hubby and I - renewed love

I'm the girl who was betrayed by the so-called friend. The friend who shared all my secrets with the man I love, my husband, my life.....the amazing part about the whole thing is that it actually has brought us closer together and I forgot what brought us together in the first place. It's awesome! I am "in love" again, with my husband. Isn't that great? I suppose I should really be thanking the .....!!! I just pray she disappears and doesn't hurt anyone else. Explain to me how people can be so ugly?

well i am not much help on the explaining part because i have no idea why people do the things they do. however, i'm very glad that things worked out for you. i hope it continues to get better!



-shadow

Happened to us as well. I'm the guy and my wife would probably post the same message that you did.

People come into your life for a reason, and they exit your life for a reason. I know there is far more to life than what we in our bodies are doing day to day. If you really are spiritual, you may find the ability to stretch your imagination to think that something, somehow helped out your situation by causing whatever pain you had to endure to get there. Enjoy it and learn from it.

Well, can't explain why some people can be so ugly. But the same thing happened to me, and yes we became closer and our marriage, deeper. They too were "just friends" turned out they were more than "just friends". I only met her a couple of times at company functions and when she would have to call our house about "work" with my husband, they use to go on business trips, overseas, oh, and of course I use to hear "the group and I are going to Paris". . .
Well, it's in the past, and even though it was horrible then, in an odd way it brought you closer to your hubby, as well as this did for my hubby and me.
Too bad, sometimes good things come out of bad.
But for now let's just enjoy and be thankful for the future days we have.
Take care now,
DE

(((((((((((((( Lisa ))))))))))))))))))))))))

A quick update -
things with my husband and I are going better than ever. That witch that thought she could destroy my life, only brought my hubby and I closer. I suppose everything in life happens for a reason and God never gives us more than we can handle. Each day it becomes easer and my husband even gave me a beautiful diamond solitare ring for my 40th birthday. He said, "this is to new beginnings". thanks to all of you! You helped me more than you know.

im in the uk and i have a ex friend that worked so hard to break my marriage up , my husband became obsessed by her within leaving me after 2wks they had a relationship which fell apart , me and my husband started talking and she interfered again sad thing iwas depressed at the time been on meds for a while but i couldnt handle the thought of him remaining friends with her and tried to kill myself, she took him back and played him for 2 more wks before saying she loved him and then txted him it was over, he then tried to take his own life which he nearly did i was in contact with him at this point and stayed very good friends , untill we decided thatwe try again slowly for past 6 wks hes been making every effort to come home when he was ready but this all took a turn for the worse this week as he started feeling very low confused and didnt know what he wanted hes been treated with depression then doc changed his meds he has come to the conclusion that he has to have closure with this woman im just hopping we can get back to being a family but i have to be paitent