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<font color="green"> I rarely have a dream once although I may dream the same dream slightly different. My therapist says that do a lot processing in my dreams. I don’t know but a recent ‘set ‘of dreams has me scratching my head.
I see myself or just am about 4 or 5 years old and something happens – I fall and skin a knee or stub my toe or get stung by a bee and go running into the house crying for Mommy. When I get there, Mommy is my therapist. She fixes up whatever the problem is with tenderness and sends me on my way happy again with a hug or pat on the back. When I am watching myself, I feel so confused; I know she is not Mommy, but when I just am, well it feels so right. Then I wake up and confusion reigns. My therapist is out of town this week and my next appointment had to be a couple days further apart than usual [wah wah, lol] but it feels a lot longer to me. Whatever this is all about I find myself talking to a pix of her or to the pillow she gave me for a transition item a lot about how I love her. It feels so wrong and so right and soooo confusing! </font>
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Sounds like your dreams are trying to comfort and reassure you! That's great. I use to love having my T or my husband in a dream because it meant that whatever happened in the dream, no matter how scary or difficult, it was okay to look at it and think about it, I'd be okay and able to process it.
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