Couch 191: The Lazy Caterer Couch

You guys have tips on how not to be a couch potato and be more productive in life??

Hey guys. I think ATAT feels need to take a minute to catch her breath but said I can share that info was wearing distressed jeans today with holes in the knee.
So there’s Info’s weekly outfit update. Stay tuned.

I'd like to say nothing wrong with distressed jeans in general, as I wear them sometimes (despite being in my early 40s), but I also wouldn't wear them for anything professional, including a session with a client if I were a therapist.

And hope @@ is OK

i am not the best person to answer this hopefully someone else will have ideas welcome

I think I'll be able to let things go and be able to sleep tonight without obsessing about tomorrow's phone call.

What new approach did he suggest?

Hi, I sent you a private message.

H went to the hospital again. And he lied to me twice. He said his doctor emailed him. When I asked to see the email, he said his computer was asleep and he didn't feel like proving it to me. Then he said he talked to his doctor on the phone. I asked to see his phone. It showed him making a call to the doctor's office at 7pm, but nothing incoming. And the doctor doesn't answer after hours. He has an answering service that will call him, but he'd have to call back from a blocked number.

Anyone recommend a good divorce lawyer?

that i use a written narratve approach and we put a time limit on it. instead of just wandering round in circles like we have been doing the past couple of years.

I hope you get the results soon. I think not knowing and waiting on them to get results is quite stressful.

I hope you hear back soon.

I think usually they should remain in the liver. Their presence may indicate inflammation or liver damage.

It's okay to go at your pace, some days you can do more others less. Just build up slowly like Una said.

ATAT I hope you'll get your results soon and that you're going to be okay!

Hugs, Scarlet, your husband lying to you sucks

Hugs to everyone else who can need one today.

Ugh, I'm sorry.

Wow another thread that closed actually reopened. LT held that title for so long. Now she has to share. .

I guess I should go get ready to leave for work. It’s Friday m, right? After yesterday’s falling out-it may do me some good to show up on time.

I think I may be in need of medication again. One should not tell their boss to step the f**k back. Unfiltered Jersey can put Jersey in quite a predicament if she doesn’t check herself.

Sigh.. well I have just a short time to shower and get out the door. At least I can show up looking like a bum. I do however like to be a clean smelling bum so
Off I go.

maybe find something small that you enjoy that you can do easily and then build on that?

I got some sleep. Now I've just got to try to distract myself. Basic coping skills, I should know how to do this by now.

I slept for like 10 hours last night and woke up without a headache first time since Tuesday. This makes Artie happy! Also I'm not doing overtime today so I 'slept in' until 5am (I'm usually already working by then), got up and took a shower, got dresses, had a healthy breakfast, and went for a walk. I walked to the stoplight at the top of the hill and back and then did my usual morning break route, total 1.22 miles done for the day. That felt good, a great way to start the day! Now i'm watching a video of SpaceX's crew Dragon coming back home after undocking from the space station. Gotta start working in 20 minutes.

....and they just splashed down!

The last two times I saw baby T, we have discussed regret, as I have so much of it with T. Each time the final email comes up and baby T asks me what it said and if I feel any sort of resolution to it now. I couldn't remember so I just said it was important and emotional stuff but I don't know

For the first time since I sent it in Dec, I just re-read. Trying not to be angry at myself but there was so many things there that really needed to be addressed and would probably have made this so much easier on me now.

Anyway, would you bring it to baby T and read it next time (tues?) is there any usefulness in this? Also I said to him that I didn't want to talk about it when T asked because I wanted the last session to be happy so I didn't want to go there but... that's only part of it. T actually replied to that email. It was a really crappy reply (his last email) and that is the main reason I chose not to. I felt dismissed and knowing that there would only be this final session to "Fix" it all, I opted out. Would that be worth telling baby T? I'm just unsure what really matters at this point. Not like any of it changes anything

Tasty feelings...

Hugs DP and Lost, and anybody else who needs/wants...

We are having a cold, wet, chilly spring break here. It is not springy at all.

If it were me, I probably would. It doesn't really matter 'what matters'. You obviously feel something about that email and your Ts reply, and that's worth discussing in therapy, since your therapy is centered around the termination with your T. It might not be the same as discussing it with your T, but it can still be helpful to just share it with somebody and to have somebody listen and maybe even give some useful input.