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Old Dec 20, 2019, 06:50 PM
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People keep saying I did such a good job to look after my son when he was sick, despite the anxiety and ocd that has happened since so maybe EMDR did something because a year ago I would have just left lol
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 06:51 PM
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Yes, but what you expect and what you deserve are two different things. Taking care of three children, one of whom is rather difficult, I mean, you are taking care of these people's most valuable possessions (not that they own their children or anything, just can't think of a better way to say it). I think you deserve quite a big bonus. We got a small bonus at work this year. I didn't think we were going to get one because the new owners just took over in mid-June and the books haven't been great, but we made a little money so they gave us a little money, not a lot, but more than I expected. Did I deserve more? Yeah, most definitely. Did I expect more? No. I think you deserve a whole lot of bonuses and they could at least give you a nice thank you card with a gift card to go out to dinner or something. Just know that I think you have done remarkably well in this job and if they didn't tell you thank you, shame on them. I'll say it for them. "Thank you Jersey for taking care of these precious children."
I 110% agree with this, you deserve something for sure, you take care of something so precious.
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 06:52 PM
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Suddenly, I feel like I sound very British. Do people outside of the UK know what I am muntering on about?
If you start saying she needs another jumper you might lose people.
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 08:26 PM
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If you start saying she needs another jumper you might lose people.


Eta - that cleared my sinuses laughing!
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 10:58 PM
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OMG just saw Wil Smith down at the beach with 2 in-your-face bodyguards. Hes in a remote place i dont know why he has 2 bodyguards one would do here
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 11:11 PM
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OMG just saw Wil Smith down at the beach with 2 in-your-face bodyguards. Hes in a remote place i dont know why he has 2 bodyguards one would do here
Because just 1 would look like a boyfriend?
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 11:25 PM
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Because just 1 would look like a boyfriend?
Yeah, but 2 looks like a menage a trois.

You know, like when you and lemon and SD go out together.

ETA: if anyone wants a Netflix rec and likes documentaries, I just finished The Confession Killer. And for horror Black Spot was good too. Kind of like Dark.
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 11:28 PM
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Christmas kittens!


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Old Dec 20, 2019, 11:35 PM
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How does old crotchety cat feel about this?
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 11:43 PM
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Black-and-white kitty is at my niece's, fluffy kitty is still at her home and will be picked up Monday and delivered to niece's house. I will bring them both home Christmas Eve afternoon and the boys will meet them when they get home in the evening. I am SO excited!

Oh...eta...so crotchety cat is blissfully ignorant.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 03:58 AM
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Christmas kittens!


Couch 209: The Kummer Couch

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Oh their beautiful the bottom one looks French. I want another kitten now.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 04:27 AM
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As shirley temple would say, oh my goo'ness!
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 05:49 AM
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Decided to go inpatient despite my therapist’s and psychiatrist’s advice. They admitted me in a heartbeat, of course. Am safe now.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 06:01 AM
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The session I booked with another T for my sister today cancelled. The company said they'd give me a refund though.


Did anyone see a T as a adolescent?


I saw a T for several months in 8th grade. Had to practically beg my parents to take me.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 08:04 AM
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I saw a T for several months in 8th grade. Had to practically beg my parents to take me.

I saw a T for a bit when I was 12 and having lots of anxiety issues, like didn't want to go to school and stuff like that. Then I wanted to see one when I was 17 (depression), but my mom said no. Ended up seeing one in college for some of freshman year.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 08:18 AM
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Decided to go inpatient despite my therapist’s and psychiatrist’s advice. They admitted me in a heartbeat, of course. Am safe now.
You made the right choice - am glad you are safe.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 08:25 AM
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Decided to go inpatient despite my therapist’s and psychiatrist’s advice. They admitted me in a heartbeat, of course. Am safe now.
I’m glad you decided to do what you think is best for you.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 08:41 AM
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Because of all the Cats discussion:
How Many Times Do the Cats in Cats Say “Cats”?
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 08:57 AM
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Are movies crowded on Christmas Day? That might be a good time to see Cats.

I probably owe her for sitting through Return of the Jedi when I was a kid.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 09:36 AM
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Around here movie theaters are packed on xmas day.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 10:45 AM
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Yeah, but 2 looks like a menage a trois.

You know, like when you and lemon and SD go out together.
I just watched the Frasier episode yesterday where Roz thinks that's what Niles and Daphne are offering rather than fruit salad.

I'm in if you are.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 10:47 AM
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Are movies crowded on Christmas Day? That might be a good time to see Cats.

I probably owe her for sitting through Return of the Jedi when I was a kid.
Do you guys have boxing day in the US?

Maybe it would be quieter the day after when everyone is out shopping.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 10:48 AM
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Are movies crowded on Christmas Day? That might be a good time to see Cats.

I probably owe her for sitting through Return of the Jedi when I was a kid.
I hear they CGI'd Idris Elba, not in a good way. So it will be safe to take mom.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 10:50 AM
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Do you guys have boxing day in the US?

Maybe it would be quieter the day after when everyone is out shopping.
No thats truly crazy day. You cant even get near the malls. And the movie houses are often near shopping malls.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 10:52 AM
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I just watched the Frasier episode yesterday where Roz thinks that's what Niles and Daphne are offering rather than fruit salad. I'm in if you are.
Have you seen those youtube videos where two big dogs are fighting and then some mean little dog gets between them and settles their shyte?
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