule, so we've both got some time to be a little flexible with time.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 06:26 PM
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 06:27 PM
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My current T started off once a week in The summer when we started. Then after I ended up in the hospital for SH he asked if I wanted to up it to 2x. We were doing that until October because I also had an EMDR T that I was seeing 1x a week. Now that ended I've been going 3x a week for 50 minutes. He's always on time, practically to the minute, and ends on time, give or take a few minutes. At the beginning of the month he offered me to come in a 4th time one week but that's the only time he's offered that.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 08:37 PM
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about 55 minutes - 2x week
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