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Sep 08, 2005, 12:29 AM
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<font color="#000088">I Finally got it! I got STUPID wrote on my forhead!!!!!!! Thanks I just wanted to get that off my chest !
Beth </font>
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Sep 08, 2005, 01:30 AM
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Beth,
You wanted to get that off your chest except you said it was written on your forhead???????   confussed.....LOLI really think you just need to get rid of the "STUPID" thing cause you just aren't. Feel better, Debbie
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Sep 08, 2005, 07:25 AM
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your not stupid and please do not call yourself that...your a special and kind person who offers lots of support and comfort here in the forums....please be easy on yourself...take care
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Sep 08, 2005, 07:43 AM
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What happened?
 You're not stupid. Never stupid. 
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Sep 08, 2005, 08:49 AM
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Sep 08, 2005, 09:43 AM
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 you are not stupid!! you are loving and kind..xoxo pat
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Sep 08, 2005, 10:29 AM
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whatever it is that you got, it was the wrong thing if it told you that you're stupid.
you're far from that, lady. be safe, kd
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Sep 08, 2005, 11:57 AM
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Well why is it that people get the impression they think I am or maybe not in so many words tell me I am? I leave myself open to almost all of you ... I try my best to be honest , straight forward , caring ... although my issues sometimes get in the way and I am sorry they do but I am entitled to have bad days too I think.Unless my mind is failing me... I think I do try to apologize when this happens. Theres not a one of you that I wouldnt lay my life down for! Thats how much I care!!!!!!! I guess I am tired of all the guessing games everyone wants me to play. If someone has a problem with me, I want it discussed between the two of us and if needed a trusted friend is fine. I dont like "things" hainging over my head! Recently I was told that I needed a certain kind of therapy... I denied it at first... I didnt want to hear it! BUT!... after I had thought about it ...internalized it more...even discussed it a second time with my T..I am DEALING WITH IT! My reactions to your problems with me may not always be the best... but they dont go unthought of, and if need be undealt with. I Want to be a better person.. But I need some of you to communicate with me ok? I need you to stick it out with me ... I am trying here very hard! Thanks, I guess thats all I got to say for now.
Hugz~ Beth
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Sep 08, 2005, 01:34 PM
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Beth, a true friend won't say or do hurtful things to you. Yes, misunderstandings and arguments will occur, but intentional hurting, no.
I know you believe you deserve to be mistreated, but here's a newsflash. YOU DON'T! Put yourself first for a while, you are that important. Your real friends will not only understand your choice, but they will support it. A true friend doesn't love you in spite of your faults, the love you because of them. 
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#10
Sep 08, 2005, 01:53 PM
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Those thoughts are good Erin, but when I do that... They say I am selfish and I am only thinking of myself... I am beginnning to think there is NO HEALTHY BALANCE at all in this life!!!!!!! As hard as my mind wants to give up on things... my heart is this tenacious part of me that cannot give up on anyone or anything ,... no matter how much I get hurt.. it just wants to love and to be loved and cared for.
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Sep 08, 2005, 01:55 PM
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Then they aren't true friends Beth. Taking time to make sure you are healthy is normal. In fact, I expect my friends to do that. Maybe you need to reconsider these "friends"? Fair weather friends can be just as hurtful.
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Sep 08, 2005, 02:39 PM
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Erin...you know me.. I cant give up on them..Its just being part of me.
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Sep 08, 2005, 03:14 PM
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Debbie,
Hon you just joined me then in my confusion! The thoughts is what I got off my chest! The STUPID is on the forehead! Yer Silly! Thanks~! Hugz~ Bethy
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Sep 08, 2005, 03:20 PM
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Hope~
Thanks for thinking that of me.A big part of me wants to believe it but then.... grrrrrrrrrrr between what goes on inside and some outside influences ...it wont let the thought go. I could do alot better with the support thing though. I guess at times...I dont know what to say and I dont feel like being a repeat of what others say. Hmmm Beth over easy like eggs over easy ? LOL Is that the kind of easy your talkin about? LOL JK!!!!!!!!!  Thanks!Hugz~ Bethy
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Sep 08, 2005, 03:22 PM
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uhuhh sure Erin sure! lol
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Sep 08, 2005, 03:23 PM
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I think you'll get some of it jen after you read some of the posts sorry! Take care!
Hugz~ Bethy
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Sep 08, 2005, 03:25 PM
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OOOOOOOooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOO Pat Thanks! LOL I just dont know for sure though. Sorry! But thanks for thinking of me ..I appreciate it.
Hugz~ Bethy
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Sep 08, 2005, 03:32 PM
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Kimmy~It was the lightbulb moment hon... it finally snapped for me.. . Wrong or not...thats how it feels and alot of it I know is just me feeling , reading , seeing things into what people aay to me , do thru actions and such. But when it happens constantly and almost predictiveably( is that a word? LOL) it makes you wonder why . I really just want to be ok... and be a good person. Thanks for your reply.
Hugz~ Bethy
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Sep 08, 2005, 09:06 PM
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Sep 08, 2005, 09:46 PM
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((((((((((Beth)))))))))
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Sep 09, 2005, 03:43 PM
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You are NOT stupid! Maybe you make wrong choices at times but NEVER stupid! Because of your abuse, you have developed some coping mechanisms that aren't right, but your heart is in the right place. Maybe now, after our long talk, you'll understand that you can't get oranges from an avocado tree! LOL Get the picture?
 Keep your self save, Bethy!
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Sep 09, 2005, 04:02 PM
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 I gotcha ! And you know what? NO matter what people do or say about me......... This girl is gonna go places and be someone ! No ones gonna get me down like I was for all these years!!!!!!!!  Now I realize that in reality its gonna take time... and I am ok with that.Sooo , thanks for the talk! I appreciate you taking the time out for me! Love ya!!!!!! Hugz~ Bethy
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Sep 09, 2005, 04:07 PM
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Well fine!
I'm just glad you know you are worth it. You're the best Bethy. You didn't get this way overnight and you can't undo it overnight. ((((((((((Bethy))))))))))
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Sep 09, 2005, 04:08 PM
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You keep that attitude, Hun! But please don't forget... STOP! THINK... ACT (don't REact) You're gonna be OK!
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Sep 12, 2005, 12:53 AM
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Have been gone for awhile, Bethy you are an awesome lady, if IU could I'd come there and hug some trust into you, never doubt yourself and always see all sides to a conversation
Love ya Angie
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