Call me crazy, But I love him!

Ok, last night I went to this christianing for two twins.
I met a guy who at first was staring at me.
He's really nice, I know he is one year older than me.
But he thinks I'm older and I said I'm 14.
Then he said that I'm mature for my age.
Any way. We went on a walk around the area.
Got from holding hands, drinking, hugging and then
I didn't except it we went behind a farm house barn thing.
Then he kissed me but I mean the real thing.
French kissing with tounges and it was so great.
He didn't believe I never done it before.
Any way we talked a lot about stuff.
It's really weird even got the same phone as me.
Then he lifted me up on the hay stack, I know.
The sun set was going down. We both were looking
at the sky and cuddle up to each other.
Then we kind of stop talking and just look into each others eyes for a moment. The whole thing we were both together like couples. He said that he love's me and I just couldn't believe it. We were so open to eachother about stuff.
Then I asked him, if he is a virgin and he said yes, he is.
That was great because so am I. Any way he ased me the same thing and I said I am a virgin too. Then he said that's good. Because I don't think I'm ready yet and I said same here. I got really cold being in a dress, so he got on top of me and just huged me. We went back to the party and the adults were drunk as usall. Then I met his parents and they are nice to me. Embrassing him though bless. We did a lot even played football (soccer) together. I've got his phone number and he's got mine. We will ring eachother and write and meet up again some time. He's so cute and nice and funny and sensitive a bit and strong and loads more. He's likes the same music as me. I really like like this guy! Even got a picture of him together. We even danced outside somewhere, where no one could see us. I had to go and well I went to the toilet upstairs. Then he came up and gave me one last night good bye kiss. I went home and mum gave me one of those lectures and dad was so cool about it. I miss him already. I will phone him. I dunno if we are going out but I take it as best friends kind of thing.
Call me crazy, but I love him!

Ah, to be young again!! I remember those 14 yr old crushes!

Ayesha, Hun... you're not in love and neither is he. You don't know enough about each other yet. Yes, there is a strong mutual attraction, but for now, that's all it is. Don't let your innocent heart overule your head, ok? Don't do something you might regret later. Your heart, without the help of your mind, can REALLY get you in trouble! Just ask me... even at MY age!

We can talk about it through PM if you like, as the relationship progresses, ok?

I remember too.....that blond haired, blue eyed guy who, at age 13, told me that I had the most beautiful eyes he'd ever seen.....sigh.....
I dreamt of him for months....cried to songs that made me think of him.....and endlessly imagined our future together.....
I won't tell you not to take this seriously, because you will go through the process no matter what....just keep your head on straight...and remember....there are many princes to be met before you truly know it's real...And when it's real....you're going to think it's even more wonderful.(though right now, I don't guess you feel like it could be better)....Enjoy the experience....Grace

Thank you MacD & Mom.
I know but we've talked about sex and said that we both are not ready etc...
It's really good because we keep on talking on the phone and texting and going to meet up again soon.
I wonder if long distance relationships work?
I mean he's not that far away from me.
I know SeptemberMorn what you are saying but he's really not like that. He said that he had feelings for me even after the party and that he missed me. Ok, MacD I don't want to meet a prince, just want to find the right guy. He seems to be the one, having quite a few things in common.
I'm just not sure about something...
How far is going far with love?
We both really want this to work.
We talked a lot about stuff.
Then I said something really not me.
I said that I'm fat.
Then he said to me your not.
You need to eat more.
It's easy to talk about anything to him.
I know what you mean as lke it's to soon.
But I like like like him.
And he said that he love's me.
I'll keep you updated on this a bit.

Hi Miss A,

Well,

First thing - go for it and enjoy it.

Second thing - If this guy says that he likes you, and likes things about you (he said that you're not fat, for instance) - believe him!

You have a lifetime to worry about thinking negatively, and this is definitely not the time to start. You are attractive Miss A, and maybe it's time you faced up to it!



Cheers, M

PS - Don't we just like hearing good news on Psych Central.

Thank you, for the goodlucks.

Can't wait to see him again!

di di dum di di dum

Long distance relationships- My mother knows a couple who have been making it work for the past four years. She lives over here in England, and he lives in NY. They see each other a couple of times a year, but they are convinced they are for each other. However they are getting on in their lives, and have experienced other lovers.
That's one example that shows that it can be done-and made to look like it's working, except we don't know how each feels. We don't know about the little details, cheating, lying? If we asked them to honestly answer, we might find out that they hate the situation.

I had one myself which began when i was 16. He was living in London, and about 14 months into the relationship i even moved to live with him. We'd argued and slagged off each other numerous times, and the only option(we thought) was to be right next to each other. I thought it was the distance that was killing the bond. But of course it was all lies afterall. And finally being together never worked. From the age of 16-18 i was obsessing over nothing.

Point is, you're very young. Boys lie. Especially young ones. Sounds really harsh, but i'm having it at the moment with my brother; he's 15 (about the age of your new guy, right?) and he's my best friend. The person i'm closest to in the whole world.

He's forgotten all that and keeps standing me up for the sake of girls. He's currently got 4 to worry about.
Two of them have boyfriends already (and he's slept with all four of them) and one of the girls boyfriends wants to beat him up. Another one is actually my friend who is slightly older than me, and she's staying with us at the moment, but they seem to have forgotten i exist. And the other lives about an hour away.

My brother is the most talented, and decent, person i know- and is especially mature for his age. Except at this time hormones take over, and they become monsters out for all they can get.

I'm sure my brother comments on their eyes, and tries to make them feel special. But when you actually find something, it won't mean a thing. Boys will say anything (and so can girls).

Listen to what the others have said, and DO keep your head on. Just because you've both decided you're not ready for sex, and you have a few connections, nothing is set in stone. Be careful when you see it falling apart, because you might find yourself deeper than you were before.

I totally agree with you. Relationships have never been my good thing. But me and him really wants to make this work! Maybe I'm not in love but I feel like I can poor my emotions on to him and he can catch it all for me. If that makes any sense at all. Still keeping everything possitive... if I think something is up, I would confront it with him. I'm taking my chances on him, he likes me for who I am!

Every relationship is a risk....but hey, nothing ventured, nothing gained. If nothing more, this guy could end up being the "one" or even just the best "guy friend" you ever had. Good Luck!
Grace

We'll see! Although i'm hoping this is something good for you, I can't help thinking (it's the age thing, i know) that all your hopes will be ruined all too soon.

But we'll all be here (if it happens) and i have every confidence this is all in the name of learning!

Miss_A, a word of advise. Don't overwhelm him with your problems and your emotions. Just take it as it comes, ok?

Enjoy this first romance. have fun. Enjoy all The wonderful emotions. This is all a part of becoming an Adult. Of being a whole person. Your not ready to hear some of the words of caution that others have posted. Still keep them in the back of your mind. We have all had first loves. if you are lucky if he is really a great guy. You will then have beautiful memories for the rest of your life about this first love.

Good to hear you are happy miss A!!!
larks