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Oct 18, 2005, 11:50 PM
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I am 29 F Canadian and tired of being single! Where should I go to find single men that are emotionally stable and wanting to be in a relationship?
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Oct 19, 2005, 12:45 AM
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i wish i knew love the gizmo pic not emotionally stablr man bit jus where to get a relationship ( im a bloke by the way 22, single i live in britain though so u can see why i was attracted by the dublin name 1 thing though i got severe depression so i suppose im emotionally stable cos emotionally im petty lifeless
 ).sorry had reply im not as crazy as i sound honest 
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Oct 19, 2005, 04:58 PM
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Stay away from online dating. It was terrible for me. Nothing but a bunch of players. Maybe, I just picked the wrong guys or something. Other people find their spouses there so what do I know? I guess you could try friends and family to hook you up?
I hope you find that special somebody soon!!!  You too, Nico! And me!
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Oct 19, 2005, 05:12 PM
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Jax...!!!
That is a very interesting observation about online dating. Like you, I wonder how people meet their "lifemates" thru that venue, since I've only met players and users. Dublin75, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you to meet prospective partners. Try to focus on your own life, finding contentment, and finding interesting activities, interest groups. Probably a better chance of meeting a man that way than thru the Internet singles. Seeker |
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Oct 19, 2005, 06:05 PM
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Visiting a church, taking a college or community college class, joining something like a garden club, family or friends's suggestions, and repuable dating services are possibilities. You never know when the right person will accidently bump into you. Good luck.
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#6
Oct 19, 2005, 07:23 PM
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I couldn't agree more with you about internet dating! Not that the men have the market cornered on this one but...90% of the men are only wanting a "special friend" and nothing more aka players.
(Have a bucket to collect your urine...you will need it after reading this...because you will laugh so hard!) The last and final internet date I had was with a man that was very nice and intelligent. He later informed me as we were kissing that he had genital warts! Thank God that we didnt have sex! OMG 
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#7
Oct 19, 2005, 07:44 PM
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I'm really laughing out loud at this, Dublin!
OMG!!!  Seeker "patty" |
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Oct 19, 2005, 07:44 PM
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EEEEeeeeewww!!! Whew! Got away from that one not a moment too soon!
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#9
Oct 19, 2005, 08:06 PM
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how do you know if your a player a user or a warty guy
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Oct 19, 2005, 08:10 PM
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lol, a warty guy?
A player is someone who's just trying to get you into bed-that's it. No real attempt at a relationship or anything. Seeing how many women he can get into bed with. That's how I see them. |
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#11
Oct 19, 2005, 08:24 PM
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im 22 year old virgin lol so i defeinitly aint a player so sad it makes me wanna laugh
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#12
Oct 19, 2005, 08:27 PM
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LOL...a warty guy!!
I've met many mentally warty guys!!! Seeker |
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#13
Oct 19, 2005, 08:43 PM
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Nico, I know being a virgin in this day and age seems like the end of the world. But it's not.
Sex is not as big of a deal as the media/people make it out to be. If you're worried about it-PM me and we'll talk. K? (((((NICO))))) |
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#14
Oct 19, 2005, 08:47 PM
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do i seem like a mentally warty guy, i wont take offence honest
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Oct 19, 2005, 09:14 PM
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Nico...speaking from the standpoint of a senior here...being age 55, I can tell you that you are a precious rarity...not a "warty" guy at all. Keep the faith!
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#16
Oct 19, 2005, 09:24 PM
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this is my own insecurity here but why is it easier to believe negative commnets about oneself rather than extremly positive. can you give me a negative observation pls, but make it constructive in a way that i can see it through your eyes and decide whether that aspect of me needs adjustin......where did that come from, you must of stimulated somethin in me
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#17
Oct 19, 2005, 09:35 PM
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NICO, I don't know if your last post was directed at my statements, but I see no reason for any negative comments toward you whatsoever!!! Why would you even think you deserved such? You have stated that you are 22 and a virgin. Those are both positive things in my opinion. I am betting you are a very intelligent and attractive young man, and that you are wise to have withheld sexual activity in favor of waiting for the right opportunity....when it will have real meaning for you and your partner!! That's great!!
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#18
Oct 19, 2005, 09:56 PM
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i honestly dont see bein a virgin a blessin, mabe if i was in a lovin relationship and still a virgin that really would be a blessin.....ok lets forget the virgin thing it doesnt matter, what i am really seekin is a partener who understands me, values me as an equal and some one who i can hold in my arms and get 100 times the pleasure than i would havin a 1 night orgy of ecstacy with some one i dont know.
even though i havent felt this way about a woman b4 i believe it is possible
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Oct 19, 2005, 10:28 PM
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I actually met my husband in doc john's old forum at wbs almost 9 years ago. For the most part we are still doing well. But I think it would depend on how/where online you meet someone as to whether they are just players or are really serious. Just have to pick where you find them and not be looking for a relationship. Just be friends first then see what happens
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Oct 19, 2005, 10:35 PM
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ill stick around then , you never know i may get lucky.some one could actually be lookin for a 22 yearold mental recluse
  
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#21
Oct 20, 2005, 12:25 AM
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and internet dating!!! I have been chatting to one guy for about a year, we met, he is a raging alcoholic with a few other bits of baggage. I met one guy who seemed very nice, we met twice and then nothing!! I agree, they are players, in the sense that, they will chat to you and get into your mind with the charming and thoughtful things they say.... dont believe it, a genuine person is the one that you would find in the supermarket looking at old vegetables or meals for one!! Take care good people!!
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Oct 20, 2005, 05:51 AM
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you are makin me feel paranoid now
so ive got hang around in supermarkets now?/ 
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#23
Oct 20, 2005, 02:09 PM
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I've dated someone who I met online, they're not ALL like that.
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