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May 25, 2005, 07:16 PM
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My heart says I love him but my head says He's not good enough for you. I am going to win him back somehow and I think I know what I'm going to do...
When I come back to school after 3 weeks missed I'm gonna give him one big hug first break time unspected and won't let go of him! |
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May 25, 2005, 07:23 PM
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... Miss A....
I don't think that's such a good idea. If you want him back, you have to accept that HE needs to be part of the decision, too. You can't make him want you and I caution you about having such strong determination to "win him back". We have to take "no" for an answer. In the same way that you don't want a boy to go too far and to respect you when you say "no, that's enough", you need to respect him when he says "no, I don't want to be back together with you". Let's think of something other than the hug. It's not a good plan. Any other ideas?
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May 25, 2005, 08:33 PM
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But he says he need one from me! So I'm going to at the right time anyway! Thanks...
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May 25, 2005, 11:02 PM
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I support LMo on this one. There is an old saying -- If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours.
Making someone love us or even need us and pretend or mistake it for love just leads to heartbreak down the line.
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May 25, 2005, 11:41 PM
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But what should I say to him. Are friendship is compilcated, he knows how I feel and won't give me a answer back to if he feels the same way. Should I say that I'm over him. The thing is he comes back to me only for a hug. Then again he's special to me.
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May 26, 2005, 04:55 PM
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You don't sound very over him to me. If he really feels the same way, he won't be able to stop himself from telling you.
Don't show your cards so quickly. If he wants a hug, when you see him in person, wait until he asks for it. And even then, make it a quick hug. Having an open heart is a wonderful thing... with the right person. My recommendation is that you be only as open as he is; not more so, for now.
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May 26, 2005, 05:42 PM
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Miss A, i know that it is sooooo hard to not tip your hand, when you're around him. it sounds to me, like LMo, that you're not over him. play hard to get.......don't wear your feelings on your sleeve. if he likes you, he'll come around. xoxo pat
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May 26, 2005, 06:10 PM
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ok I will starting with my.... ex!
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May 30, 2005, 04:24 AM
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bump
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